BF2S Forums my wife is driving me insane..

Ajax_the_Great1 wrote:

FatherTed wrote:

usmarine2005 wrote:

Married...pfffftt.

80% of the people I know who have been married are divorced.  And I am currently banging a married chick.  Why do you people still get married?

I hate people like you.

Why? Because he doesn't believe in marriage? Marriage is stupid. Why can't you just be with someone for a certain amount of time and then just leave when you aren't happy with it anymore? Everyone wants it to be so permanent. It doesn't matter who the person is, if you live with someone long enough eventually they'll start to piss you off.

Beacause i was a kid stuck in one of them sort of things. And it wasnt nice.

Lai wrote:

GunSlinger OIF II wrote:

monogamy doesnt exist.  marriage is a joke.  commitment is an illusion. enjoy it while you can before it falls off.

Whether it is real or an illusion depends largely on your own dedication.

also based on the other person as well

FatherTed wrote:

usmarine2005 wrote:

Married...pfffftt.

80% of the people I know who have been married are divorced.  And I am currently banging a married chick.  Why do you people still get married?

I hate people like you.

GunSlinger OIF II wrote:

monogamy doesnt exist.  marriage is a joke.  commitment is an illusion. enjoy it while you can before it falls off.

snap

FatherTed wrote:

Do you think it's "macho" or something, to act like relationships are all for dicks?

Ummm... what?

FatherTed wrote:

usmarine2005 wrote:

FatherTed wrote:

Do you think it's "macho" or something, to act like relationships are all for dicks?

Ummm... what?

It's not written in Greek, German or Hebrew, so read it again.

I never said it was for dicks.  I don't believe in marriage because it fails....in modern times.  Look at the numbers.  Those are numbers of failure.  Would you fly on an airline that crashed 50% of the time?

FatherTed wrote:

Do you think it's "macho" or something, to act like relationships are all for dicks?

Sadly, there seem to be quite a lot of people that do only have relations for their dicks.

usmarine2005 wrote:

FatherTed wrote:

usmarine2005 wrote:

Ummm... what?

It's not written in Greek, German or Hebrew, so read it again.

I never said it was for dicks.  I don't believe in marriage because it fails....in modern times.  Look at the numbers.  Those are numbers of failure.  Would you fly on an airline that crashed 50% of the time?

You said it yourself: it often fails in modern times,.. so apparently it did work before. If it has worked the past few millenia,.. would not the most logical conclusion be that there is nothing wrong with the institution of marriage, but rather with our present day moral values and exagerated individualism?

I'd just like to say that this thread helped me. While I am not married or anything, I'm in a relationship, and my girlfriend has been extremely bitchy/depressed of late (her life is falling apart because of loss of friends etc.). I'm going to give her some time alone, and see what happens...
I know none of the advice was directed at me, but thanks anyways, it helped

-konfusion

fadedsteve wrote:

I think people get married too early/ or just because they think its the adult thing to do. . .

I am 28 and in NO HURRY to get married whatsoever, not because I am against it but rather because I havent met anyone worth marrying.  Honestly, I dont think human beings are meant to be monogamous! There are so many reasons why that is the case its unreal. . . . Men are here to procreate, look at the animal world, is there any monogamy in the animal world. . . NO!!

We are animals just like everything else in this world, and we have an animal instinct to want to mate with attractive members of the opposite sex.  I have married friends who say ALL THE TIME how "Hot that chick is", or "I would bang the shit out of her" not because they are immature, but rather they are men who are caged with only one female.  Just like Kramer on Seinfeld says, "Marriage is a man made prison, your doin' time!". 

Look at the fucking divorce rate in the USA, its 49%!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not because people always cheat, but rather its because humans arent meant to be with just one person . . . . Statistics dont lie, neither does true human instinct!

dude, stop with the fucking ellipses. you don't know how to use them, so don't.

lol after reading the 1st and 2nd pages - after that it just turned into a flame war, maybe time for topic close ?

I disagree with fadedsteve pretty much 97.5%. Part of my logic of why such a high number of marraiges fail is that people are idiots. Comparing monogamy of humans to animal life is insulting to me as well. The huge differences that are possessed and then the comparison is made to lower life forms doesn't speak well for humanity in general. I'm not denying that humans are animalistic and part of that scientific kingdom, though, but humans are should be better. I think a lot of married people rushed into relationships and thought they were marrying the person for them and that is the only person in the world, a situation my father, for one, always warned me to watch out for while growing up. It must be their perfect match because after all, would Hollywood lie? These people don't care for each other as an ideally married couple should. When you find someone you care enough about that you wouldn't want to spend your life with anyone else for certain, that's who someone should marry. I find it hard to believe that all the married people have spent so much time looking for and getting to know the person they wish to marry. I like to joke about the institution of marraige, too, but it's not something to be taken lightly. I'm not married, but I want to do so with the right person.
Long story short, the divorce rate works against his argument. If humans can't keep a marraige with one person together, how would they do any better being with more than one?

Just ask her is something bothering her and why is she is acting this way. Say that you can't live like this and you want to improve the relationsship before it get's out of hand. If she just screams at you or something just get a divorce!