It's not really about luck.
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And above your tomb, the stars will belong to us.
Problem.-Sh1fty- wrote:
"Oh yeah I miss that girl I wish I could date her"
Problem.-Sh1fty- wrote:
she's beautiful and really cute so I hope things work out.
Problem.-Sh1fty- wrote:
and see who I connect most with.
Problem.-Sh1fty- wrote:
Practically had one girl begging me for sex and I was to chicken to do anything.
Why don't you hit her up and play hide the sausage?Zimmer wrote:
Problem.-Sh1fty- wrote:
Practically had one girl begging me for sex and I was to chicken to do anything.
could you explain why? saying problem doesn't helpZimmer wrote:
Problem.-Sh1fty- wrote:
"Oh yeah I miss that girl I wish I could date her"Problem.-Sh1fty- wrote:
she's beautiful and really cute so I hope things work out.Problem.-Sh1fty- wrote:
and see who I connect most with.Problem.-Sh1fty- wrote:
Practically had one girl begging me for sex and I was to chicken to do anything.
And above your tomb, the stars will belong to us.
Adams_BJ wrote:
Why don't you hit her up and play hide the sausage?Zimmer wrote:
Problem.-Sh1fty- wrote:
Practically had one girl begging me for sex and I was to chicken to do anything.
Get in contact again. At least get some if you can't get a girlfriend worth keeping.Adams_BJ wrote:
Adams_BJ wrote:
Why don't you hit her up and play hide the sausage?Zimmer wrote:
Problem.
Also, FB poking is normally not a bad sign of things to come if they take so much time to do it every day.
And Crew on a plane = Cabin Crew and Flight Crew, crew for the flight deck, crew for the cabin...
girl i like who i texted like everyday for two weeks, but talking over a month, liked this fb page called "i don't like texting first because i think i annoy you" i think me waiting to see if she texts me after i haven't in two days isn't going to work
And above your tomb, the stars will belong to us.
Adams_BJ wrote:
Why don't you hit her up and play hide the sausage?Zimmer wrote:
Problem.-Sh1fty- wrote:
Practically had one girl begging me for sex and I was to chicken to do anything.
Adams_BJ wrote:
Adams_BJ wrote:
Why don't you hit her up and play hide the sausage?Zimmer wrote:
Problem.
What do you mean by 'gentlemanly'? Do you mean you do all those presupposed things we expect a man to do? Pay the bill, pull out her chair for her to sit down at a cafe/restaurant, pick her up in a car everytime, take her shopping, buy her flowers?-Sh1fty- wrote:
I'm caring, and I'm gentlemanly, etc.
Meh, fuck that. Any woman worth keeping will find it refreshing if you treat her like a human being. In fact, she'll probably find it slightly patronising, and annoying, if you act like a 'correct' gentleman from a few decades ago.
If she expects you to do all that, then she is actually an undercover-misogynist, and there really is very little worse than a female sexist, so you should probably 'ditch that bitch' and live to try another day.
I have now excluded large portions of the female population for you, which may seem to work against you, but you know, standards and that. Also you might as well thank me, because the majority of the population in general are crap anyway, so at least you've now weeded out some of them.
Much love.
tl;dr: siihb
Make yourself interesting, and thus they will be interested in you
Make them feel special
I think thats about it
Having "I want to fuck something so I can tell my friends and you seem to be in range" written on your forehead - and girls can see these things believe me - is not how its done.
Make them feel special
I think thats about it
Having "I want to fuck something so I can tell my friends and you seem to be in range" written on your forehead - and girls can see these things believe me - is not how its done.
Русский военный корабль, иди на хуй!
solution: stop stalking girls
start stalking the pretty boys that get all the girls (but more importantly, can get the girl that they want)
observe what they do, how they treat them, etc.
While all of it might not work for you, some of it might.
start stalking the pretty boys that get all the girls (but more importantly, can get the girl that they want)
observe what they do, how they treat them, etc.
While all of it might not work for you, some of it might.
to be fair, if all you want to do is "fuck something", then there are plenty of women (like men) who want that as well.. Though the coffee shop might not be the perfect setting for that kind of attraction.Dilbert_X wrote:
Having "I want to fuck something so I can tell my friends and you seem to be in range" written on your forehead - and girls can see these things believe me - is not how its done.
But even they typically need a bit more appeal than Sh1fty wanting them to take pity him.
Русский военный корабль, иди на хуй!
You can't ever be needy, that's weak and no one is attracted to a weak person. They take pity on them instead.
When people say "confidence is attractive" what it really means IMO is that you have your shit together without any hangups and are generally fun and interesting to be around. That kinda rubs off on people and thus they find your presence something they want to be near.
