Perhaps maybe next time an emoticon would help indicate your jesting intentions?
Just a thought...
Just a thought...
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How do you know how he's reacting to it? He might or might be abusing his power, maybe he's a dumbass or maybe he's just overtly strict or that he's offended by it. He might be a excellent admin most of the time, but perhaps something already ticked him off or you just happen to be in the wrong place at the wrong time.Sud wrote:
I don't think it was taken the wrong way at all. I think he was more or less looking for an excuse to abuse someone. Like I say, no reasonable person would take offense to something so innocuous. And if you're not a reasonable person, how is it that you have admin access to a server.
I don't think my responses were out of line considering I was being overtly threatened.
I'm sorry, but no sane person would take this as an insult. People who are neither reasonable nor sane do not belong as admins. Period.You gave a percieved insult (callingn an admin a hobo).
No, I took exception to the THREAT. When I came back in, I was halfway through typing "wow, tough crowd tonight" when I received a direct THREAT from them. I simply do not put up with threats, I don't care who you are.You recieved an insult as a retort (being banned).
A person who threatens someone with an abuse of power for no good reason is a powermonger.You responded by actually unsulting (calling him a powermonger) as a retort. He retorts, you up the ante and threaten, then he injures you.
Read this analogy over again and please tell me how you feel it is valid for this discussion.back when i was a child, if id have done that, id have gotten smacked. i was always told "be the better man and walk away (instead of insulting back)".
Again, part of the responsibility of being an administrator is that your dealings with people is fair. Especially when you're in a position where they can't do anything to defend themselves.but perhaps something already ticked him off or you just happen to be in the wrong place at the wrong time.
Um, EXCUSE ME? I at no time have EVER begged to be allowed back on your insipid little server. I contacted your support department demanding the apology I am rightfully owed. Whether or not I receive it will determine whether I report you to EA or not, for your ABUSE. EA will determine whether or not they'll be concerned with it, NOT you.I think its very odd you think you have the right to come and play on my server and be disruptful and disrespectful to my admins and then beg me to get back on my servers threatening me with crying to EA games about crap they are really not concerned with.
That's a load of garbage. Money doesn't entitle you to nothing. If you can't handle having a server up, take the server down, bottom line. There are a ton of other servers that have quite normal and decent people running them. Let the people go to them not under the false pretense that you are providing them with something they want. Nobody wants to deal with idiots like you. That's why there are 13,000 "loser admin" threads on these forums. We're sick and tired of the attitude of entitlement you seem to gain just because you have the password that allows you to ban people. Get off your high horse.I see it like this. I pay $350 + per month to rent a machine and bandwith so morons like you can come onto my server and give my admins grief. You dont pay for it. You have no right to say jack
No sir, YOU are the moron in this. Just look at what you're writing. You equate a harmless joke with "making an ass out of one self.If i dont want a moron like you playing on my server I wont. I wont have some idiot threatening and being disrespectful to my admins if I dont want to. I am not paying for that. The folks that play on my servers do not deserve that and they dont deserve to put up with folk like you making a ass out of themselfs.
You lack anything resembling eloquence, tact, maturity, or a respect for any other person than yourself. I consider it a great honor to be in your "banned for life moron basket", as if I'm a moron for being completely in the right, I don't know what derogitory term you could come up with to describe yourself.I am sorry to say it dude but once you start throwing threats to me about stuff you know absolutely snaffoo about you go straight into the banned for life moron basket.
Here's to a step in the right direction of righting this great wrong.FMG is one of the most popular bf2 communities out there
Except, of course, people with a sense of humor.and we are because we welcome everyone on our servers
This is almost a non-sequitor it is so irrelavent to what's being talked about here. Online community, clan, guild, squad, flock of seagulls, call it what you want, that's just semantics.PS. FMG is not a clan it is a online gaming community, And me using the word 'moron' is perhaps lacking in a little professionalism, however I get like that when someone sprouts off crap about a community they know nothing about.
Well, in a "hey check it out Michael Jackson's court case is on TV, what great free advertising!" kind of way it might be advertising for you, but as you can see from the negativity that has been expressed by other people who have had exposure to your "community" or are witnessing it for the first time through this complaint, you have not done yourselves a service.PS.PS.
Thanks for the free advertising, I may have to let you back in after all :-)
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Which is not completely in context - the intent of a jest vs an insult is that an insult is thrown maliciously, whereas a jest is just poking fun at anything at random. Because of the utter ridiculousness of the thought of a hobo fresh off the street administrating a computer game server, it is obviously a jest. If I would have said "Their admins are complete incompetant fools and assholes too" then that could have been taken as an insult.Here is one definition of hobo:
Hobo (n): disreputable vagrant; "a homeless tramp";
That sounds like an insult to me.
