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Finray wrote:

I don't know what to do guys.

So I went to the cinema with date girl, I paid and everything, we both really enjoyed the movie (inbetweeners), laughed a lot. When we were walking there there wasn't any uncomfortable silences, we always had something to talk about. She looked really damn cute. But it didn't feel like there was any chemistry. I don't think she's really into me. And she's also seeing a couple other guys (not screwing, I don't think). What do? The date didn't go terrible, I mean nothing outrageously bad happened, it just didn't go fantastically. Never even gave her a hug when I arrived at my house (thought walking her home might have been overdoing it since it was only 5PM and we were both sober, walked her home from the pub a couple times).

Then there's best friends party tonight. Date girl's gonna be there. I dunno what to do.. I'm pretty much guaranteed a shag from best friend, but that might(!) lower my ratings in date girls eyes. But she is seeing other people..

Halp.

siihb

DesertFox- wrote:

My friend has a humorous girl problem: his girlfriend doesn't like sex with condoms and she's not on birth control, so he's got to be the responsible one every time and ask what she'd like to name her baby.

Personally don't mind that.

Condoms are bad. The pope said so. Warman isn't Catholic though.

Troll post really

Just use the small hole.

ghettoperson wrote:

Just kill yourself.

GR34 wrote:

WHy is bitches so dam crazy? answer me this bf2s.

Their brains are smaller.

gurdeep wrote:

ghettoperson wrote:

Just kill yourself.

Jaekus wrote:

-Sh1fty- wrote:

I just figured out one of the problems I have.

I find it really easy to go up to a girl and talk to her when I don't know them and it's fun and interesting, but once I get to know them it's like there's nothing to talk about afterwards.

damn me

It's called "finding what we have in common".

It appears not much.

Blunt, but true.

errrr, it's called get interested in things they do, and get them interested in things you do?

good luck with the second part, lol

-Sh1fty- wrote:

har har

i think this movie, The Boys & Girls Guide to Getting Down,  is appropriate

here. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0464907/

Last edited by Kimmmmmmmmmmmm (2011-09-11 17:04:49)

I would like to get another human being's opinion about something before I start off on a path of crazy. And I can get dangerously crazy about stuff like this so yeah. If you are going to be a dick about it fuck off and die.

I'm just curious do sparks ever die? You know that feeling when you get when around a person that makes you nervous and curious and attracted? Yeah, those ever go away or is it something that's always there?

The back story and something that happened today and you'll understand the context of the question- I met this girl a few years ago. A girl I really liked. yadda yadda love yadda. Anyway she had a boyfriend. Awesome guy, very good looking. Much better looking than me. Born into money, went to Rochester University and got a degree in finance and economics. Had a nice car, huge apartment in a newly developed area I would kill to move into. Better than me in every way at the time and now. I had nothing on this guy since at the time I was going to a small shitty university and had to split my time between full time work and school since my parents had cut me off. (fucking assholes).

But I was able to seduce the girl. Took me a few months but I did it. The night I fucked her was also the last time I saw her in person though we kept in contact for a awhile afterward. There wasn't any awkwardness and we had plans to continue seeing each other even though she was still with the guy she was with. Just circumstances made us begin to loss contact...

So I don't see her for two and a half years. LOL I know.. I saw her today though and we spent a little time together as I drove her back to her place. She lives with the same guy she cheated on with me and spent god knows how much time complaining to me about him and so much other crap. She bitched and complained about him and spent most of her with me and fucked me but lives with the guy she cuckolded! They have been living together for 6 months now.

Once a slut always a slut? eh? I don't know. If she didn't care about him that much then why would she care about him now? Could you suddenly gain respect and love for a person even after doing that to them? Do you think a spark would still be there or still have room to ignite? I want this girl more than anything I have wanted in my entire life. I don't care about wrecking their relationship and stealing him girlfriend and the morality of all that. I know that "if she did it to him what would stop her from doing it to you" is there and I don't care. I'm just curious as to what the brain trust here thinks about the likelihood of accomplishing this would be.

I know this sounds similar to the other girl I mentioned a few days ago but it's different. I care about this girl. I genuinely enjoy her as a person. I don't care about the other one at all. If the other one died today I would just be upset I would no longer be getting sex. I want the girl I saw today. I really want her back and I think I can get it as long that spark is still there. I'm worried that the spark isn't there and she is closer and more serious with her boyfriend who I can't compete with. I don't know if I could actually grab that brass ring.

What do you think?

Sorry for the typoe, syntax, etc.