Miller wrote:
It is retarded. Most Christians should see their time on earth as a way to help others find God. But then, God also gives you free will, he doesn't make you do anything. If you wanted to die he would let you, your choice. If you want to live, you may have made the wrong decision by then. It's all caused by actions set in motion long ago. Anything you do determines if you live or die. For instance, drive down the street. Don't die? Good. Now do it again say 11 seconds later and a semi will run straight through you.
Concur. I can look back on how I went through certain situations that ended up preparing me for things I would face down the road. I'm sure several people have had the, "If I had left ten minutes earlier I would not be here now," kind of thing happen to them. A buddy of mine was late to work on September 11, 2001 through no fault of his own and he's still here to tell the tale.
As far as why to wear seat belts and condoms . . .
God can beat statistics any day, but do you really want to test your luck? I think that 90% of America claims they are "Christian" . . . I think the percentage of people who walk away from serious auto accidents that didn't wear a seatbelt is much less than that.
As an "adult", I can see why sex should exist only within the confines of marriage. With two parents and a steady income, it's hard enough raising a kid. I can't imagine doing it as a single parent working minimum wage jobs and hoping your parents don't kick you to the curb before you can get a job that can support you and your child.