i want me some italian
She's half American and she's lived there for the past year which is why I didn't see her at New Years when I went to Florence..she's blonde blue eyed and fucking cool to top it up..Lai wrote:
An Italian with blue eyes and (naturally) blond hairs? That's impossible I thought they were extinct for at least 2000 years!*..teddy..jimmy wrote:
We're not dating..we met last summer and the feelings are mutual..bennisboy wrote:
psssh not worth that. No gash is. Thats why I broke up with mine
It's a little more than 8 hours though Lai..haha I'll be going to my house in Nice so that's why it only takes 8 hours to get to Florence from there.. Most beautiful Italian I ever met and.....she has blond hair and blue eyes (perfection..no I'm not a Nazi)
In any case, Germans and Italians usually get along quite well; the Southern French in Nice too by the way
* = Not joking here, Homer refers to blond Greeks who supposedly lived around 1000 BC, but after that blond Meditaraneans were long 'bred out' since darker colours are dominant.
I get excited just by typing this..this thread is turning me into a pussy whipped pansy
Ok, I'll only say abit, I'm abit wasted coming from a family party sort of thingGooners wrote:
Story Time!!!..teddy..jimmy wrote:
What happened with the girl exactly?Mek-Stizzle wrote:
I have an awesome game, let's all take the piss out of me cos I fucked up what might've been the best thing that had happened to me since sliced bread*. Yeah, REAL FUNNY FAGGETS
Nah I'm kidding, you guys are awesome tolerable and I like you
*Ignore that cos I say that about a lot of girls
You've got me all interested and tingly inside
srs wot appnd
guy meets girl (actually, she approached me)
girl likes guy, but guy is too stupid to do anything about it, I'm even invited over to spend time overnight, alone, with her, in her dorm, guy is too stupid to do anything about it (don't ask why, I thought it was too soon cos I just met her)
girl and guy have great times going clubbing and shit etc etc
I end up obsessing about her
I pop the question, she starts giving me bullshit (she has commitment issues, clearly) - I don't know fucking why, it comes as a total surprise, afterall that
I get angry, I act like an arsehole, I don't even talk to her on HER BIRTHDAY
I get asked by her why I've gone silent towards her, i don't tell her the truth, i apologise and all that shit
Then things just got more fucked up
She keeps giving me hints, like on New years eve, but i'm too stupid to even take it up, I don't know why, I was angry at a long of things, my friends, her, alot of things, I end up having a shitty new years - WHY IS SHE DOING THIS?
things just went downhill from there, we end up barely talking to each other, i give her the odd call and text but that's it
I'm sitting here thinking why am I such an idiot, and honestly, i don't know why, it's almost like i'm supposed to not be with her, and that's just how shit is meant to be, i can't explain myself, i'm a faggot
Seriously, i've only said the tip of the iceberg, but it's more or less my fault, and hers, i don't know
fuck this
Not much of a story, it doesn't even sound like we ever had anything.
Maybe i'll explain it in more detail. I just keep going to her facebook profile, hoping there isn't some other guy in her life, it doesn't look like there is, but how the fuck am I supposed to know
Sometimes I wish there is, as a punishment to me, you know? might help me move on
And throughout all this, i've been doing stupid shit with random girls at clubs, maybe i don't deserve a proper relationship atm, but I want one, with her, but it aint gonna happen
Why did she do this?I pop the question, she starts giving me bullshit (she has commitment issues, clearly)
This girl, she's fucked up like me tbh, she does stupid unexplainable shit, maybe that's why I like her so much, and maybe that's why i get so angry, cos I know we're so alike
i'm going to end this post, i sound like a fool, she was probably fucking around with me the whole time
quit being a fucking pussy and call her mek
and i mean that in the nicest way possible
and i mean that in the nicest way possible
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she sounds fucked... Perfect Couple
Dont worry about random stuff with random girls, the fact is, most people do stuff like that. Wanting a rleationship shouldnt stop you form enjoyin nights out n making thr most of uni life and being single. Its when you're in a relationship that you go out, have a good night, but make sure you dont do anything with a randomer. She probably does the same thing.Mek-Stizzle wrote:
Long story
If she's still giving mixed messages, just try to be blunt(ish) tell her how you feel again, ask her how she feels. Say you want something to happen with her, you want to see what you two would be like as a couple, see how she reacts. Ask her whether you should just try to accept it wont happen.
If you still feel like this you have to try again, you'll kick yourself if you dont, from what you've said, if you cant stop thinking about her, you need to know whether she might ever be "the one".
