Adams_BJ wrote:
_j5689_ wrote:
Well he was prescribed
this stuff which is supposed to be a one time thing and the best type you can get, so it looks like the best way of curing it. He's going to get a 2nd packet of it because it's like dust stuff that you mix in a drink and then give it to her.
burnzz wrote:
if you*re near enough, i'm queer enough . . .
look, you may have been the most offensive player in Maryland, but take this one little piece of advice from an old-timer; just do it.
all y'all need to get out from behind a computer, knock the bottom out of some strange, and quit seeking the approval of fellow game forum members. she may not be Miss [insert your country here] but she needs to be breathing. that's it, women are as horny as men,
IT"S THE SECRET BITCHES DON"T WANT YOU TO KNOW ABOUT.
just do it, and keep the details to yourself.
It's not that easy, you get all your confidence up to walk over and start talking, and then sometimes they play hard to get.
Although I admit it really wasn't that hard for this girl, I just waited for her group to walk out and get a cigarette so I could bum a light off them and then join the convo, which worked really good but I can't help but feel like it was lucky that she already seemed a little bit attracted to me, then again I don't initiate conversations a lot like that so it may be as common as you say. Holy fuck, the whole thing was good progress now that I think about it
You have to also know how to sexually escalate things properly or you'll destroy their hornyness, that's what I'm afraid of doing because I have no idea how to do it. I don't have like a natural flow(or well-learned confidence-backed 2nd nature logic in place of it for me) for that yet like I eventually attained with regular conversations. This type of thing hasn't happened enough for me and I haven't learned much at all about how to do it properly, either by experience or word of mouth. I either misread or become unsure of the signs, and if I get a straight sign I become unsure of how to react properly so I don't really do anything or as with this last case I think I just conversationally went around it but I really don't remember what I said for some reason.
Logical breakthroughs make my day, I feel like a whole bunch of weight has been lifted off of me and I finally understand the problem at least a little better.
won't work like that man, She needs to know she is at risk, and see the doctor.
Also if a chick wants to fuck you, its pretty hard to change her mind on that, no matter how awkward you are. There are no steps for 'sexual escelation' as you put it. If she kisses you kiss her back, grab her tit, whatever. If shes not comfortable with it she's not gonna slap you and walk out, she's gonna tell you she doesn't like that and keep going.
like I said, if she wants to fuck, she's gonna fuck. She wants it as much as you do, they just go a different way about it.
Well he seems hell-bent on keeping her not knowing and on top of that he's kind of having a little attitude about how I'm more with you guys and your collective theory that actually makes sense, or possibly just bothered that I'm not re-assuring him or something, sympathy never has been and still isn't one of my strong points of expression, real or not(and I do feel bad about it, this is my best friend). So I've done all I can and hopefully his solution works.
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And I haven't come close to doing any of that physical stuff at all, like I said I've never even kissed a girl, so I don't have any experience to go off of with that stuff, nor do I know how it's supposed to work. I'm just talking about the parts where a girl mentions something about it in conversation, such as that comment the girl at the party made about not getting enough dick and what I was really supposed to say to that to progress things, if that is indeed what you're supposed to do when they say something like that. If that's not what's supposed to lead up to something physical then I am completely lost.
Last edited by _j5689_ (2011-01-31 19:43:06)