When people say "confidence is attractive" what it really means IMO is that you have your shit together without any hangups and are generally fun and interesting to be around. That kinda rubs off on people and thus they find your presence something they want to be near.
yeah that usually happens when both are drunk, go figure.Jenspm wrote:
to be fair, if all you want to do is "fuck something", then there are plenty of women (like men) who want that as well.. Though the coffee shop might not be the perfect setting for that kind of attraction.Dilbert_X wrote:
Having "I want to fuck something so I can tell my friends and you seem to be in range" written on your forehead - and girls can see these things believe me - is not how its done.
Non shifty problem:
I'll make this short
I liked this girl. She didn't like me. I spent a while trying to convince her why she should take a chance on me. She said no and friend-zoned me like a muthafucka. I got over it and moved on.
*skip two years of on/off friendship due to our moving around the state*
We hang out a few times for the first time in about a year. We then form a 'friends with benny's' relationship so we can both get laid from time to time when we don't have someone else. THEN she tells me that since we started hanging out she's been developing a crush on me. I halt the sex but wasn't sure what to do next (I spent a while liking her then got over her - which included finding shit I hate about her - so I have this huge wall up towards her and a relationship). I told her how I didn't see myself going back to liking her and she was pissed but got over it.
Now whenever I hear about her going on dates with guys I get jealous and don't want to be. But whenever she calls me up for casual sex I don't want do cause I don't like her like that and I don't want to keep leading her on that there's a chance with me (nice guy bullshit and all...)
/rant
(I also suck at paint)
I'll make this short
I liked this girl. She didn't like me. I spent a while trying to convince her why she should take a chance on me. She said no and friend-zoned me like a muthafucka. I got over it and moved on.
*skip two years of on/off friendship due to our moving around the state*
We hang out a few times for the first time in about a year. We then form a 'friends with benny's' relationship so we can both get laid from time to time when we don't have someone else. THEN she tells me that since we started hanging out she's been developing a crush on me. I halt the sex but wasn't sure what to do next (I spent a while liking her then got over her - which included finding shit I hate about her - so I have this huge wall up towards her and a relationship). I told her how I didn't see myself going back to liking her and she was pissed but got over it.
Now whenever I hear about her going on dates with guys I get jealous and don't want to be. But whenever she calls me up for casual sex I don't want do cause I don't like her like that and I don't want to keep leading her on that there's a chance with me (nice guy bullshit and all...)
/rant
(I also suck at paint)
What happened with this girl? If nothing... find her and make something happen.-Sh1fty- wrote:
Practically had one girl begging me for sex and I was to chicken to do anything.
Last edited by El Beardo (2012-05-15 09:30:32)
Do most people really have their shit together like that at 19 or 20?Jaekus wrote:
You can't ever be needy, that's weak and no one is attracted to a weak person. They take pity on them instead.
When people say "confidence is attractive" what it really means IMO is that you have your shit together without any hangups and are generally fun and interesting to be around. That kinda rubs off on people and thus they find your presence something they want to be near.
I always felt like that's been the case ever since senior year of high school where everybody all of a sudden just got more optimistic, social, happy and confident and knew a few girls to go to at least go to prom with if not have more with. And then I felt like I was just one of those few people who never really found myself.
Having a few notches under your belt does improve your "aura".El Beardo wrote:
What happened with this girl? If nothing... find her and make something happen.-Sh1fty- wrote:
Practically had one girl begging me for sex and I was to chicken to do anything.
College "changes" many girls. Has nothing to do with getting shit together._j5689_ wrote:
Do most people really have their shit together like that at 19 or 20?Jaekus wrote:
You can't ever be needy, that's weak and no one is attracted to a weak person. They take pity on them instead.
When people say "confidence is attractive" what it really means IMO is that you have your shit together without any hangups and are generally fun and interesting to be around. That kinda rubs off on people and thus they find your presence something they want to be near.
I always felt like that's been the case ever since senior year of high school where everybody all of a sudden just got more optimistic, social, happy and confident and knew a few girls to go to at least go to prom with if not have more with. And then I felt like I was just one of those few people who never really found myself.
"Practically begging for sex" in shifty language probably means more like "smiled at me over the cash register"Ilocano wrote:
Having a few notches under your belt does improve your "aura".El Beardo wrote:
What happened with this girl? If nothing... find her and make something happen.-Sh1fty- wrote:
Practically had one girl begging me for sex and I was to chicken to do anything.
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-Sh1fty- you worry too much and think about all of this too much.
You're trying too hard
You're trying too hard
Fall seven times. Stand up eight.
BUT SHE WAVED TOO!DUnlimited wrote:
"Practically begging for sex" in shifty language probably means more like "smiled at me over the cash register"Ilocano wrote:
Having a few notches under your belt does improve your "aura".El Beardo wrote:
What happened with this girl? If nothing... find her and make something happen.
no she was very...very.. touchy and we were on her couch. I donno what else that could be
And above your tomb, the stars will belong to us.