Stingray24 wrote:
Braddock wrote:
Stingray24 wrote:
The problem is, Braddock, that the vast majority of abortions are retroactive contraception. And Planned Parenthood and similar organizations are making bank on that. If that's not reprehensible, I'm not sure what is.
That may be so (though I've never seen any facts or figures to agree or disagree with your claim) but my opinion is unchanged as the option simply has to be there for women who are the victim of rape or might be at risk of death through childbirth themselves. If a woman has been violated in the most violent and horrific way possible who is anyone to tell her what she can or cannot do with the bundle of cells that have been placed inside her womb without her consent? And if a woman stands the very real risk of dying through childbirth who is the State to decide whether she lives of dies? What if she has 7 other children who will have to live without a mother if she dies... nothing is ever black and white, life is complicated.
In regard to rape or actual risk of death, that certainly is a different set of circumstances. The black and white of it, is the life is being ended, no matter the situation. However, in those two circumstances, as you say, life is complicated and there should be consideration of the individual circumstances. Anything elective, however, is sickening.
My attitude on the issue of rape is that the choices of the mother outweigh those of the child that should never have been conceived in the first place. The woman has already been violated and will most likely never recover fully from her ordeal, for anyone to tell her that she MUST give birth to the child of the man who raped her is simply unfair. A woman should not be forced to change her entire life-plan because of the actions of a rapist. The act of rape itself is traumatic enough, never mind having to pay for it for the rest of your life.
Many argue that the victim should simply give birth and then give the child up for adoption, but this too is not fair. The victim would have to put her life on hold, suffer the public humiliation of being quite obviously the victim of rape by carrying the child for 9 months, go through the ordeal of forming an inevitable bond with the child of her rapist, then ultimately go through the ordeal of giving the child up and living the rest of her life in the knowledge that her offspring is wandering the world possibly with a whole host of abandonment issues.
If the victim wants to have the child then that's great, good for her. I have a friend who decided to keep the child that resulted from her being raped and she's one of the sweetest kids you could imagine.