I can only give you my word that what I said here is accurate. I challenge FMC to produce logs (no doctored logs please, I will be able to spot any tampering) that disagree with what I've posted here. You'll note that they have not attempted to refute any of my quotations expressed here - only tried to justify it by saying "we pay for the server, so too bad for you"but I highly question the veracity of your account
One tangible example you can use is EA's crackdown on knife/pistol only servers. By that logic, these servers are quite fine - the admin has a preference for those two weapons "if you don't like it, leave". BUT EA removed the ranked status from these servers because they directly stat pad those two stats. So it does show, in fact, they were in violation of a rule.however, I have yet to see anyone provide any reference to any posted rules by EA.
When you are a guest in someone's place, do you expect them to treat you as sub-human? Do you expect to be blatantly abused by your hosts? If you were, would you go back? If you were, would you hold those people in good standing? The whole point of my post here is that I did nothing to deserve such a knee jerk assault from these people. Guest or not, you don't attack those people who you extend an invitation to.Now, let me make this perfectly clear, I don't condone any admins kicking people to help stat pad or anything that would be considered poor sportmanship. However, when you are playing on someone's server - you are their guest. When i am in someone's home I show them respect - they don't have to earn it. Do you go rifling through someone's refridgerator when you're in their home? If they don't want me there, then I leave. I don't think playing on someone's server is any different. I've played on a lot of different servers and some of them have some pretty asinine rules in my opinion, but it's their server so I abide by them.
Even so, in game is neither the time nor the place to be doing a sales pitch. This is why there is an official website with FAQs and CSRs. In the game, I expect my team to be playing the game, not having a chat about server rentals. And what salesperson looks good if they turn into a raving lunatic in front of a client because someone made a small joke. The way they reacted, you'd think I brought their mothers into the conversation. No, I believe this analogy does not fit.You say that it doesn't make any difference that the admin was from a company that sells servers. Yet, you make a joke discrediting thier staff. That is their business and how they make their money. If I had some freeloader walk into my business and say something derogatory in front of a potential client, I'd kick them out too.
Thanks for clarifying this - in my original post I had wanted confirmation on this. I had heard that there was an edict from EA saying that this was an exploit and the exploiters should be kicked. That should not matter though, as I still have the issue of stat manipulation to clear up.And, where do you come up with this notion that EA has a requirement on enforcement of the orange name exploit?
I would much prefer if servers like this didn't show on the list at all, such that those people would actually be diverted into an official EA server. This is really why they need stronger regulation over who can and can not become a ranked server. To tell the truth, at this point, because of the great number of complaints being lodged against these "clan servers", I think only the EA servers should be ranked.By buying the game you are helping to pay for the ranked servers that EA puts up. Go play on those or one of the ones hosted by sponsers. Until you start ponying up some dough for the servers you play on you don't have any rights as far as I'm concerned.
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Please consider if you will that we are dealing with an epidemic of server admins who have no morals or ideals when it comes to administrating their server. Please do not label me as childish because I take a stand against these malefactors. That is insulting. You are quick to say "just let it go", but if someone walked up to you in real life and started abusing you in such a manner, would you tolerate it? I think not.Suds, what harm would it have done if you had either -
-walked away from the server when you first got banned, or
-walked away from the server when you got banned again?
both times you took the insult to your pride, and came back with another insult. not being able to take an insult and just walk away is a sign of immaturity. immature = childish.
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Geez, my I.Q. just dropped reading this. Way to make a feeble attempt a thread hijack. wait, you just attempted to hijack a thread. you furking canadian terrorist{504th}T/4.Stryker wrote:
did anyone know that Canadians are the #1 medical battlefield people in the real world... in world war one we sent over 120,000 medics and world war two we sent over about 1 million guys about 260,000 were medics and vietnam we sent about 40,000 guys 12,000 being medics and afganistan and iraq personally I think we should have left stupid idiotic bush take his own war's play time poll his own people... meaing he just wants to play war so why waste lives and shit! I mean hundreds of canadians are dying over there and we have no direct link to these terrorist acts it fucking pisses me off how stupid the us and canadian governments are today.
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I knew someone was going to say it. Hey it is true to an extent. But then again I don't play games to not have fun because of some seething raging admin wants to kick me for having a little bit of personality.You should stop it because you look silly fighting about a game, A GAME!!!!. You should care more about improving your gaming skills not your tongue's accuracy and being more tolerant, thats all. Peace men.
