Kmar
Truth is my Bitch
+5,695|7007|132 and Bush

I guess there is life independent, and emotionally independent. Most women in my experience want to be challenged in life (for the most part), yet when they need their solid they want their man close. Some are reluctant to admit it because they feel it makes them lesser, or that they have some sort of dependency. That is not really the case though, because want and need are not the same thing.
Xbone Stormsurgezz
.:ronin:.|Patton
Respekct dad i love u always
+946|7215|Marathon, Florida Keys

gurdeep wrote:

Macbeth wrote:

Macbeth wrote:

Post pictures
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i don't even want a relationship, i just wish she lived here so we could be friends with benefits.
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Jaekus
I'm the matchstick that you'll never lose
+957|5584|Sydney

Kmar wrote:

I guess there is life independent, and emotionally independent. Most women in my experience want to be challenged in life (for the most part), yet when they need their solid they want their man close. Some are reluctant to admit it because they feel it makes them lesser, or that they have some sort of dependency. That is not really the case though, because want and need are not the same thing.
I see your point. My ex did leave home at 14 as her relationship with her mother had always been pretty shit to say the least. So for her to feel the need to lean on someone is at odds with her independence, which was necessary for survival for so long. Conversely my current girl grew up in a loving family with a younger sister she gets along with really well, similar to my upbringing with my family and younger brother. Match made in heaven
HaiBai
Your thoughts, insights, and musings on this matter intrigue me
+304|5890|Bolingbrook, Illinois

Mutantbear wrote:

whats the problem then?
shes bringing those other two girls, kasia and aneta.  they're cool and i like them, but not what i wanted
Mutantbear
Semi Constructive Criticism
+1,431|6371|London, England

HaiBai wrote:

Mutantbear wrote:

whats the problem then?
shes bringing those other two girls, kasia and aneta.  they're cool and i like them, but not what i wanted
post pics and I might take them off your hands

double date
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Pochsy
Artifice of Eternity
+702|5949|Toronto
I haven't spoken with my girlfriend in a week, and am starting to think something may be wrong.

She went on a trip to British Columbia (other side of country) for a conference on urban planning transportation solutions something or other, and hasn't responded to any of the messages I've sent. The trip was supposed to be for 2 or 3 days to my understanding, and yet a week later still not contact.

So should I call her family and ask where the fuck she is? I don't normally speak with her folks, so it would come across as rather desperate (which I am).
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Zimmer
Un Moderador
+1,688|7162|Scotland

Pochsy wrote:

I haven't spoken with my girlfriend in a week, and am starting to think something may be wrong.

She went on a trip to British Columbia (other side of country) for a conference on urban planning transportation solutions something or other, and hasn't responded to any of the messages I've sent. The trip was supposed to be for 2 or 3 days to my understanding, and yet a week later still not contact.

So should I call her family and ask where the fuck she is? I don't normally speak with her folks, so it would come across as rather desperate (which I am).
Sounds like she's been the bitch and trying to "let you go" the famous girl way. Go to her house? Phone her? Ask her friends? Not parents, never a good idea.
Kampframmer
Esq.
+313|5248|Amsterdam

Pochsy wrote:

I haven't spoken with my girlfriend in a week, and am starting to think something may be wrong.

She went on a trip to British Columbia (other side of country) for a conference on urban planning transportation solutions something or other, and hasn't responded to any of the messages I've sent. The trip was supposed to be for 2 or 3 days to my understanding, and yet a week later still not contact.

So should I call her family and ask where the fuck she is? I don't normally speak with her folks, so it would come across as rather desperate (which I am).
If you're doing it because you think she might be cheating, don't. There's probably some other goof reason for her not letting anything hear from her
If you're doing it out of concern for her well-being, then by all means call her parents.
Zimmer
Un Moderador
+1,688|7162|Scotland

Kampframmer wrote:

Pochsy wrote:

I haven't spoken with my girlfriend in a week, and am starting to think something may be wrong.

