The BF2s girl-problems thread

2009-07-27 18:25:01

#1201

eskimo_sammyjoe: Did someone say tea?; +112|6447|S.A. Australia

Winston_Churchill wrote:
Well update from here http://forums.bf2s.com/viewtopic.php?pi … 6#p2720886

I ended up calling the girl on Saturday (6 days later) and got her to give me a chance to bring back that 'spark' she said was missing. So now I have to blow her away to impress her enough to get her back...

So far what I have planned is:
going out to laser quest - its fun and shes an in-the-closet trekkie
go to a park or somewhere semi-private and outside
get 2 gameboy colours and a bunch of games and one of those link cables and play/battle each other. She loves gameboys and retro games and is obsessed with pokemon (I'm getting mortal kombat, donkey kong and a few others, she'll like them)
she mentioned she really wanted this dinosaur sandwich cutter from the grocery store she works at so i think im gonna make pb&j sandwiches cut from that and bring them along with other random cute food (like goldfish etc)
while we were together i went on vacation to cape cod and got her a sweater from there since she said she's always wanted to go so i'll give her that too
lastly, might go to a really fancy and delicious ice cream parlour.

Thoughts? Suggestions?

If you honestly think she'll enjoy all of that, go for it. Theres no point in asking us about it because a) we dont know her, and b) Most of us will probably just flame you.

For the record I think its very imaginative and slightly childish in the good kind of way All the best to you sir.

Serious Flex

2009-07-27 18:26:22

#1202

SonderKommando: Eat, Lift, Grow, Repeat....; +564|6872|The darkside of Denver

Red Forman wrote:
This thread reminds me of this

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTnq268y2ms

lol, fo sho!!! I cant believe there is over 50 pages of this drek. I remember growing up I asked my FATHER this kind of shit...

Last edited by SonderKommando (2009-07-27 18:27:07)

2009-07-27 18:41:23

#1203

Hurricane2k9: Pendulous Sweaty Balls; +1,538|5914|College Park, MD

Winston_Churchill wrote:
Marble Slab Creamery, I think its Canadian, not sure though. I've never seen it in the states, but I heard theyre making Tims/MSC combo stores now

They've got them in the US.

I went to Cows over in Niagara on the Lake, it was really good. Haven't had maple walnut in ages.

https://static.bf2s.com/files/user/36793/marylandsig.jpg

2009-07-27 18:59:13

#1204

Winston_Churchill: Bazinga!; +521|6951|Toronto | Canada

Hurricane2k9 wrote:
Winston_Churchill wrote:
Marble Slab Creamery, I think its Canadian, not sure though. I've never seen it in the states, but I heard theyre making Tims/MSC combo stores now
They've got them in the US.

I went to Cows over in Niagara on the Lake, it was really good. Haven't had maple walnut in ages.

Haha, come to Canada, every ice cream place has it. Even the random small places do. My residence had like 6 flavours of ice cream and that was one of them ffs

2009-07-27 19:38:40

#1205

Gooners: Wiki Contributor; +2,700|6845

Winston_Churchill wrote:
Marble Slab Creamery, I think its Canadian, not sure though. I've never seen it in the states, but I heard theyre making Tims/MSC combo stores now

Went there the other day, it's like a Canadian Coldstones

2009-07-27 19:46:09

#1206

Stimey: +786|6333|Ontario | Canada

Yea theres one right next to my work

2009-07-27 19:54:10

#1207

ICCULUS: Free Sam, Ban Finray.; +418|5637|Athens, GA

lol

2009-07-27 20:02:59

#1208

Hurricane2k9: Pendulous Sweaty Balls; +1,538|5914|College Park, MD

Winston_Churchill wrote:
Hurricane2k9 wrote:
Winston_Churchill wrote:
Marble Slab Creamery, I think its Canadian, not sure though. I've never seen it in the states, but I heard theyre making Tims/MSC combo stores now
They've got them in the US.

I went to Cows over in Niagara on the Lake, it was really good. Haven't had maple walnut in ages.
Haha, come to Canada, every ice cream place has it. Even the random small places do. My residence had like 6 flavours of ice cream and that was one of them ffs

I've been to Canada many times, last time I went was a couple weeks ago. Was in Toronto and St. Catharines.

2009-07-27 20:04:05

#1209

Winston_Churchill: Bazinga!; +521|6951|Toronto | Canada

Yeah Marble Slab = sex

And whats the lol about ph1shman?

2009-07-27 20:05:03

#1210

ICCULUS: Free Sam, Ban Finray.; +418|5637|Athens, GA

Winston_Churchill wrote:
And whats the lol about ph1shman?

Winston_Churchill wrote:
Well update from here http://forums.bf2s.com/viewtopic.php?pi … 6#p2720886

I ended up calling the girl on Saturday (6 days later) and got her to give me a chance to bring back that 'spark' she said was missing. So now I have to blow her away to impress her enough to get her back...