So stop moping about it and take some action, if it goes badly you might feel worse in the short term, but never knowing what might have been will be so much worse in the long term
Mek babe, i dont wanna interrupt your alcohol induced diatribe, but dont be so hard on yourself dude.Mek-Stizzle wrote:
Why did she do this?I pop the question, she starts giving me bullshit (she has commitment issues, clearly)
This girl, she's fucked up like me tbh, she does stupid unexplainable shit, maybe that's why I like her so much, and maybe that's why i get so angry, cos I know we're so alike
i'm going to end this post, i sound like a fool, she was probably fucking around with me the whole time
why did she say that?
the fuck if i know, and we could sit here all day trying to figure that shit out....and get fucking nowhere.
she wasnt fucking around with you the whole time. it takes some REALLY cold hearted bitch to do that, and as it seems you have somewhat of a relationship with her, i find it highly unlikely that is the case.
ive been wrong, but i have also dealt with my fair share of loopy cunts.
now, i understand why you didnt go back to her dorm with her that night. when you really have feelings for someone, you dont want to rush into that shit and fuck everything up....i know where you are coming from, so dont question yourself or your morals because of that.
on the other hand; hesitation doesnt get you a fucking thing. fortune favors the bold, and abandons the timid.
you arent asking, but ill give you my advice;
stop going on her facebook page if you arent going to do anything. that serves no other purpose but to allow you to wallow in your own bullshit.
call her. tell her what the deal is.....for real.
tell her what your intentions are, what you want out of the relationship.
man the fuck up motherfucker!
i know, i know
i've just never been able to get myself around to do it, even when pissed out of my head (which wouldn't be smart)
this whole thing, i'll admit, i've never gone through something like this before, on this "scale"
cheers for the responses, i'll admit it's quite similair to what my mates have said, it's just so much easier said than done
i've just never been able to get myself around to do it, even when pissed out of my head (which wouldn't be smart)
this whole thing, i'll admit, i've never gone through something like this before, on this "scale"
cheers for the responses, i'll admit it's quite similair to what my mates have said, it's just so much easier said than done
then dont do it Mek.Mek-Stizzle wrote:
t's just so much easier said than done
go buy a fucking helmet, cause life isnt getting any easier....and this shit doesnt stop.
you do the thing you are scared of.
thats just how it fucking goes.
<3
real talk
its what i fucking neededi g wrote:
real talk
especially this:
parker wrote:
you do the thing you are scared of.
I agree with parker mekky boy. I'm still kicking myself for something I didnt do almost 3 years ago now! Fuck time flies. I still think about her loads, n I always get sad when I think the time has now almost certainly past.
If you want something to be a part of your life, you have to MAKE it part of your life. Dont wait till its too late and spend the rest of your life regretting it. At least if you've tried and given it all you got, if it still doenst work out, you know its not cos you didnt try.
I know its a lot easier said than done, but sometimes we gotta bite the bullet n try
If you want something to be a part of your life, you have to MAKE it part of your life. Dont wait till its too late and spend the rest of your life regretting it. At least if you've tried and given it all you got, if it still doenst work out, you know its not cos you didnt try.
I know its a lot easier said than done, but sometimes we gotta bite the bullet n try
Its over.
The reason why? Jealously and trust issues.
The start to the end happened in Early October. I wanted to go down Arizona State University to visit my best buddy Jamie. He started school there at the end of August and wanted to go check out what he was doing down there and get away on a little vacation so to speak because I hadn't really had any time off in a long while. I was working full time, had the money, and there was a really sick rave going on during the time I wanted to go down and visit him. So why the fuck not?
Lindsey was not to happy about this, for one, she was jealous because she also wanted to go to this rave, and I was going without her, and this was the first rave that I would be going to without her; and then the other reason being that she could not trust me to go down there by myself. I would have loved if she came with me, but she couldn't get the time off work. I told her I loved her to death, and that I was not going to do anything down there with any girls. I just wanted to go see my friend and have a good time. I was not going to let her hold me back from having fun in life.
So, regardless to say, I bought my plane ticket and headed out to Phx, Arizona on the Canadian Thanks giving Weekend. Jamie, my buddy, picked me up from the airport where it was less then a 5 minute drive to his dorm on campus. From there I was introduced to a few people on his floor and a few of his new friends. They handed me a long board and we headed out of the dorms so I could see the campus. One of the people that we did this with was a girl named Casey and guy named Andrew. Casey is one of Jamie's "girl" friends, a friend that just happens to be a girl. Really awesome person. They showed me around and I had a blast.
Later that night, I was invited with Jamie to come to a party. We headed out to someones house about a half hour drive from the university. During the party (which involved a lot of cheap beer that taste like water, damn Americans) Casey got a few pictures with me. Nothing happened between us, just a few pictures. The pictures were not sexual, flirtatious or anything. The next day, Casey added me as a friend on facebook and put the pictures from the party up. Lindsey saw these pictures and got extremely jealous and had a mental break down to one of my friends at home and thought i was cheating on her even though I wasn't.
Nothing happened, and to be honest, it pissed me off. My own girlfriend who I love to death, who knows I love her to death, couldn't even trust me enough to know that I wouldn't do anything with another girl.
