jord
Member
+2,382|7128|The North, beyond the wall.
I mean when the child goes up, I'm not talking about children that become millionaires. Disabled or not...


I'd take their "chance" away from them for a lot of reasons. One of them is the lack of success, so yeah.
m3thod
All kiiiiiiiiinds of gainz
+2,197|7121|UK
i got a cousin who has down syndrome and holy shit can he take a ass whupping.
Blackbelts are just whitebelts who have never quit.
Stingray24
Proud member of the vast right-wing conspiracy
+1,060|6895|The Land of Scott Walker

Varegg wrote:

You as Americans hold your right to govern your own life in such a degree i find it odd that you interfeer with what other people do when it comes to abortion ... while you are at it you may call curing a desease against the will of God, airbags saving your life in an accident must surely be against Gods will ... i call it progress, choose not to have a disabled child long before it's even close to being called life ...

If you could test your sperm to determine if you could have a perfect child would you do that ?
If speaking up for the baby's life when the parents disregard his/her value is "interference", so be it.  The "right" of the mother to give thumbs up or down for her baby's life is trumpeted and lauded, but what of the baby's right to live as a human being? 

You're comparing 2 methods of saving a life (disease cure/airbags) to a procedure that ends a human life.

If such a sperm test was possible, no, I would not do it.  First, such a test would be ridiculous because one cannot know which sperm will unite with the egg.  Second, I would never choose to abort my child, so any such tests are pointless.
Poseidon
Fudgepack DeQueef
+3,253|6987|Long Island, New York

Stingray24 wrote:

Varegg wrote:

You as Americans hold your right to govern your own life in such a degree i find it odd that you interfeer with what other people do when it comes to abortion ... while you are at it you may call curing a desease against the will of God, airbags saving your life in an accident must surely be against Gods will ... i call it progress, choose not to have a disabled child long before it's even close to being called life ...

If you could test your sperm to determine if you could have a perfect child would you do that ?
If speaking up for the baby's life when the parents disregard his/her value is "interference", so be it.  The "right" of the mother to give thumbs up or down for her baby's life is trumpeted and lauded, but what of the baby's right to live as a human being? 

You're comparing 2 methods of saving a life (disease cure/airbags) to a procedure that ends a human life.

If such a sperm test was possible, no, I would not do it.  First, such a test would be ridiculous because one cannot know which sperm will unite with the egg.  Second, I would never choose to abort my child, so any such tests are pointless.
You obviously hated the movie Gattaca.
topal63
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+533|7168

Stingray24 wrote:

Varegg wrote:

You as Americans hold your right to govern your own life in such a degree i find it odd that you interfeer with what other people do when it comes to abortion ... while you are at it you may call curing a desease against the will of God, airbags saving your life in an accident must surely be against Gods will ... i call it progress, choose not to have a disabled child long before it's even close to being called life ...

If you could test your sperm to determine if you could have a perfect child would you do that ?
If speaking up for the baby's life when the parents disregard his/her value is "interference", so be it.  The "right" of the mother to give thumbs up or down for her baby's life is trumpeted and lauded, but what of the baby's right to live as a human being? 

You're comparing 2 methods of saving a life (disease cure/airbags) to a procedure that ends a human life.

If such a sperm test was possible, no, I would not do it.  First, such a test would be ridiculous because one cannot know which sperm will unite with the egg.  Second, I would never choose to abort my child, so any such tests are pointless.
The sanctity of life is a beautiful idea - inside or outside of a religious context. I applaud and agree with you - but we live in a mean society and we live in a lean society. The asset allocation as well as personal choice belongs with the individual not the mean society (whether instructing to or not to have a baby). To say you must is as obnoxious as saying you mustn't. To me the reasons to have or not have (a child) don't even need to exist.
Stingray24
Proud member of the vast right-wing conspiracy
+1,060|6895|The Land of Scott Walker
Indeed it is beautiful.  There is nothing more beautiful than my wife with child and holding my children in my arms for the first time.  I simply ask that abortion be preceded by taking appropriate measures to prevent pregnancy rather than using abortion as final birth control.  That should not be difficult for intelligent adults, especially with all the options available in modern society.
MGS3_GrayFox
Member
+50|6617

Stingray24 wrote:

Indeed it is beautiful.  There is nothing more beautiful than my wife with child and holding my children in my arms for the first time.  I simply ask that abortion be preceded by taking appropriate measures to prevent pregnancy rather than using abortion as final birth control.  That should not be difficult for intelligent adults, especially with all the options available in modern society.
Good for you, but many people don't share the same opinion as you.  Some people don't see why life should be sacred.
lowing
Banned
+1,662|7101|USA
I got one for ya:

when my wife was pregnant with our second son, we were told that something showed up on the ultra sound that needed more attention. They found symptoms of Cystic Fibrosis. They told us not to worry because the odds of it being CF was 1 in 50. So we didn't worry. They took DNA samples from me and my wife to varify we were not carriers of the disease, which is the only way our son could contract it.