So far what I have planned is:
going out to laser quest - its fun and shes an in-the-closet trekkie
go to a park or somewhere semi-private and outside
get 2 gameboy colours and a bunch of games and one of those link cables and play/battle each other. She loves gameboys and retro games and is obsessed with pokemon (I'm getting mortal kombat, donkey kong and a few others, she'll like them)
she mentioned she really wanted this dinosaur sandwich cutter from the grocery store she works at so i think im gonna make pb&j sandwiches cut from that and bring them along with other random cute food (like goldfish etc)
while we were together i went on vacation to cape cod and got her a sweater from there since she said she's always wanted to go so i'll give her that too
lastly, might go to a really fancy and delicious ice cream parlour.

Thoughts? Suggestions?

2009-07-27 20:06:21

#1211

Winston_Churchill: Bazinga!; +521|6951|Toronto | Canada

Hurricane2k9 wrote:
Winston_Churchill wrote:
Hurricane2k9 wrote:
They've got them in the US.

I went to Cows over in Niagara on the Lake, it was really good. Haven't had maple walnut in ages.
Haha, come to Canada, every ice cream place has it. Even the random small places do. My residence had like 6 flavours of ice cream and that was one of them ffs
I've been to Canada many times, last time I went was a couple weeks ago. Was in Toronto and St. Catharines.

WHAT!? I work in Toronto every day, should've announced it on the forums!

2009-07-28 03:38:08

#1212

I'm Jamesey: Do a Research Noob; +506|6345|Scotland!

Winston_Churchill wrote:
Well update from here http://forums.bf2s.com/viewtopic.php?pi … 6#p2720886

I ended up calling the girl on Saturday (6 days later) and got her to give me a chance to bring back that 'spark' she said was missing. So now I have to blow her away to impress her enough to get her back...

So far what I have planned is:
going out to laser quest - its fun and shes an in-the-closet trekkie
go to a park or somewhere semi-private and outside
get 2 gameboy colours and a bunch of games and one of those link cables and play/battle each other. She loves gameboys and retro games and is obsessed with pokemon (I'm getting mortal kombat, donkey kong and a few others, she'll like them)
she mentioned she really wanted this dinosaur sandwich cutter from the grocery store she works at so i think im gonna make pb&j sandwiches cut from that and bring them along with other random cute food (like goldfish etc)
while we were together i went on vacation to cape cod and got her a sweater from there since she said she's always wanted to go so i'll give her that too
lastly, might go to a really fancy and delicious ice cream parlour.

Thoughts? Suggestions?

Have some self respect, if she is giving you these kind of ultimatums after 2 months then she's obviously taking the piss, tell her to take you as you are or fuck off.

Unless you're actually that flawed that you need ultimatums.

2009-07-28 05:18:14

#1213

ghettoperson: Member; +1,943|6862

I'm Jamesey wrote:
Winston_Churchill wrote:
Well update from here http://forums.bf2s.com/viewtopic.php?pi … 6#p2720886

I ended up calling the girl on Saturday (6 days later) and got her to give me a chance to bring back that 'spark' she said was missing. So now I have to blow her away to impress her enough to get her back...

So far what I have planned is:
going out to laser quest - its fun and shes an in-the-closet trekkie
go to a park or somewhere semi-private and outside
get 2 gameboy colours and a bunch of games and one of those link cables and play/battle each other. She loves gameboys and retro games and is obsessed with pokemon (I'm getting mortal kombat, donkey kong and a few others, she'll like them)
she mentioned she really wanted this dinosaur sandwich cutter from the grocery store she works at so i think im gonna make pb&j sandwiches cut from that and bring them along with other random cute food (like goldfish etc)
while we were together i went on vacation to cape cod and got her a sweater from there since she said she's always wanted to go so i'll give her that too
lastly, might go to a really fancy and delicious ice cream parlour.

Thoughts? Suggestions?
Have some self respect, if she is giving you these kind of ultimatums after 2 months then she's obviously taking the piss, tell her to take you as you are or fuck off.

Unless you're actually that flawed that you need ultimatums.

This. You shouldn't have to beg for her back if she's worth keeping.

2009-07-28 07:49:57

#1214

FFLink: There is.; +1,380|6904|Devon, England

ghettoperson wrote:
I'm Jamesey wrote:
Winston_Churchill wrote:
Well update from here http://forums.bf2s.com/viewtopic.php?pi … 6#p2720886

I ended up calling the girl on Saturday (6 days later) and got her to give me a chance to bring back that 'spark' she said was missing. So now I have to blow her away to impress her enough to get her back...

