krazed wrote:
jesus pug
want to borrow my shovel and some rope?
tbh i'd tell him until he got his bitch under control they're not welcome at any family gatherings
I've lobbied the other family members. Explained the situation...usually because THEY start bitching about her first. They aren't direct enough. The parents have discussed "it's not fair to her, if she wants to get married and you are leading her on". He's like, well...I'm fine with how it is.
It's up to me.
btw she's pretty hot...on the outside only
Here's another example:
Two years ago: My son's bday party, he's turning three. Brother-in-law calls me, asks if new girlfriend can bring cake for one of the other adults at the party. I tell him no, it's a party for my son, if you want to have a separate party, then have a separate party. The party is for my son. Do not bring the cake.
Two days later, she shows up with a cake. My wife goes ballistic and tells her the cake is not going to happen. She pouts outside alone. Brother-in-law comes in and says "what's the big deal about giving the other cake". Wife yells "1) we told you no already, 2) we already had a party for her, 3) it's not her party".
Oh, and BTW, they didn't bring a gift to the party for my son because there wasn't enough time to shop...but she had time to bake a fucking homemade cake.
Sounds like nothing...but something like this happens EVERY TIME we are around this bitch. Most of the time we ignore it...until recently we have adopted a zero tolerance stance.