Well as luck would have it, my wife and I were both CF carriers and never knew it. The doctors changed their opinions from "don't worry" to "you have some decisions to make" we are going to have a CF baby.

The doctors told us what life would be like for us and our son, that he would have a good chance to live to be 15 with todays treatments, or we could terminate her pregnancy.

  It was not hard to conclude that we were going to play whatever hand life dealt us, and keep the baby. So now all we had to do was prepare mentally for our new life, as well as get my first born tested for CF. We found out that our first born does not have the disease but we still were facing it with our second son. The doctors took ambiotic fluid from my wife and sent it off for testing. This took several weeks. This test was supposed to confirm what we already knew, I was going to bury my son.

Several weeks later the results came back and against all odds it was negative. Our son was a carrier but he did not have the disease. The doctors could not believe it and they told us we have no idea as to the odds that we have beaten. 

So today my son ( 11) plays first base for his baseball team and is quiet a slugger, he makes all A's except for 1 B and is a class clown, he and his brother also hanglide ( with an instructor of course) He full of life and is very adventurous.......................and to think we could have aborted him. I shutter at the thought.
unnamednewbie13
Moderator
+2,074|7221|PNW

Thread aside, it's hard to blame people who've survived the process for being bitter about the whole issue.
[pt] KEIOS
srs bsns
+231|7102|pimelteror.de

Stingray24 wrote:

There is a third option that you failed to consider ... adoption by countless couple who who cannot conceive children of their own.  The red tape and cost that holds up many adoptions needs to be eliminated so loving couples can adopt these children.
How many couples would adopt a disabled child, when they could adopt a normal one. When you had the choice, which one, would you take? Be honest.
Varegg
Support fanatic :-)
+2,206|7259|Nårvei

Stingray24 wrote:

Varegg wrote:

You as Americans hold your right to govern your own life in such a degree i find it odd that you interfeer with what other people do when it comes to abortion ... while you are at it you may call curing a desease against the will of God, airbags saving your life in an accident must surely be against Gods will ... i call it progress, choose not to have a disabled child long before it's even close to being called life ...

If you could test your sperm to determine if you could have a perfect child would you do that ?
If speaking up for the baby's life when the parents disregard his/her value is "interference", so be it.  The "right" of the mother to give thumbs up or down for her baby's life is trumpeted and lauded, but what of the baby's right to live as a human being? 

You're comparing 2 methods of saving a life (disease cure/airbags) to a procedure that ends a human life.

If such a sperm test was possible, no, I would not do it.  First, such a test would be ridiculous because one cannot know which sperm will unite with the egg.  Second, I would never choose to abort my child, so any such tests are pointless.
That really is the essense of the discussion isn't it ... is it really life or just a paracite within the 1 trimester ?

If you really value the freedom to make ones own discissions surely intelligent adults are more than capable to make their own mind about to abort or not to abort ...
Wait behind the line ..............................................................
Braddock
Agitator
+916|6740|Éire

LividBovine wrote:

Abortion is never an option.
What about rape?

Imagine the scenario... A young girl of 20 - a rising star in the world of law with a bright career ahead of her - gets brutally raped and left pregnant with the rapist's child. On the one hand she could terminate the pregnancy and try as best she can to get her life back on track and fulfill her career potential and maybe find a partner she can become intimate with despite the horrors she has suffered... on the other hand she could have the child, jeopardise her career (maybe even drop out of college altogether because of the financial strain and the demands of motherhood). She would also have to see the face of the man who brutally raped her everyday in the face of her child (she would also have to explain the story of the conception to her child one day) and go through life with the stigma of being damaged goods (even before a potential partner found out the story of her rape they would have to deal with the fact that she is a single mother and all the assumptions that so often go with that).

