In our server, when I look at the chat log, you can see the messages at the top and we have the rules in the orange writing you talk about and it has this code:
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At the start and end of every message we want... try copying that into your chat when you talk... Just an idea.
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At the start and end of every message we want... try copying that into your chat when you talk... Just an idea.