Who said anything about dirty names? He didn't call me anything, he issued a threat against me.actually, sud, i would do that. why, what am i supposed to do? hit him because hes calling me dirty names?
NOW you have the analogy that fits. Considering this is a game, what is the absolute worst thing he could possibly threaten to do? Ban me? Bingo. He threatened to take the most extreme action he could possibly take against me, and that action also has impact against my stats.if he flat threw a punch, then thats starting a fight, which is different than insulting - it has immediate dire harm to your body in mind
Well, yeah? Where I come from, us Canadians (hey I'm not a terrorist lol) can actually realize when a situation is spiraling out of control. Not to mention, there were several FMC there. Any one of them at any time could have said "hey dude, he was just joking, let's not make a situation out of something that's not, let's just play". Or cooler heads could have prevailed, he could have taken a step back, logically analyzed what was said and done, and admitted his wrong.and your taking a stand against these malefactors? and then you complain when they use the tools that they inheirently have to remove you? are you expecting them to just be like "awww shucks your right im dumb"?
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Please consider what you call insubstantial may mean a lot to another person. If I stole $20 from you, and you really didn't need it, it might be insubstantial to you, but if I took it from someone who was on social assistance, that might be 2 days worth of meals I'm denying them.Considering the threat was an extremely insubstantial one
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This whole situation sounds like a testosterone-driven pissing contest to me. It takes two people to have a dispute and both sides let a very minor issue spiral out of control. If either party would've swallowed their pride and said "my bad, this is stupid, let's just drop it and play", things wouldn't have had to come to this.blacksheepcannibal wrote:
I continue to reply to this post because your being childish. Im not saying that the admin that banned you wasnt being childish. *however* if "cooler heads had prevailed" you would have walked back in after the first boot, made your statement about the tough crowd, and then continues along your merry little way.
Instead, you chose to rise up against a threat. Considering the threat was an extremely insubstantial one, it was a pretty childish thing to do. The sooner you realize that you both were in the wrong, the better off your gaming will be.
aside from it not being funny who are you to join someones server and insult them ? are they to assume that youre joking .. the nature i found it not being extremely offensive but also not friendly..They hire only the finest hobos as admins
now youre on someones server telling them how to behave .. hmm leme think how this will work out..Take your threats elsewhere powermonger, I was simply cracking a joke
now stoop even lower by making e-threats oh i got another example for this ..Kick or grief me again, and I will be reporting this server for ranked status removal for 1. non enforcement of the orange name exploit, and 2. stat manipulation [adding kicks to my permanent record for no good reason], as well as a recommendation to bf2idiots.com, got it?
oh youre going to give an e-lashing?I don't take threats from anybody
flex those e-muscles im sure youre a weight lifter and cage fighter and if he was in the same room youd unleash your might and fury upon him ..or maybe youre a 14 year old 110 pound e-thug. professionalism ? in what aspect youre a pro gamer ? professional at what ?I'd like to see the likes of him say that to my face in real life. As it was, I could have said all those things you listed directly to him, but I still kept it in the realm of professionalism.
wait who threw the tantrum ? oh thats right it was you rejoining the server you got kicked from and talking shit to the admin .. instead of being mature and just moving on ..especially when your tantrums leave lasting marks on people's permanent record.
no you give them the common respect especialy becuase they paid money and you play there for free .. that includes not going in and starting off by insulting them .. they dont know you so thats not how you introduce yourselfYou don't get respect until it's earned
the world revolves around you and getting kicked from one server for being a childish dick ..yes that kick in your stats is horrific and now you are scarred for life .. you need to move on and stop whining about every little battlefield incidentThey should lose their ranked status for this
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Actually it was quite funny, and see previous post RE: what is a joke, what is an insultaside from it not being funny who are you to join someones server and insult them ? are they to assume that youre joking .. the nature i found it not being extremely offensive but also not friendly..
When you act inappropriately, I tell you to stop acting inappropriately. What's your point?now youre on someones server telling them how to behave .. hmm leme think how this will work out..
Forgive me if I indulge myself in another joke but this is completely e-tarded. Do you take threats from random people in your daily dealings or something that you'd think that was acceptable?now stoop even lower by making e-threats oh i got another example for this ..
I don't take threats from anybody
oh youre going to give an e-lashing?
