Another update which you wouldn't know about. One of the reasons I got out of the house there and then (7/8 weeks after splitting up) was my 'other' Daughter (we don't like using the phrase STEP) was due to give birth and did 2 weeks ago today. I love the Girl to bits, met her 9 years ago and brought her up as my own. Along with her Mum she made a huge mistake and ended up pregger's at the age of 15, the kid could of gone to just about any UNI she wanted. Anyway, whats done is done.
Now I don't want to break her heart as she hasn't done anything to Me and as I said I love her but I'm not comfy with being called 'Grampy', if I was still at the house, still at with her Mum ok, but I'm not. Im leading my new life now. Her real Dad hasn't had much imput in the kids lives since he left 10 years ago but hopefully now I am out the way he can get back in her life.
So I'm kind of like a Grampy but not, we'll have to see how that chapter plays out.
Now I don't want to break her heart as she hasn't done anything to Me and as I said I love her but I'm not comfy with being called 'Grampy', if I was still at the house, still at with her Mum ok, but I'm not. Im leading my new life now. Her real Dad hasn't had much imput in the kids lives since he left 10 years ago but hopefully now I am out the way he can get back in her life.
So I'm kind of like a Grampy but not, we'll have to see how that chapter plays out.
Last edited by 1927 (2008-10-09 07:17:34)