The next day was the rave, again, nothing happened. I didn't even dance with any girls. I was there for the love of the music and to have a good time. The rave scene in Arizona is awesome compared to where I live. Anyways, the next day after that was spent mostly sleeping and wandering the campus, and then it was off back to home.
When I got back, Lindsey was mad at me and would barely even talk to me. After this point, I would see her maybe on average of 1 or 2 times a week just because of her and my work schedule. After this point in the relationship, it was all down hill. We started to grow more and more a part and the relationship was nothing like it was near the start. We are two completely different people from when we started dating.
I knew the relationship was going down the toilet fast. I tried to save it, but it was extremely hard when I didn't even have the time to see the girl. Lindsey came up to me about a month or two ago and said that we should go on a "break". I told her that maybe that was a good idea, because maybe some time apart would make us realize how good our relationship actually was. I should have known better that a break never leads to anything good. This break rapidly turned into a break-up, and she told me she didn't want to be with me anymore. That maybe we weren't right for each other. I've tried to win her back, but to be honest, its useless trying anymore, she doesn't want me back.
I still really want to be friends with her, but I can't see it happening right now because even though I think she has moved on, I haven't. I started to get really jealous of the guys she was hanging out with. We went to a rave on NYE, and I got super hammered and apparently called her a bunch of mean names that I don't mean. It was also her birthday on Friday, and I nearly knocked this one guy out that she has been hanging out with alot recently. They say there are just friends, but how am I suppose to really know?
Another thing that I just recently found out is that while we were together she went to a friends birthday party at a club that I could not go to because I had to work the next morning and went with this guy that she met at a country concert with her sister. She hid this from me, and the only way I found out was because my friends told me about it and totally bitched Lindsey out for bringing him. Alot of my friends are on my side about this whole situation and think Lindsey is being a total bitch. She won't even talk to me anymore.
One more thing that really makes me think, even though I don't know if its true or not, and none of my friends think its true.
I got a message on facebook last Tuesday from a guy named "billy bob". Some random fake account with written on his wall "THE UGLY TRUTH. if i message you. its 100% true." He message me "Lindsey fucked 2 different guys while you were together ". I don't know who would do this. I don't have a lot of enemies. So either its true, or someone is just a dick and trying to fuck with me.
So to be honest, even though I'm not over her. I honestly don't know If I would even take her back now, because I know it wouldn't be the same.
The reason why? Jealously and trust issues.
The start to the end happened in Early October. I wanted to go down Arizona State University to visit my best buddy Jamie. He started school there at the end of August and wanted to go check out what he was doing down there and get away on a little vacation so to speak because I hadn't really had any time off in a long while. I was working full time, had the money, and there was a really sick rave going on during the time I wanted to go down and visit him. So why the fuck not?
Lindsey was not to happy about this, for one, she was jealous because she also wanted to go to this rave, and I was going without her, and this was the first rave that I would be going to without her; and then the other reason being that she could not trust me to go down there by myself. I would have loved if she came with me, but she couldn't get the time off work. I told her I loved her to death, and that I was not going to do anything down there with any girls. I just wanted to go see my friend and have a good time. I was not going to let her hold me back from having fun in life.
So, regardless to say, I bought my plane ticket and headed out to Phx, Arizona on the Canadian Thanks giving Weekend. Jamie, my buddy, picked me up from the airport where it was less then a 5 minute drive to his dorm on campus. From there I was introduced to a few people on his floor and a few of his new friends. They handed me a long board and we headed out of the dorms so I could see the campus. One of the people that we did this with was a girl named Casey and guy named Andrew. Casey is one of Jamie's "girl" friends, a friend that just happens to be a girl. Really awesome person. They showed me around and I had a blast.
Later that night, I was invited with Jamie to come to a party. We headed out to someones house about a half hour drive from the university. During the party (which involved a lot of cheap beer that taste like water, damn Americans) Casey got a few pictures with me. Nothing happened between us, just a few pictures. The pictures were not sexual, flirtatious or anything. The next day, Casey added me as a friend on facebook and put the pictures from the party up. Lindsey saw these pictures and got extremely jealous and had a mental break down to one of my friends at home and thought i was cheating on her even though I wasn't.
Nothing happened, and to be honest, it pissed me off. My own girlfriend who I love to death, who knows I love her to death, couldn't even trust me enough to know that I wouldn't do anything with another girl.
The next day was the rave, again, nothing happened. I didn't even dance with any girls. I was there for the love of the music and to have a good time. The rave scene in Arizona is awesome compared to where I live. Anyways, the next day after that was spent mostly sleeping and wandering the campus, and then it was off back to home.
