that generally means you have nothing in common. You shouldn't have to force a conversation between two people. It really should just flow naturally.-Sh1fty- wrote:
I'm finding that more often than usual that I'm having trouble talking to girls, i.e. finding interesting things to talk about.
Dang I miss the dances. Was doing a lot better back in those days. wonder what changed.
Agree 101%Adams_BJ wrote:
that generally means you have nothing in common. You shouldn't have to force a conversation between two people. It really should just flow naturally.-Sh1fty- wrote:
I'm finding that more often than usual that I'm having trouble talking to girls, i.e. finding interesting things to talk about.
Dang I miss the dances. Was doing a lot better back in those days. wonder what changed.
pics or it didn't happenJaekus wrote:
Agree 101%Adams_BJ wrote:
that generally means you have nothing in common. You shouldn't have to force a conversation between two people. It really should just flow naturally.-Sh1fty- wrote:
I'm finding that more often than usual that I'm having trouble talking to girls, i.e. finding interesting things to talk about.
Dang I miss the dances. Was doing a lot better back in those days. wonder what changed.
My girl and I have talked on the phone for up to seven hours at a time (yes, I got the phone bill to prove it ). We could've kept talking but it was after midnight and we both had to work the next morning.
Not necessarily a dick head thing. Some people don't like to be committed to one person.HaiBai wrote:
there's a difference between acting like a boss and being a dickhead though.LittleBitchy wrote:
It doesn't always work that way.HaiBai wrote:
if you act like a bauss, you'll be seen as a bauss
You could be seen as a complete dickhead, no matter how hardcore you act.
To a lot of people that kind of attitude is annoying and repulsive.
besides, isn't picking up chicks just so you can bang them a dick headed thing all on its own? i'm sure some women are fine with being picked up for one night, but i'm sure most aren't
Hurricane2k9 wrote:
haibai you're a fucking moron
You make it sound like it's a common thing to have a person you can just call for sex with no obligations, it obviously is for women but I can't imagine it would be so for most guys.LittleBitchy wrote:
Not necessarily a dick head thing. Some people don't like to be committed to one person.HaiBai wrote:
there's a difference between acting like a boss and being a dickhead though.LittleBitchy wrote:
It doesn't always work that way.
You could be seen as a complete dickhead, no matter how hardcore you act.
To a lot of people that kind of attitude is annoying and repulsive.
besides, isn't picking up chicks just so you can bang them a dick headed thing all on its own? i'm sure some women are fine with being picked up for one night, but i'm sure most aren't
I do find the "sleeping around with 3 different chicks/men" in one weekend a bit whore-ish (for both parties) since you could get a girl/guy with no obligations and just call when you wanna get laid but hey...whatever floats people's boats
Maybe you'll be the same in a few years, you never know what you'll want/find awesome in a few years or so
Depends on the guy. I've been in 3 no-commitment dead-end "relationships" where sex was the only bond and neither of us cared how the other's day went, or who they had interest in now. All ended abruptly and with no drawn out shitty contrived friendship period._j5689_ wrote:
You make it sound like it's a common thing to have a person you can just call for sex with no obligations, it obviously is for women but I can't imagine it would be so for most guys.LittleBitchy wrote:
Not necessarily a dick head thing. Some people don't like to be committed to one person.HaiBai wrote:
there's a difference between acting like a boss and being a dickhead though.
besides, isn't picking up chicks just so you can bang them a dick headed thing all on its own? i'm sure some women are fine with being picked up for one night, but i'm sure most aren't
I do find the "sleeping around with 3 different chicks/men" in one weekend a bit whore-ish (for both parties) since you could get a girl/guy with no obligations and just call when you wanna get laid but hey...whatever floats people's boats
Maybe you'll be the same in a few years, you never know what you'll want/find awesome in a few years or so
Is there some way to magically not be clingy in my position?Pochsy wrote:
Depends on the guy. I've been in 3 no-commitment dead-end "relationships" where sex was the only bond and neither of us cared how the other's day went, or who they had interest in now. All ended abruptly and with no drawn out shitty contrived friendship period._j5689_ wrote:
You make it sound like it's a common thing to have a person you can just call for sex with no obligations, it obviously is for women but I can't imagine it would be so for most guys.LittleBitchy wrote:
Not necessarily a dick head thing. Some people don't like to be committed to one person.
I do find the "sleeping around with 3 different chicks/men" in one weekend a bit whore-ish (for both parties) since you could get a girl/guy with no obligations and just call when you wanna get laid but hey...whatever floats people's boats
Maybe you'll be the same in a few years, you never know what you'll want/find awesome in a few years or so
You're too clingy.