LividBovine wrote:

Unless it is for the survival of the mother, and even then if it was me, and it came down to me or the child, well see ya later.  Hope my family can get along without me.
What if they can't?
Roc18
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jord wrote:

Oh and Masterstyle. "How would you feel if your mother didn't give you a chance at life"?


Well I wouldn't feel anything would I. Ya know, not being alive and all. Can anyone remember there 9 months in the womb?
Way to put no value on your life.
MGS3_GrayFox
Member
+50|6617

Roc18 wrote:

jord wrote:

Oh and Masterstyle. "How would you feel if your mother didn't give you a chance at life"?


Well I wouldn't feel anything would I. Ya know, not being alive and all. Can anyone remember there 9 months in the womb?
Way to put no value on your life.
How would you feel? Remember, you wouldn't be alive.  Choose your words carefully.
Roc18
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+655|6240|PROLLLY PROLLLY PROLLLY

MGS3_GrayFox wrote:

Roc18 wrote:

jord wrote:

Oh and Masterstyle. "How would you feel if your mother didn't give you a chance at life"?


Well I wouldn't feel anything would I. Ya know, not being alive and all. Can anyone remember there 9 months in the womb?
Way to put no value on your life.
How would you feel? Remember, you wouldn't be alive.  Choose your words carefully.
You are taking my words out of context and ignoring my point.

Last edited by Roc18 (2008-09-21 14:07:02)

jord
Member
+2,382|7128|The North, beyond the wall.

Roc18 wrote:

jord wrote:

Oh and Masterstyle. "How would you feel if your mother didn't give you a chance at life"?


Well I wouldn't feel anything would I. Ya know, not being alive and all. Can anyone remember there 9 months in the womb?
Way to put no value on your life.
Yeah. So how did you enjoy your 9 months in the womb? I'm sure you'd be gutted had you been aborted.


Oh no wait. You wouldn't even have been conscious or aware you existed...

Last edited by jord (2008-09-21 14:13:00)

MGS3_GrayFox
Member
+50|6617

Roc18 wrote:

MGS3_GrayFox wrote:

Roc18 wrote:


Way to put no value on your life.
How would you feel? Remember, you wouldn't be alive.  Choose your words carefully.
You are taking my words out of context and ignoring my point.
Its a serious question, how would you feel?
jord
Member
+2,382|7128|The North, beyond the wall.
This tissue paper with my sperm on it has as much personality as you as a 1 day old foetus.
Roc18
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+655|6240|PROLLLY PROLLLY PROLLLY

jord wrote:

Roc18 wrote:

jord wrote:

Oh and Masterstyle. "How would you feel if your mother didn't give you a chance at life"?


Well I wouldn't feel anything would I. Ya know, not being alive and all. Can anyone remember there 9 months in the womb?
Way to put no value on your life.
Yeah. So how did you enjoy your 9 months in the womb? I'm sure you'd be gutted had you been aborted.


Oh no wait. You wouldn't even have been conscious or aware you existed...
Omg that doesnt mean anything, if you got aborted you wouldnt be living right now. You are saying just because you dont remember being in the womb means you dont mind your mother taking away your life.


jord wrote:

This tissue paper with my sperm on it has as much personality as you as a 1 day old foetus.
Sperm is different from a concieved baby

Last edited by Roc18 (2008-09-21 14:19:37)

MGS3_GrayFox
Member
+50|6617

jord wrote:

This tissue paper with my sperm on it has as much personality as you as a 1 day old foetus.
Was that directed at me?
jord
Member
+2,382|7128|The North, beyond the wall.

Roc18 wrote:

jord wrote:

Roc18 wrote:


Way to put no value on your life.
Yeah. So how did you enjoy your 9 months in the womb? I'm sure you'd be gutted had you been aborted.


Oh no wait. You wouldn't even have been conscious or aware you existed...
Omg that doesnt mean anything, if you got aborted you wouldnt be living right now. You are saying just because you dont remember being in the womb means you dont mind your mother taking away your life.


jord wrote:

This tissue paper with my sperm on it has as much personality as you as a 1 day old foetus.
Sperm is different from a concieved baby
I wasn't alive in the womb. Neither of us are going to shift on this and you can't understand my opinion.

I like my Freedoms and don't consider a 1 week old foetus a person.

