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2008-12-18 15:54:41
Tripulaci0n
Member
+14|6367
I have a lot of fun on dates that revolve around something that I'd do even if I wasn't on a date (either by myself or with friends). A classic example is the dinner date. If you weren't on a date you'd still be eating dinner. So even if the date sucked, at least you had some good food. It also helps you seem more relaxed/at ease/worth fucking when you're genuinely having fun.

I think that some kind of activity-date is best for the first date and then on the 2nd date if you guys enjoy spending time together have dinner or something; a place where you can talk about yourselves.
2008-12-19 12:47:21
_j5689_
Dreads & Bergers
+364|6928|Riva, MD
Couldn't ask her for her number since she wasn't there today.
2009-01-11 05:41:39
Airwolf
Latter Alcoholic
+287|6931|Scotland
took me fucking years to find this fucking thread, fucking hyphens


anyway. So on friday night me and this girl I like had sex (I know, right?) and after we went outside and were talking to a few people. Things were weird, I'd say, for about 5 mins then she started being all cuddly, almost as if she was my girlfriend, which was awesome... never felt so euphoric. Anyway, we slept together that night and I went to work yesterday, kissed her goodbye and came home that night... no cuddling no signs at all. We went to bed... tried all the moves I could to get her to kiss me. And she did, but she wasn't up for taking things further, which was weird. Not weird really just I felt kinda bad. We slept on different mattresses that night. And today... there's nothing at all that I can see from here... I can't read her.

We've known each other for some time.. and she's said before she likes me. The worst thing is... to be all cuddly and kissing me in front of people and then not doing it the next day. You might think that's selfish... but it HURTS. SO MUCH. I also don't wanna be that guy that says "So what's happening between us?".....

I could punch through a wall right now... FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU-



Please help. Please.
2009-01-11 05:46:03
bennisboy
Member
+829|6857|Poundland

Airwolf wrote:

took me fucking years to find this fucking thread, fucking hyphens


anyway. So on friday night me and this girl I like had sex (I know, right?) and after we went outside and were talking to a few people. Things were weird, I'd say, for about 5 mins then she started being all cuddly, almost as if she was my girlfriend, which was awesome... never felt so euphoric. Anyway, we slept together that night and I went to work yesterday, kissed her goodbye and came home that night... no cuddling no signs at all. We went to bed... tried all the moves I could to get her to kiss me. And she did, but she wasn't up for taking things further, which was weird. Not weird really just I felt kinda bad. We slept on different mattresses that night. And today... there's nothing at all that I can see from here... I can't read her.

We've known each other for some time.. and she's said before she likes me. The worst thing is... to be all cuddly and kissing me in front of people and then not doing it the next day. You might think that's selfish... but it HURTS. SO MUCH. I also don't wanna be that guy that says "So what's happening between us?".....

I could punch through a wall right now... FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU-



Please help. Please.
Try not to act too needy. Act like you have lots of other options for stuff to do. Women hate needy men.

And were either of you drunk on Friday?

Also, maybe she's on her period, hormones do funny things to women.
2009-01-11 05:48:46
Airwolf
Latter Alcoholic
+287|6931|Scotland

bennisboy wrote:

And were either of you drunk on Friday?
I wish D:
2009-01-11 05:49:32
Mekstizzle
WALKER
+3,611|6832|London, England

bennisboy wrote:

Also, maybe she's on her period, hormones do funny things to women.
Bingo

Airwolf wrote:

FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU-
Let it all out man, let it all out

Last edited by Mekstizzle (2009-01-11 05:49:55)

2009-01-11 05:53:48
bennisboy
Member
+829|6857|Poundland

Airwolf wrote:

bennisboy wrote:

And were either of you drunk on Friday?
I wish D:
Its better that you weren't. It means that she wanted to, and probably doesnt regret it. Give it a few days, dont pester her, dont send her needy texts like "hey how are you?" or "Hey what you up to?", it shows you have fuck all else to do with yourself. Women like a popular man who has lots of options.
2009-01-11 05:53:48
Cybargs
Moderated
+2,285|6927

Mekstizzle wrote:

bennisboy wrote:

Also, maybe she's on her period, hormones do funny things to women.
Bingo

Airwolf wrote:

FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU-
Let it all out man, let it all out
You mean period might come soon or ended. Unless he likes to shag while on the rag
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2009-01-11 05:54:20
..teddy..jimmy
Member
+1,393|6860
Just ask her. Why torment yourself unnecessarily. Guys beat around the bush too much..fact.
2009-01-11 05:55:05
bennisboy
Member
+829|6857|Poundland

cyborg_ninja-117 wrote:

Mekstizzle wrote:

bennisboy wrote:

Also, maybe she's on her period, hormones do funny things to women.
Bingo

Airwolf wrote:

FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU-
Let it all out man, let it all out
You mean period might come soon or ended. Unless he likes to shag while on the rag
Lol replied on the same second! N no I mean she is probably on it now. She probably wasnt on friday, but it could easily start on saturday when he was at work
2009-01-11 05:57:09
Cybargs
Moderated
+2,285|6927
Fuck another girl to get her jealous, then she'll show some affection.
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2009-01-11 05:58:12
Mekstizzle
WALKER
+3,611|6832|London, England

bennisboy wrote:

Airwolf wrote:

bennisboy wrote:

And were either of you drunk on Friday?
I wish D:
Its better that you weren't. It means that she wanted to, and probably doesnt regret it. Give it a few days, dont pester her, dont send her needy texts like "hey how are you?" or "Hey what you up to?", it shows you have fuck all else to do with yourself. Women like a popular man who has lots of options.
It's a double edged sword, that. It might work against you as it seems like you don't give a shit. Obviously women don't like men who's always on their case, but also, it's good to show some initiative. Don't text her, wait abit, and then call her, and don't act like there's something wrong cos really there isn't, just be normal, and also try to meet up and do something normal (that's why you'd call her, just to go out somewhere or something).

Like I said, show some initiative.

Last edited by Mekstizzle (2009-01-11 06:00:32)

2009-01-11 06:06:50
bennisboy
Member
+829|6857|Poundland

Mekstizzle wrote:

bennisboy wrote:

Airwolf wrote:


I wish D:
Its better that you weren't. It means that she wanted to, and probably doesnt regret it. Give it a few days, dont pester her, dont send her needy texts like "hey how are you?" or "Hey what you up to?", it shows you have fuck all else to do with yourself. Women like a popular man who has lots of options.
It's a double edged sword, that. It might work against you as it seems like you don't give a shit. Obviously women don't like men who's always on their case, but also, it's good to show some initiative. Don't text her, wait abit, and then call her, and don't act like there's something wrong cos really there isn't, just be normal, and also try to meet up and do something normal (that's why you'd call her, just to go out somewhere or something).

Like I said, show some initiative.
By all accounts send her a text, but dont act as if you are trying to validate yourself to her. Make her validate herself to you.

send something like "Hey nerd, lets go get a coffee" or something like that
2009-01-11 06:16:55
Airwolf
Latter Alcoholic
+287|6931|Scotland
Now a year has passed
Alone I stay inside
And I await the rain
To wash away your face
So I don’t have to hide
The sight of you is painful

So I crawl underneath my blanket
Where I can hide away
I know I can’t take it anymore
‘Cause I see now
It's just one of those days


Work time now... off I go... D: D: D:
2009-01-11 08:20:24
Bevo
Nah
+718|6732|Austin, Texas

Airwolf wrote:

Now a year has passed
Alone I stay inside
And I await the rain
To wash away your face
So I don’t have to hide
The sight of you is painful

So I crawl underneath my blanket
Where I can hide away
I know I can’t take it anymore
‘Cause I see now
It's just one of those days


Work time now... off I go... D: D: D:
Um.

TBFH, that was a very bad poem, I regret reading it, and now I'm going to make fun of you like "LOL EMO KID".
2009-01-11 09:54:14
Andoura
Got loooollllll ?
+853|6850|Montreal, Qc, Canada
I've been with my ex-gf for a year... The relationship stopped like 2 months ago, but I still can forget her. And it piss me off. Cuz I think she is not that depressed (like i could be) and it also piss me off, cuz i lived some crazy shits with this girl but still miss her...


What I have to do!?!?!??!
2009-01-11 09:58:55
..teddy..jimmy
Member
+1,393|6860

Andoura wrote:

I've been with my ex-gf for a year... The relationship stopped like 2 months ago, but I still can forget her. And it piss me off. Cuz I think she is not that depressed (like i could be) and it also piss me off, cuz i lived some crazy shits with this girl but still miss her...


What I have to do!?!?!??!
You just have to start seeing girls again...pretty much the only way you get over a girl.
2009-01-11 10:41:22
Andoura
Got loooollllll ?
+853|6850|Montreal, Qc, Canada

..teddy..jimmy wrote:

Andoura wrote:

I've been with my ex-gf for a year... The relationship stopped like 2 months ago, but I still can forget her. And it piss me off. Cuz I think she is not that depressed (like i could be) and it also piss me off, cuz i lived some crazy shits with this girl but still miss her...