I'd say no, and I'd go a step further and say you wouldn't want to be less clingy (emotional) if you could. Those dead end relationships leave you with nothing in the end except some good sex. After a few years the blinders of sex drive come off, and you've forgotten how to be a good partner due to the independence you enjoyed in the no-commitment relationships._j5689_ wrote:
Is there some way to magically not be clingy in my position?Pochsy wrote:
Depends on the guy. I've been in 3 no-commitment dead-end "relationships" where sex was the only bond and neither of us cared how the other's day went, or who they had interest in now. All ended abruptly and with no drawn out shitty contrived friendship period._j5689_ wrote:
You make it sound like it's a common thing to have a person you can just call for sex with no obligations, it obviously is for women but I can't imagine it would be so for most guys.
You're too clingy.
this guy knows his shit. everything in life is 50/50Mutantbear wrote:
either youre too clingy or youre not
I know a lot of girls and guys who have partners just for sex_j5689_ wrote:
You make it sound like it's a common thing to have a person you can just call for sex with no obligations, it obviously is for women but I can't imagine it would be so for most guys.LittleBitchy wrote:
Not necessarily a dick head thing. Some people don't like to be committed to one person.HaiBai wrote:
there's a difference between acting like a boss and being a dickhead though.
besides, isn't picking up chicks just so you can bang them a dick headed thing all on its own? i'm sure some women are fine with being picked up for one night, but i'm sure most aren't
I do find the "sleeping around with 3 different chicks/men" in one weekend a bit whore-ish (for both parties) since you could get a girl/guy with no obligations and just call when you wanna get laid but hey...whatever floats people's boats
Maybe you'll be the same in a few years, you never know what you'll want/find awesome in a few years or so
I hate your avatar.LittleBitchy wrote:
I know a lot of girls and guys who have partners just for sex_j5689_ wrote:
You make it sound like it's a common thing to have a person you can just call for sex with no obligations, it obviously is for women but I can't imagine it would be so for most guys.LittleBitchy wrote:
Not necessarily a dick head thing. Some people don't like to be committed to one person.
I do find the "sleeping around with 3 different chicks/men" in one weekend a bit whore-ish (for both parties) since you could get a girl/guy with no obligations and just call when you wanna get laid but hey...whatever floats people's boats
Maybe you'll be the same in a few years, you never know what you'll want/find awesome in a few years or so
They don't call each other every day, they don't send texts every day and other stuff like that.
Ofc they do go out sometimes, drinks, lunch, dinner but basically they are just 2 people who are sexually attracted to each other but don't want any emotional bullshit, jealousy and stuff like that. So when they feel the need, they call each other, grab something to eat/movie/something, get laid and go to back to their own lives.
Some people can do that
post of the yearMacbeth wrote:
It screams attention whore to be honest. You are a girl on the internet, we get it. Having a sexualized avatar like that makes it seem like you want all the guys on the forum to be really nice and be respectful to you since you have a vagina. It's kind of a white knight magnet.
You should change it.
http://forums.bf2s.com/viewtopic.php?pi … 7#p3766857Hurricane2k9 wrote:
littlebitchy is a girl?
Oh god, let me tell you a few things.Macbeth wrote:
It screams attention whore to be honest. You are a girl on the internet, we get it. Having a sexualized avatar like that makes it seem like you want all the guys on the forum to be really nice and be respectful to you since you have a vagina. It's kind of a white knight magnet.
You should change it.
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LittleBitchy wrote:
Oh god, let me tell you a few things.Macbeth wrote:
It screams attention whore to be honest. You are a girl on the internet, we get it. Having a sexualized avatar like that makes it seem like you want all the guys on the forum to be really nice and be respectful to you since you have a vagina. It's kind of a white knight magnet.
You should change it.
I have the avatar because i like it and i've had it since the beginning. I couldn't care less what anyone would have to say to me if he has something to back up his statements with (which insults aren't ).
And as you clearly don't know, a lot of people have been everything but nice to me here, and i don't complain about it.
You don't have to be really nice and respectful because i'm a girl. But there are some things and some manners that people should have, and sexuality has nothing to do with that. So no, you don't have to be really nice to me, i never even said that from the beginning since i came here 2 years ago. And i don't need a white knight, i can stand up for myself, i'm not 12
If you're a nice person you're a nice person.If you're a dickhead you're a dickhead. And if you don't like someone you just don't. Doesn't really matter if it's a guy or a girl on the other side
And i don't really know why an avatar really matters. It's the person, not the damn picture.
