Amdi Peter wrote:
Thanks for the advice lads, it's useful
I'm actually in a bid of a dilemma again already.
I talked to my best friend at school today, and she said I should text the girl and say that I thought it would be best, if we went without her friends.
Do you think it's a wise thing to ask, or should I just let her decide?
Rule number one: ALWAYS let her decide
Secondly, why would you?
Amdi Peter wrote:
Well, we apparently never had a 'date' on 1. may.
(this is how it started)
We texted the day after we'd met, and she asked me if I was going to the park on 1st may.
i said maye, and then asked if we should go together, to which she answered, "yeah sure cuite".
I then, I think it was later saturday or sunday, asked if we should go, only the two of us, or with some of her friends, to which she answered, that she wasn't sure.
I then texted her about an hour ago, saying that I thought it would be really nice if we just went the two of us alone.
Her reply was, "I'm not going to that park, I'm going to another park with some of my friends".
I then wrote, "Weren't going together?", to which she replied, "I said maybe, I had to check with my other friends first, but you can come if you like".
I just replied, sure if I get to see you.
I feel kinda fucked over, like she just screwed going with me, and didn't tell, but I also feel like I didn't read her texts probably, so it's my own fault. I'm fucking depressed, thanx for the help anyway chaps.
Wait you said you kissed her right?.. This is strange,.. I mean considering the two of you lay in the park half the day and kissed; at least you shouldn't blame yourself for calling it a date
Two options here basically. Either it's the type of girl that doesn't know what she wants, in which case she will give you a very hard time anyway, but she might still be worth it; or she is the (slutty) type which hangs out in parks and kisses with all casual friends, in whcih case you'll want to bail out immediately.