When I got back, Lindsey was mad at me and would barely even talk to me. After this point, I would see her maybe on average of 1 or 2 times a week just because of her and my work schedule. After this point in the relationship, it was all down hill. We started to grow more and more a part and the relationship was nothing like it was near the start. We are two completely different people from when we started dating.
I knew the relationship was going down the toilet fast. I tried to save it, but it was extremely hard when I didn't even have the time to see the girl. Lindsey came up to me about a month or two ago and said that we should go on a "break". I told her that maybe that was a good idea, because maybe some time apart would make us realize how good our relationship actually was. I should have known better that a break never leads to anything good. This break rapidly turned into a break-up, and she told me she didn't want to be with me anymore. That maybe we weren't right for each other. I've tried to win her back, but to be honest, its useless trying anymore, she doesn't want me back.
I still really want to be friends with her, but I can't see it happening right now because even though I think she has moved on, I haven't. I started to get really jealous of the guys she was hanging out with. We went to a rave on NYE, and I got super hammered and apparently called her a bunch of mean names that I don't mean. It was also her birthday on Friday, and I nearly knocked this one guy out that she has been hanging out with alot recently. They say there are just friends, but how am I suppose to really know?
Another thing that I just recently found out is that while we were together she went to a friends birthday party at a club that I could not go to because I had to work the next morning and went with this guy that she met at a country concert with her sister. She hid this from me, and the only way I found out was because my friends told me about it and totally bitched Lindsey out for bringing him. Alot of my friends are on my side about this whole situation and think Lindsey is being a total bitch. She won't even talk to me anymore.
One more thing that really makes me think, even though I don't know if its true or not, and none of my friends think its true.
I got a message on facebook last Tuesday from a guy named "billy bob". Some random fake account with written on his wall "THE UGLY TRUTH. if i message you. its 100% true." He message me "Lindsey fucked 2 different guys while you were together ". I don't know who would do this. I don't have a lot of enemies. So either its true, or someone is just a dick and trying to fuck with me.
So to be honest, even though I'm not over her. I honestly don't know If I would even take her back now, because I know it wouldn't be the same.
Last edited by LT.Victim (2010-01-10 16:16:32)
Sucks for you.
hiding things is bad, hiding going to a party with someone else is very bad
some people expect others to be just like them, so if she was THAT paranoid about you cheating on her....
the only way to find out the truth is to start digging for it through mutual friends
still, sounds like it's better to be over now then later
some people expect others to be just like them, so if she was THAT paranoid about you cheating on her....
the only way to find out the truth is to start digging for it through mutual friends
still, sounds like it's better to be over now then later
Ahhhh shit, sorry to hear that. Women work in mysterious ways...
Kez wrote:
Ahhhh shit, sorry to hear that. Women work in mysterious ways...
fixt tbhKez wrote:
Ahhhh shit, sorry to hear that. Women work in mysterious soul crushing and demonic ways...
you gotta keep your pimp hand strong
Baba Booey
Women will always find a way to stab you in the back...Shit sucks.
Can't live with em, can't live without em.
Can't live with em, can't live without em.
Sorry to hear that man
find new woman.. a rave would be a good place for a temp one
hah, a temp one, i like that. i guess all women (or men, depends) are 'try before you buy'.Kimmmmmmmmmmmm wrote:
find new woman.. a rave would be a good place for a temp one
girls are fucking bitches dude
you won't find a stable girlfriend until you're atleast 23-25, if not more
so live life to the fullest now and don't let them ever stop you from having fun like she tried to do. for her to pull that shit on you for just having a good time is low.
you'll find others, and even though right now you think you won't ever love anyone as much as you loved her... you will. and you'll love them more than you ever loved lindsey. I went through a breakup recently (dated from march-september, was my first real girlfriend too and my first love) and i didn't think I'd ever love anyone as much as I loved her... and while I still haven't found a new love, I know I will eventually.
time heals all wounds man.
feel better and sorry about what happened
you won't find a stable girlfriend until you're atleast 23-25, if not more
so live life to the fullest now and don't let them ever stop you from having fun like she tried to do. for her to pull that shit on you for just having a good time is low.
you'll find others, and even though right now you think you won't ever love anyone as much as you loved her... you will. and you'll love them more than you ever loved lindsey. I went through a breakup recently (dated from march-september, was my first real girlfriend too and my first love) and i didn't think I'd ever love anyone as much as I loved her... and while I still haven't found a new love, I know I will eventually.
time heals all wounds man.
feel better and sorry about what happened
hah if these kids were hanging out a rave together why would he be expecting her NOT to cheat on him(and vice versa)?burnzz wrote:
hah, a temp one, i like that. i guess all women (or men, depends) are 'try before you buy'.Kimmmmmmmmmmmm wrote:
find new woman.. a rave would be a good place for a temp one
it's a total ecstasy fest at raves(why they last for days)
so yeah.. a temporary lady is waiting for you under those flashing lights with her candy necklace