She went on a trip to British Columbia (other side of country) for a conference on urban planning transportation solutions something or other, and hasn't responded to any of the messages I've sent. The trip was supposed to be for 2 or 3 days to my understanding, and yet a week later still not contact.

So should I call her family and ask where the fuck she is? I don't normally speak with her folks, so it would come across as rather desperate (which I am).
If you're doing it because you think she might be cheating, don't. There's probably some other goof reason for her not letting anything hear from her
If you're doing it out of concern for her well-being, then by all means call her parents.
By the post I've gotten the impression she isn't dead and is around, so it's clearly a matter of her not speaking to him. Not parent involvement situation tbh. Especially if you're not close with them.
Pochsy
Artifice of Eternity
+702|5949|Toronto
Zimmer, yeah, I think I may heed your advice and avoid speaking with the parents for now.

Kamp, I'm more concerned for her well-being. She is certainly not the kind of girl to cheat (famous last words).

I think I'll sit on it for one more day, and approach her best friend to make sure everything is okay. In all likelihood her phone has died and she just hasn't been checking her email or facebook, being the super-active person she is. This does not, however, explain why she would still be in BC. Perhaps a last minute decision to make a ski-trip out of a university-paid event, which wouldn't even be out of character for her.

It's going to be weird asking her best friend 'hey, do you know where Samantha is? I've kind of lost track of my girlfriend'. I'll be crushed if she does know more than me, as it suggests I'm a lesser priority.
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Pochsy
Artifice of Eternity
+702|5949|Toronto
Just got a text explaining exactly what I had suspected. Her phone had died and she decided to extend the trip. She's back in the province now and will be visiting me this weekend.

Hurray for not getting ditched/cheated on!
The shape of an eye in front of the ocean, digging for stones and throwing them against its window pane. Take it down dreamer, take it down deep. - Other Families
Macbeth
Banned
+2,444|5992

She still could have cheated. Hell she could have lost the phone while cheating.
m3thod
All kiiiiiiiiinds of gainz
+2,197|7077|UK
mac stop being a cunt
Blackbelts are just whitebelts who have never quit.
Macbeth
Banned
+2,444|5992

okay
Pochsy
Artifice of Eternity
+702|5949|Toronto
Yeah, but being cheated on could happen anywhere/anytime. I can't worry all day about what she might be doing. The relationship works because I trust that she won't cheat to begin with, and that if she did she would be honest enough to dump me and move on.

I should preemptively cheat on her so I can rub it in her face that I beat her to the punch if she cheats on me.
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m3thod
All kiiiiiiiiinds of gainz
+2,197|7077|UK
to be honest and taking a more subtle approach to mac why didn't she just send a email or even borrow someones phone to send a text?  She was at a conference not stuck up some mountain/forest.

you better grill her good.
Blackbelts are just whitebelts who have never quit.
Adams_BJ
Russian warship, go fuck yourself
+2,055|7029|Little Bentcock
See if that pussy's changed pochsy!
Adams_BJ
Russian warship, go fuck yourself
+2,055|7029|Little Bentcock
See if that pussy's changed pochsy!
Hurricane2k9
Pendulous Sweaty Balls
+1,538|6108|College Park, MD
yeah give her the jack bauer questioning
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Pochsy
Artifice of Eternity
+702|5949|Toronto
Meth, she's not the best for keeping everybody up on what she's doing. I'm just asking to get cheated on, I know.

Adams, we'll see if the guy she slept with had a bigger dong. Doubt it.
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eleven bravo
Member
+1,399|5665|foggy bottom
all bitches cheat
Tu Stultus Es
Hurricane2k9
Pendulous Sweaty Balls
+1,538|6108|College Park, MD
i met this awesome girl today
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Mutantbear
Semi Constructive Criticism
+1,431|6371|London, England

she was prol a guy
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Adams_BJ
Russian warship, go fuck yourself
+2,055|7029|Little Bentcock
if she wasnt she is fucking some other guy right now
Hurricane2k9
Pendulous Sweaty Balls
+1,538|6108|College Park, MD
yeah
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