Hurricane2k9
Pendulous Sweaty Balls
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Why is death such a difficult concept for humans to grasp? People fear death, I assume, because they are not fully certain of what lies on the other side. The idea of simply ceasing to exist, as if one falls into a sleep without dreams, is rattling.

And what about the taking of lives? Many soldiers, police officers and even people who have had to defend their home often say that one of the worst feelings in the world is what one feels after taking a man's life. Primitive beasts like dogs and lions obviously don't have such reservations, because they do not have any humanity. But why does even the idea of killing a person rattle us? We're taught from birth that we "shalt not kill." But in some situations, you must either kill or be killed. So why is it so mind-warping to commit such an act? I'm not even necessarily looking for the philosophical answers but the psychological ones. What exactly does it do to our minds?
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SEREVENT
MASSIVE G STAR
+605|6394|Birmingham, UK
I guess because killing is the most un natural thing to do?
Hurricane2k9
Pendulous Sweaty Balls
+1,538|5988|College Park, MD

SEREVENT wrote:

I guess because killing is the most un natural thing to do?
But wasn't it almost a facet of society at certain points? Look at all the turmoil in the middle ages, the prehistoric era. Is it because we've become more enlightened since those days?
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Chou
Member
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It's called Civilization.
Jay
Bork! Bork! Bork!
+2,006|5644|London, England

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

Why is death such a difficult concept for humans to grasp? People fear death, I assume, because they are not fully certain of what lies on the other side. The idea of simply ceasing to exist, as if one falls into a sleep without dreams, is rattling.

And what about the taking of lives? Many soldiers, police officers and even people who have had to defend their home often say that one of the worst feelings in the world is what one feels after taking a man's life. Primitive beasts like dogs and lions obviously don't have such reservations, because they do not have any humanity. But why does even the idea of killing a person rattle us? We're taught from birth that we "shalt not kill." But in some situations, you must either kill or be killed. So why is it so mind-warping to commit such an act? I'm not even necessarily looking for the philosophical answers but the psychological ones. What exactly does it do to our minds?
People are programmed by their society to react a certain way emotionally to stimulus. If you get a sad letter, you're supposed to cry. If your friend dies, you're supposed to cry. You're supposed to feel bad if you kill an animal. You're supposed to feel happy if you see Santa Claus in a mall. These are all programmed into us by societal norms. We've been taught that the reaction to taking a human life should be: remorse, sadness, despair, and depression. A normal reaction to killing a bad person, to me, would be happiness, but that has been programmed out. Take it up with the books and movies and tv shows that have been telling people how they should feel in certain situations for the last few hundred years. Go back to the middle ages and you wouldn't find any symptoms of battle fatigue or shell shock even though the fighting was much more personal.
"Ah, you miserable creatures! You who think that you are so great! You who judge humanity to be so small! You who wish to reform everything! Why don't you reform yourselves? That task would be sufficient enough."
-Frederick Bastiat
13urnzz
Banned
+5,830|6784

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

But in some situations, you must either kill or be killed.
since i've been acquitted, i will share this - your life certainly gets 'divided'.
Hurricane2k9
Pendulous Sweaty Balls
+1,538|5988|College Park, MD

JohnG@lt wrote:

Take it up with the books and movies and tv shows that have been telling people how they should feel in certain situations for the last few hundred years. Go back to the middle ages and you wouldn't find any symptoms of battle fatigue or shell shock even though the fighting was much more personal.
That's something I've always been curious about. There really wasn't any sort of PTSD or whatever you want to call it during those days? Even though Christianity was already prevalent by then and taught us "we shalt not kill"?
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Dilbert_X
The X stands for
+1,817|6392|eXtreme to the maX
The ego can't deal with the concept that it won't exist.
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Flaming_Maniac
prince of insufficient light
+2,490|6993|67.222.138.85

JohnG@lt wrote:

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

Why is death such a difficult concept for humans to grasp? People fear death, I assume, because they are not fully certain of what lies on the other side. The idea of simply ceasing to exist, as if one falls into a sleep without dreams, is rattling.

And what about the taking of lives? Many soldiers, police officers and even people who have had to defend their home often say that one of the worst feelings in the world is what one feels after taking a man's life. Primitive beasts like dogs and lions obviously don't have such reservations, because they do not have any humanity. But why does even the idea of killing a person rattle us? We're taught from birth that we "shalt not kill." But in some situations, you must either kill or be killed. So why is it so mind-warping to commit such an act? I'm not even necessarily looking for the philosophical answers but the psychological ones. What exactly does it do to our minds?
People are programmed by their society to react a certain way emotionally to stimulus. If you get a sad letter, you're supposed to cry. If your friend dies, you're supposed to cry. You're supposed to feel bad if you kill an animal. You're supposed to feel happy if you see Santa Claus in a mall. These are all programmed into us by societal norms. We've been taught that the reaction to taking a human life should be: remorse, sadness, despair, and depression. A normal reaction to killing a bad person, to me, would be happiness, but that has been programmed out. Take it up with the books and movies and tv shows that have been telling people how they should feel in certain situations for the last few hundred years. Go back to the middle ages and you wouldn't find any symptoms of battle fatigue or shell shock even though the fighting was much more personal.
No, natural instincts tell you how to react to death. If anything society trains you to not react to death or killing for some ethical or pragmatic reason.