So far what I have planned is:
going out to laser quest - its fun and shes an in-the-closet trekkie
go to a park or somewhere semi-private and outside
get 2 gameboy colours and a bunch of games and one of those link cables and play/battle each other. She loves gameboys and retro games and is obsessed with pokemon (I'm getting mortal kombat, donkey kong and a few others, she'll like them)
she mentioned she really wanted this dinosaur sandwich cutter from the grocery store she works at so i think im gonna make pb&j sandwiches cut from that and bring them along with other random cute food (like goldfish etc)
while we were together i went on vacation to cape cod and got her a sweater from there since she said she's always wanted to go so i'll give her that too
lastly, might go to a really fancy and delicious ice cream parlour.

Thoughts? Suggestions?
Have some self respect, if she is giving you these kind of ultimatums after 2 months then she's obviously taking the piss, tell her to take you as you are or fuck off.

Unless you're actually that flawed that you need ultimatums.
This. You shouldn't have to beg for her back if she's worth keeping.

Women have fucked up minds.

Nothing wrong in "fighting" for what you want.

2009-07-28 07:55:40

#1215

Krappyappy: 'twice cooked beef!'; +111|7033

there's a difference between 'fighting' and 'bribing.'

men got this idea beat into their heads that to get a woman to like then, they have to give her stuff.

what kind of precedent are you setting for the future? you will never have a real relationship on equal footing if you've put in all the effort to stay together, and all she did was break up with you.

in the future, she will be expecting the same from you every time you have a fight, or disagree about anything. you are digging your own grave.

grow a backbone and talk to her frankly. women are attracted to confidence, not wimpy gift giving.

2009-07-28 09:45:34

#1216

ghettoperson: Member; +1,943|6862

FFLink wrote:
ghettoperson wrote:
I'm Jamesey wrote:
Have some self respect, if she is giving you these kind of ultimatums after 2 months then she's obviously taking the piss, tell her to take you as you are or fuck off.

Unless you're actually that flawed that you need ultimatums.
This. You shouldn't have to beg for her back if she's worth keeping.
Women have fucked up minds.

Nothing wrong in "fighting" for what you want.

As Krappy said, there is a huge difference between fighting and "Please please please take me back, I'll give you money and buy you presents and do your makeup and wear a dress once a month".

EDIT: It's desperate, it's sad and it shouldn't be done. Churchill is a great (and might I say highly attractive? ) man, he doesn't need to stoop to that shit.

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2009-07-28 10:05:52

#1217

Winston_Churchill: Bazinga!; +521|6951|Toronto | Canada

Haha, thanks for backing me up FFLink, and for the compliment ghetto

But, even if it doesn't work it'll be a fun day. I mean, how often do you have a reason to play laser quest? And its a learning experience, I can see what things work and don't so I can know for next time. This girl isn't like this just for me, ask any guy and he'll say she's impossible to get, I've been by far the closest to her in the past year or so. I think she's worth the effort, besides, I haven't done anything close to what Uzique did.

2009-07-28 11:02:23

#1218

Krappyappy: 'twice cooked beef!'; +111|7033

yes. the right approach is "i'm going to do these fun things anyway, do you want to come along?"

instead of "i'm doing all these things just for you."

what you want to do is show her how great a person you are, how much fun she can have if she is with you, and what a mistake it was for her to break up with you.

you don't need to give her anything to do these things. be yourself, be funny, have a good time, but don't play her mind games.

2009-07-28 12:20:26

#1219

Hurricane2k9: Pendulous Sweaty Balls; +1,538|5914|College Park, MD

So we were making out earlier and she asked me "how far do you wanna go?"

2009-07-28 12:21:18

#1220

Winston_Churchill: Bazinga!; +521|6951|Toronto | Canada

Hurricane2k9 wrote:
So we were making out earlier and she asked me "how far do you wanna go?"

I hope you went far. Very far

2009-07-28 12:22:19

#1221

Hurricane2k9: Pendulous Sweaty Balls; +1,538|5914|College Park, MD

Winston_Churchill wrote:
Hurricane2k9 wrote:
So we were making out earlier and she asked me "how far do you wanna go?"

I hope you went far. Very far

Nah, we were in a public alley. It was kinda hot, cars kept drivin through so we were kinda caught in the act of intense kissing.

She said she's fine with anything except sex (right now at least... she says she's just not ready for it). I'm gonna take things slowly though.

God she's so wonderful ^_^

2009-07-28 12:29:05

#1222

Finray: Hup! Dos, Tres, Cuatro; +2,629|6001|Catherine Black

I bet she's like mamoth size.

You're Mitch in disguise eh?

2009-07-28 12:31:45

#1223

ghettoperson: Member; +1,943|6862

I hope you reached down her trousers and stuck a finger in her rectum.

2009-07-28 12:51:58

#1224

Gawwad: My way or Haddaway!; +212|6898|Espoo, Finland

ghettoperson wrote:
I hope you reached down her trousers and stuck a finger in her rectum.

The way to a girls heart.

2009-07-28 12:55:43

#1225

ghettoperson: Member; +1,943|6862

You know, in a roundabout sort of way, it probably is.

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