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so my girlfriend fucked a fat guy in the first week we started going out. awesome

RavyGravy wrote:

so my girlfriend fucked a fat guy in the first week we started going out. awesome

Get back at her by fucking the same guy. I don't see another course of action that can be nearly as dulce et utile.

But really, if you only dated for a week, no sweat. I'm sure the fat guy had a great personality.

and you haven't dumped her yet?

I got dumped by my first 'true love' for a fat guy.  A death knell that was.

Zimmer's right though, if you can't or won't get over it, kick the chick to the curb.  If you care about her more than you care about the fact she fucked a fattie, do what you can to forget about it.

Besides, it was in the first week of you going out. That doesn't count as being in a relationship or being exclusive to one another. I don't think it's that big a deal.

I'm still not sure that the idea behind it is all that bad. If you went out with someone once or twice in a week, and then fucked someone else, that shouldn't be a problem, or lead to problems. Once the dating has gone on long enough, and the relationship has solidified, then obviously doing anything with anyone else is a no-no.

I guess it's just a matter of different standards.

RavyGravy wrote:

It wouldn't be that bad had we only known each other for a little while. but she has been my friend 9 months prior to us dating so that makes it a bit worse...

well Ravy, this is where the rubber meets the road ~ either you let it go and forgive her, or you let her go. the fact that you've posted tells me you're near a breaking point, and if you don't let something go you are going to break something.

I thought this would be a good spot to ask this.

Wall of text time

Situation:
Everything is ok with me (married, kids).  I want to break up my brother-in-law and his bitch because everyone hates her.  She has absolutely no filter.  No one in the family will say anything to her, because it's outside the status quo.  Plus, the brother-in-law doesn't really date much due to being crushingly shy.  But I'm like...fuck...you want this bitch in the family forever?

He got her because he's a nice guy and she just went thru a divorce.   Thing is, they've been dating for about two years now and living together...sort of...with her daughter from her first marriage.   Every four months or so they get in a spat, where she demands marriage.  Every time we tell him to dump her...but he never does...so each time we tell him with a little less interest.  He's actually called the relationship "convenient".  Meanwhile, his bitch partner is grabbing more and more power and influence within the family.

I have to deal with this bitch at the family dinner every Sunday.  Not going to the dinner isn't an option.

So how do I get this bitch out of my life?

Some examples of bitchery:
- During family dinner asks "so are you holding your son back in school?"  My son is not being held back in school.  He's younger than she thinks.  She says this in front of the entire family, which includes the six kids at the table...including my son.  At least once a month, her daughter tells my son he's been held back.  Last time I scolded her daughter and she cried.  Well, because, the bitch daughter never does anything wrong.  Now I'm the bad guy.

-Both of my kids were bottle fed, because of a problem my wife had with nursing.  My sister-in-law had a premature kid (four or five months early...in the 1% survival rate) who only had formula.  Bitch's daughter (seven years old btw) starts asking questions about breast feeding versus formula.  She says to my sister-in-law "Well, it's not natural to not breast feed, because it makes the babies weaker.  I guess this makes your son special.  And (Pug's kids) are special too, all though it's not part of God's plan".  My sister in law says nothing, not even to the Bitch. 

The next day, my son says "Am I part of God's plan because I was bottle fed?" 

I call the bitch up and ask how come her kid is talking about my kids.  She explains "We are open about everything".  At which point I say, "That's fine, but I don't think it's appropriate for that age.  Especially when its a seven year old explaining it to a five year old.  Do me a favor, talk about the topic in general terms without names.  Don't treat my fucking family like an afterschool special".  And I'm the bad guy.

What we've done:
We've already tried explaining that we do not like the brother-in-law airing family dirty laundry to his girlfriend, since is being broadcast as soon as it's shared.  He doesn't want to confront her, so he tells us to talk directly with her.  So now we hammer her every time she says anything stupid, making the family dinner akward at least once a month.  Yet she keeps coming back. 

Oh, and I got to buy the bitch something for Xmas, since I got her name in the gift exchange.

jesus pug


want to borrow my shovel and some rope?


tbh i'd tell him until he got his bitch under control they're not welcome at any family gatherings

burnzz wrote:

batteries.

buy her batteries, and when she askes what they're for, tell her they're for a vibrator she can buy herself and fuck off.

ok, i'll need to think this one through, that was a first thought . . .

it's not nothing if it's on the back of so much other stuff


shit adds up!

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

sheesh women have such double standards

Let's say my girlfriend and I are watching a movie. Guy comes on screen. She says he's hot. I'm supposed to grin and bear it.

Girl comes on screen. I say she's hot. She gives me a glaring look.

lol.

exactly. i learned early on in my marriage to make a big deal about a fine piece of ass that walks in front of us. no peek sneekin, just straight up go "damn" loud enough for her to hear but not loud enough to embarrass her.

Bevo wrote:

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

sheesh women have such double standards

Let's say my girlfriend and I are watching a movie. Guy comes on screen. She says he's hot. I'm supposed to grin and bear it.

Girl comes on screen. I say she's hot. She gives me a glaring look.

lol.

duh.

also, girl keeps bugging me wanting for us to "hang out" now that im back in town over the break. she's a bit over a year younger than me (16 for another month or two ). blehhhh. im not the type to "hit it and quit it" but the opportunity it staring me right in the face

Do it.