Some truth to this - but when you are in a position of power, there is an owness on you that you must use it responsibily. Using it to fight your personal battles is not responsible. Cracking a joke is #1 not against any of the server rules #2 not against any kind of code of conduct #3 not unacceptable given it's a gaming environment and #4 disrupted the server in no way, broke no posted rules, did not stat pad anyone, etc. Like I said, on my forums, if someone insults my mapping abilities, I will take it in stride because the owness is on me to provide an example to my users that their opinions are valued, even if they touch on being a bit abrasive. Even if the negativity required action, I would issue a warning worded tactfully asking them to stop first. That is my responsibility as the admin, it transcends my personal battles or desire to be "childish, prideful, or not"This whole situation sounds like a testosterone-driven pissing contest to me. It takes two people to have a dispute and both sides let a very minor issue spiral out of control. If either party would've swallowed their pride and said "my bad, this is stupid, let's just drop it and play", things wouldn't have had to come to this.
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Yes I did, because as you should know this game is played by people all over the world. The same word can have VERY different meanings to different people. A word that you or I find inoffensive can be very offensive to another person from a different culture.Sud wrote:
...you used the most insulting possible term you could find for hobo to suit your argument
And I wholeheartedly agree with EA doing that. But, I see a lot of people stating you can't do X or Y on a ranked server because it's against EA's rules. Where are these rules for ranked servers that everyone seems to be getting their information from. If there is actually a rule that EA has put down that says you can't kick someone for calling you a hobo, then I will adhere to it. Until then i will run my server how I see fit. In fact i think we have less than 10 people that have ever beened banned from our server and almost all of those have been for blatant, repeated team killing.Sud wrote:
One tangible example you can use is EA's crackdown on knife/pistol only servers. By that logic, these servers are quite fine - the admin has a preference for those two weapons "if you don't like it, leave". BUT EA removed the ranked status from these servers because they directly stat pad those two stats. So it does show, in fact, they were in violation of a rule.however, I have yet to see anyone provide any reference to any posted rules by EA.
I don't consider kicking someone as padding their stats. My interpretation of padding is acts to artificially increase your score (we can just agree to disagree on this point). But if an admin were to kick someone to give himself or someone else a medal, then that would be padding. And YOU padded your own stats by repeatedly going back.Sud wrote:
An admin who bans or kicks with undue reason is padding a player's kicked/banned statistics. ... From this situations, I received 2 kicks and a ban to my permanent record when there was no just cause for any. This is comparable to libel against me, and an admin who does this has no business having the privilege of a ranked server.
No I do not expect to be treated poorly if I am a guest in someone's home. But, if I am - I LEAVE. You were asked to leave and came back twice.Sud wrote:
When you are a guest in someone's place, do you expect them to treat you as sub-human? Do you expect to be blatantly abused by your hosts? If you were, would you go back? If you were, would you hold those people in good standing?
It's not your place to decide how a business should be run. If they set up the server to pitch clients, that is their perogative.Sud wrote:
Even so, in game is neither the time nor the place to be doing a sales pitch. This is why there is an official website with FAQs and CSRs. In the game, I expect my team to be playing the game, not having a chat about server rentals. And what salesperson looks good if they turn into a raving lunatic in front of a client because someone made a small joke. The way they reacted, you'd think I brought their mothers into the conversation.You say that it doesn't make any difference that the admin was from a company that sells servers. Yet, you make a joke discrediting thier staff. That is their business and how they make their money. If I had some freeloader walk into my business and say something derogatory in front of a potential client, I'd kick them out too.
Actually, I don't know this for sure. This goes back to the Ranked Server Rules issue. There are none that i have ever found. The only "rules" that I am aware of are the ones the EA imposes within the server files themselves. The reason I agree witht he decision to take awaay ranked status from knife/pistol servers is that they would have been kicking people for using other weapons because they were trying to pad their own stats.Sud wrote:
Thanks for clarifying this - in my original post I had wanted confirmation on this. I had heard that there was an edict from EA saying that this was an exploit and the exploiters should be kicked. That should not matter though, as I still have the issue of stat manipulation to clear up.And, where do you come up with this notion that EA has a requirement on enforcement of the orange name exploit?
I don't see all that many complaints. It's just like anything else - you only hear from the people that complain about something. No one is going to post a message saying "Hey I played on the XYZ server last night and I didn't get kicked. It was great!". I saw one post on this forum from someone complaining that he was always getting kicked - and he was. But, I rarely get kicked, most of mine were auto-kicks from early in the game when I would get kicked for too many TKs when friendlies would try and catch my arty.I would much prefer if servers like this didn't show on the list at all, such that those people would actually be diverted into an official EA server. This is really why they need stronger regulation over who can and can not become a ranked server. To tell the truth, at this point, because of the great number of complaints being lodged against these "clan servers", I think only the EA servers should be ranked.
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