You think you have the right to tell a woman that was raped and is carrying something she doesn't want to tell her to go through all that, and the pain of childbirth.
Roc18
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jord wrote:

Roc18 wrote:

jord wrote:


Yeah. So how did you enjoy your 9 months in the womb? I'm sure you'd be gutted had you been aborted.


Oh no wait. You wouldn't even have been conscious or aware you existed...
Omg that doesnt mean anything, if you got aborted you wouldnt be living right now. You are saying just because you dont remember being in the womb means you dont mind your mother taking away your life.


jord wrote:

This tissue paper with my sperm on it has as much personality as you as a 1 day old foetus.
Sperm is different from a concieved baby
I wasn't alive in the womb. Neither of us are going to shift on this and you can't understand my opinion.

I like my Freedoms and don't consider a 1 week old foetus a person.

You think you have the right to tell a woman that was raped and is carrying something she doesn't want to tell her to go through all that, and the pain of childbirth.
You were alive in the womb, zygotes and fetuses are developing humans that are alive.

If a woman is raped the solution isnt to get rid of the child that is growing in her stomach just because she doesnt want to go through childbirth, its a human life ffs. This is even less acceptable with people who accidentally get pregnant and still get rid of the child just because they dont want them, give them away for adoption and at least give the child their life.


Realistically I'm in no position to tell someone what to do because abortion is legal and it happens everyday, but I have this opinon and I want to share it.
MGS3_GrayFox
Member
+50|6617

Roc18 wrote:

jord wrote:

Roc18 wrote:

jord wrote:

Yeah. So how did you enjoy your 9 months in the womb? I'm sure you'd be gutted had you been aborted.


Oh no wait. You wouldn't even have been conscious or aware you existed...
Omg that doesnt mean anything, if you got aborted you wouldnt be living right now. You are saying just because you dont remember being in the womb means you dont mind your mother taking away your life.



Sperm is different from a concieved baby
I wasn't alive in the womb. Neither of us are going to shift on this and you can't understand my opinion.

I like my Freedoms and don't consider a 1 week old foetus a person.

You think you have the right to tell a woman that was raped and is carrying something she doesn't want to tell her to go through all that, and the pain of childbirth.
You were alive in the womb, zygotes and fetuses are developing humans that are alive.

If a woman is raped the solution isnt to get rid of the child that is growing in her stomach just because she doesnt want to go through childbirth, its a human life ffs. This is even less acceptable with people who accidentally get pregnant and still get rid of the child just because they dont want them, give them away for adoption and at least give the child their life.


Realistically I'm in no position to tell someone what to do because abortion is legal and it happens everyday, but I have this opinon and I want to share it.
No, the fetus is a parasite, not a human life.  It has a potential at human life, but it does not share the same rights as a grown human being.

Read a book on bioethics.
jord
Member
+2,382|7128|The North, beyond the wall.

Roc18 wrote:

jord wrote:

Roc18 wrote:

jord wrote:

Yeah. So how did you enjoy your 9 months in the womb? I'm sure you'd be gutted had you been aborted.


Oh no wait. You wouldn't even have been conscious or aware you existed...
Omg that doesnt mean anything, if you got aborted you wouldnt be living right now. You are saying just because you dont remember being in the womb means you dont mind your mother taking away your life.



Sperm is different from a concieved baby
I wasn't alive in the womb. Neither of us are going to shift on this and you can't understand my opinion.

I like my Freedoms and don't consider a 1 week old foetus a person.

You think you have the right to tell a woman that was raped and is carrying something she doesn't want to tell her to go through all that, and the pain of childbirth.
You were alive in the womb, zygotes and fetuses are developing humans that are alive.

If a woman is raped the solution isnt to get rid of the child that is growing in her stomach just because she doesnt want to go through childbirth, its a human life ffs. This is even less acceptable with people who accidentally get pregnant and still get rid of the child just because they dont want them, give them away for adoption and at least give the child their life.


Realistically I'm in no position to tell someone what to do because abortion is legal and it happens everyday, but I have this opinon and I want to share it.
Actually rape babies is one of the big things pro life people agree with pro choice people with.

It's been highlighted above. But both of us not being raped and/or pregnant with a child that was made in a rape don't know what it's like. Which is why I would never tell a rape victim what to do with the thing growing inside her.
Roc18
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Ok so since we all dont know what its like it makes it ok.

Im done arguing.

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