What I have to do!?!?!??!
You just have to start seeing girls again...pretty much the only way you get over a girl.
The problem is that it's hard for me to picture my self with other girls... Seems like i'm not at that point yet...
2009-01-11 11:11:36
bennisboy
Member
+829|6857|Poundland

Andoura wrote:

..teddy..jimmy wrote:

Andoura wrote:

I've been with my ex-gf for a year... The relationship stopped like 2 months ago, but I still can forget her. And it piss me off. Cuz I think she is not that depressed (like i could be) and it also piss me off, cuz i lived some crazy shits with this girl but still miss her...


What I have to do!?!?!??!
You just have to start seeing girls again...pretty much the only way you get over a girl.
The problem is that it's hard for me to picture my self with other girls... Seems like i'm not at that point yet...
The only way you'll be able to picture yourself with other girls is by meeting other girls. You'll soon see she wasnt that great and there are plenty of other girls out there!
2009-01-11 13:22:48
Tripulaci0n
Member
+14|6367
Just do your absolute best to try to like someone for who they are and not how close they can come to your ex. You won't (and shouldn't) find a replacement.
2009-01-25 11:09:20
Stimey
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+786|6331|Ontario | Canada
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Alright long story short.

I have a girlfriend, since about the beginning of December.
I was at a city sanctioned event and I met some girl.
We fucking hit it off, I got her number and all that shit.
BUT, I didn't recognize the are code, so I asked her where she was from.
FUCKING CALIFORNIA. I asked her why she was here and how long she was gonna be here.
She said she was leaving that week, but was gonna be back in April.
I've been texting her like mad, and I have her on my msn, sometimes I'll talk to her for 4 hours +.
The weird thing is, I look forward to talking to her more than my girlfriend. Like, don't get me wrond, I have a ton of fun with her, but when I get a text I always hope its from this girl in California.
So, what the fuck do I do? Stay with my current girlfriend and drop off contact with the other?
Or do I keep this charade up until April, when I get to see her again?
I'm split.
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2009-01-25 11:13:16
Parker
isteal
+1,452|6605|The Gem Saloon
are you moving to cali anytime soon?
is she moving to canada anytime soon?


you have already established an emotional relationship with this chick, which in my eyes, is pretty much cheating on your girlfriend.



nail em both, go get tested.
2009-01-25 11:13:39
Zimmer
Un Moderador
+1,688|6967|Scotland

You stay with your current one. It was a fling. In reality, flings are always better than a relationship because it's a breath of fresh air. You feel the rush of talking to her and wanting to get to know her because you wont be seeing her much, unlike your girlfriend. Yet your girlfriend will always be there and will (usually) not just leave with no reason. If you did that to her, it would be exactly that.

Let it be, see her again in April, pump her and move on. Small flings like that are always best kept to small things, especially if you enjoy them. Talking to her on MSN and shit is fine, but it is no reason to split up with your gf. You will regret it if you do otherwise.
2009-01-25 11:13:57
phishman420
Banned
+821|5892

Stimey wrote:

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Alright long story short.

I have a girlfriend, since about the beginning of December.
I was at a city sanctioned event and I met some girl.
We fucking hit it off, I got her number and all that shit.
BUT, I didn't recognize the are code, so I asked her where she was from.
FUCKING CALIFORNIA. I asked her why she was here and how long she was gonna be here.
She said she was leaving that week, but was gonna be back in April.
I've been texting her like mad, and I have her on my msn, sometimes I'll talk to her for 4 hours +.
The weird thing is, I look forward to talking to her more than my girlfriend. Like, don't get me wrond, I have a ton of fun with her, but when I get a text I always hope its from this girl in California.
So, what the fuck do I do? Stay with my current girlfriend and drop off contact with the other?
Or do I keep this charade up until April, when I get to see her again?
I'm split.
Long distance relationships are destined to fail. How long is she going to be there when she comes back?

Last edited by phishman420 (2009-01-25 11:14:26)

2009-01-25 11:15:28
Cybargs
Moderated
+2,285|6927

Parker wrote:

are you moving to cali anytime soon?
is she moving to canada anytime soon?


you have already established an emotional relationship with this chick, which in my eyes, is pretty much cheating on your girlfriend.



nail em both, go get tested.
Agree. Emotional cheating is one of the worst =/
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