BF2S Forums The BF2s girl-problems thread

Well anyway thanks for the support guys. I'll probably be posting in this thread a few more times for advice and whatnot.

shifty got laaaiiidddd

-Sh1fty- wrote:

Ok let me explain.

Basically we couldn't really find a place, so I sneaked into her room late last night and we did the deed. Thing is, I'm thinking my upbringing had something to do with this but I had a lot of trouble getting my private to stand at attention. I remember everything I've read about sex was LOTS OF FOREPLAY so I did and she absolutely loved it. Won't go into detail about what all that was, but then I did oral for a long time and she came twice, and kept wanting me in but again...undisciplined grunt didn't stand at attention. She gave me a BJ and still like it was up but not hard. Anyway we did it and she loved it but it sucked for me I didn't really have fun but she loved it.

This is normal, at least for what happened with you. The first few times took me some getting used to, just like anything that is new. Sex is as much psychological as much as it is physical, perhaps even more so. The old saying that the biggest sex organ we have is our brain is pretty true I reckon. You'll feel more comfortable with experience and familiarity.

Good work on making her enjoy the experience, that's something a surprising many males, even experienced ones, either neglect or are terrible at (according to many stories over the years from my female friends).

As for finding a location, good luck. I've always been fortunate that when I was living with my parents they basically treated my room as their off limits and I could have anyone stay over as often as I liked (with one friend/girlfriend of mine, weeks at a time).

Last edited by Jaekus (2012-12-19 18:34:09)

-Sh1fty- wrote:

Jay wrote:

So do it at her house? Or in a car? Or on a golf course? Or on a beach? It's not that complicated.

Did it at her place but I'm too nervous there to get it up man. Her room has her parents' room on one side and siblings' room on the other. Was freaking scared of being caught I'd be dead.  Car, don't have one. Golf course, cmon man wtf? Beach? maybe once we're comfortable.

Best bet is my friend's place. We help each other out with stuff so maybe he'd let me stay there for an afternoon in his guest room.

Do it on a yacht. Jay will get you in the club.

-Sh1fty- wrote:

I'll probably be posting in this thread a few more times for advice and whatnot.

Congratulations, however your girl-problems are only just beginning.

You know your life reaaaaaally sucks when shifty is getting some and you aint

I forgot to check in on this thread, then the forums went down. That was the best read I've had in a while. Good job shifty. Proud of ya. Now all you gotta do is drop your faith and you'll be alright in my eyes

My first time was almost something similar. My gf was sleeping over at her friends house, I snuck in, was in bed with my gf in another room, her mum came in, told me to fuck off. Was quite a fun time for a few weeks after that with my rents finding out.

I don't think meeting for secret hotel sex would make an adolescent girl comfortable. It's kind of hooker-esq.

-Sh1fty- wrote:

So we had planned on getting a motel room on Saturday. Friday night it started raining really bad so she said she wouldn't walk there in the rain so I said it's cool we could do it some other time.

Next morning on Saturday I text her and she doesn't reply. I call her a few hours alter and ask if it's still off and she says yes. Then she cut off all contact with me it was weird. (she took me off FB and wouldn't reply to my texts...weird.

Doesn't matter had sex

Rape is still an option.

Holy fuck shifty got laid, and learned a very important lesson in the process.  The better you are with your tongue the less it matters what you can do with your dick so learn to love eating pussy.  It can actually be quite zen.

So much for adultery being hateful in the eyes of God eh?

You mean you don't go to church anymore?