A species doesn't naturally select itself. Aggression inside the species makes sense to find leaders and mates, but ultimately it is about the species vs. nature. That's why intraspecies killing as a whole is so rare in a natural setting.

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

JohnG@lt wrote:

Take it up with the books and movies and tv shows that have been telling people how they should feel in certain situations for the last few hundred years. Go back to the middle ages and you wouldn't find any symptoms of battle fatigue or shell shock even though the fighting was much more personal.
That's something I've always been curious about. There really wasn't any sort of PTSD or whatever you want to call it during those days? Even though Christianity was already prevalent by then and taught us "we shalt not kill"?
Thou shalt not kill Christians. Heathens are going to hell anyways.
Macbeth
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SEREVENT wrote:

I guess because killing is the most un natural thing to do?
How is killing unnatural? Animals kill each other all the time over the same things we do, territory, mates, etc.
Iconic Irony
Bare Back Rough Rider
+189|5562|San Angelo, TX

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

Why is death such a difficult concept for humans to grasp? People fear death, I assume, because they are not fully certain of what lies on the other side. The idea of simply ceasing to exist, as if one falls into a sleep without dreams, is rattling.

And what about the taking of lives? Many soldiers, police officers and even people who have had to defend their home often say that one of the worst feelings in the world is what one feels after taking a man's life. Primitive beasts like dogs and lions obviously don't have such reservations, because they do not have any humanity. But why does even the idea of killing a person rattle us? We're taught from birth that we "shalt not kill." But in some situations, you must either kill or be killed. So why is it so mind-warping to commit such an act? I'm not even necessarily looking for the philosophical answers but the psychological ones. What exactly does it do to our minds?
Control. 

They are afraid of their own death because they cannot control it and they cause the deaths of others they cannot control.
Kmar
Truth is my Bitch
+5,695|6887|132 and Bush

Fear of death is programmed in us so we survive as a species.
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mafia996630
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I think it boilz down to the simple fear of the unknown. A lot of religious people who believe doing good in this life with allow them to enter heaven, often are not afraid of death. This however can only be applied to a person of a particular mind frame, if the situation differs; if a person is in a war zone then instincts take over.
DesertFox-
The very model of a modern major general
+796|6971|United States of America
I don't know how much "fear of the unknown" actually applies into it. I don't wanna die, not because I'm afraid of it, but because I've still got shit things I want to do whilst alive.
Dilbert_X
The X stands for
+1,817|6392|eXtreme to the maX

mafia996630 wrote:

I think it boilz down to the simple fear of the unknown. A lot of religious people who believe doing good in this life with allow them to enter heaven, often are not afraid of death. This however can only be applied to a person of a particular mind frame, if the situation differs; if a person is in a war zone then instincts take over.
In war zones most people freeze in fear.

It takes training - military - or brainwashing - religion - to either lose fear of death or remove unwillingness to take life.
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Superior Mind
(not macbeth)
+1,755|6979
If one concentrates on what one is rather than who one is, death will be unveiled.

Should one reason deeper yet into how one is then death may be studied.

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DrunkFace
Germans did 911
+427|6968|Disaster Free Zone
How do you know dogs and lions have no reservations about killing their own? Both are pack animals that protect each other and don't just wantonly kill each other for no reason.

And if you're talking about hunting and killing their prey... Humans have no problem with that either.
globefish23
sophisticated slacker
+334|6610|Graz, Austria
As for killing others:
It's empathy.
If you're not a sociopath or otherwise insane, you can imagine and feel yourself what another person feels.
Mitch
16 more years
+877|6812|South Florida

Hurricane2k9 wrote:

SEREVENT wrote:

I guess because killing is the most un natural thing to do?
But wasn't it almost a facet of society at certain points? Look at all the turmoil in the middle ages, the prehistoric era. Is it because we've become more enlightened since those days?
Sure, but society changes. If you grew up in "300" where there were wars every year and you were sent into the wild to fight a giant panther thing then you would have different feelings about killing someone.
15 more years! 15 more years!
lowing
Banned
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Dilbert_X wrote:

The ego can't deal with the concept that it won't exist.
^^^^^^^^^^
Actually, I like this explaination the best.

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