BF2S Forums The BF2s girl-problems thread

bennisboy wrote:

..teddy..jimmy wrote:

bennisboy wrote:

Okasy, I'm exteremely drunk atm, but let me clesar one thing up. Bros b4 hoes is a myth. If you find a great ho, your bros will be behind you, not in your way.

Also the guide is coming along well. Altho fucking coursework n job applications are gettin in the way!

COCK BLOCK

Que?

Altho I did get cock blocked so many times yesterday. I have to say, wearing a hat on the dane floor is a brilliant way of getting girls to approach you. Made me lol, I was dressed as a chav for a football social n I've never had so many girls approach me! As soon as I walked in a girl i never met grabbed my hat, slapped my ass n then basically threw herself at me, only for my nob-head of a friend to come n cock block me! He just came over n stood there making awkward comments!

Then I was on my way bk from the toiet and another girl grabbed my hat n started chattin to me, asked me why loads of us were dressed as chavs, I said "football social, whats your excuse?" cheekily, she laughed n grabbed my hand. Only for me to get cock blocked by a mate who came up n told her I was a rapist

THEN a girl on my course who I always flirt with grabbed my arm n pulled me over to dance with her, only for another girl I knew to grab me away n start dancing wit me, n jus as we were getting somewhere, her damn mate came over n said she wanted to go n dragged her off, by this time the girl from my course had disappeared!

It was a frustrating but hilarious night. We had security chasing us round campus for ruining freshers kitchens!

Last edited by ShadowsStrike (2008-10-23 14:49:40)

ShadowsStrike wrote:

May not seem like a problem for you guys but here it is:
Me and that girl got together (the one from my old thread), because we might as well have been with each other anyway for the amount of time we spent with each other at each others houses blablabla. Last couple of times round we have just been messing around, and today, we both ended up topless (I stole hers whilst we were kissing, then told me to take mine of to make it fair, and I told her its hardly fair if she has a bra on. Winner) So we were just foolin around like that for a while, both had a bit of the ol'touchy feely. Great day tbh! Loved it.

Later on msn, when she was home, she had said she though we were gonna have sex... I was like "Are you ready for that then", and she said yeh. To me it just kinda felt weird. Like, i dunno, I didn't expect it that quickly. But on the other hand, I have known her like this for like 3-4 months now, and we are both realllllllly comfortable round each other. Also, neither of us are virgins, so I guess because it's not new to her there is no wait? I dunno. It just seems really sudden to me. Any ideas on why I'm feeling like this? I mean for fuck sake, she practically offered herself to me, saying how she is ready, so I should be ecstatic. I just don't know really.

EDIT- I forgot to mention I'm with her the whole day tommorow as well, so it may not seem weird in person.

mcminty wrote:

bennisboy wrote:

I'm getting near to finishing my guide, but I need to save it in PDF format, cos if I copy and paste it here, the formatting will go AWOL. In my first guide I'm covering the approach and the interactions immediately afterwards. If there is sufficient demand I will do a follow up covering the techniques mentioned in more detail, as well as 'after game'

Good stuff, good stuff. So... umm... got a timeframe for getting this PDF'd?

Last edited by bennisboy (2008-10-24 06:26:58)

bennisboy wrote:

congrats dookie!

hicjkam wrote:

Good work dookie.

wah1188 wrote:

Urgh ex has re-added me on facebook, winding me up. Just got me thinking about her again.

I re-dated an ex once, it lasted a week. Without knowing the specifics of your situation, you might wanna try avoid the temptation.

cyborg_ninja-117 wrote:

Let me ask you this, would your friend get mad if she talks to you about emotional problems between her and him?

No, I don't think he would have a problem with that. Which segues nicely into this next matter; I saw her again yesterday at a party. After everyone had gone to sleep/passed out (her boyfriend included), we stayed up talking till about 4:30am. She told me that they were having relationship problems, and in fact had "broken up" the night before.

Now, Schwarzelungen predicted this, but I don't think it was because of me. She said it was an ongoing thing, and she had tried to call it off before, but they had always ended up back together (which I know is true. The latest episode may have been brought on by our convo last week, but not entirely). She thought they'd end up back together this time as well, just because they are both there and he acts like nothing happened, and they did. Her boyfriend came to find her, and asked her to come to bed with him. "See", she said to me. She seems very unhappy.

Anyway, I was very wary of giving any advice, and all I said was in favour of the boyfriend. I think I am seeing the situation with greater clarity, that is; shut your mouth and mind, and keep your hands to yourself. I think this will probably pass uneventfully. 

In the case that they broke up for good, and she wanted to pursue a relationship with me, can anyone with experience weigh in on what they think would happen? I can't see a scenario in which it works, in any way. I'd imagine the end result would just be messed up friendships all round.

As such, next time I see her (dont know when that is), I'm going to make a conscious effort to treat her just like a friend. Right?

Cheers to anyone still paying attention.

m3thod wrote:

ShadowsStrike wrote:

May not seem like a problem for you guys but here it is:
Me and that girl got together (the one from my old thread), because we might as well have been with each other anyway for the amount of time we spent with each other at each others houses blablabla. Last couple of times round we have just been messing around, and today, we both ended up topless (I stole hers whilst we were kissing, then told me to take mine of to make it fair, and I told her its hardly fair if she has a bra on. Winner) So we were just foolin around like that for a while, both had a bit of the ol'touchy feely. Great day tbh! Loved it.

Later on msn, when she was home, she had said she though we were gonna have sex... I was like "Are you ready for that then", and she said yeh. To me it just kinda felt weird. Like, i dunno, I didn't expect it that quickly. But on the other hand, I have known her like this for like 3-4 months now, and we are both realllllllly comfortable round each other. Also, neither of us are virgins, so I guess because it's not new to her there is no wait? I dunno. It just seems really sudden to me. Any ideas on why I'm feeling like this? I mean for fuck sake, she practically offered herself to me, saying how she is ready, so I should be ecstatic. I just don't know really.

EDIT- I forgot to mention I'm with her the whole day tommorow as well, so it may not seem weird in person.

Bone her.