rdx-fx wrote:
Flaming_Maniac wrote:
Excellent, kill your daughters attacker, who is no longer actually attacking her, so you won't be there to defend her for the rest of her life and she gets to tell prospective mates her father is in jail.
Your hypothetical scenario is of your own making there. My response was exactly what I said, and in reference to exactly what I quoted.
You misunderstand what I wrote. Whatever happens to me as a result of that is of
secondary importance. NOT
of no importance.
Nice of you to put words in my mouth, manufacture vile scenarios out of context, and generally grossly misinterpret what I wrote. From a Mod, no less. Wonderful. Thanks.
The point I was speaking to (and I believe daddyofdeath was talking about as well) is the realization that, once you become a parent, your child's life means more to you than your own life.
It's not about raging out and stomping on the first little boy that gives your little girl a valentine.. it's about quietly doing
whatever is necessary to safeguard your kids.
Changing shitty diapers.. reading
Goodnight Moon for the millionth time, and liking it.. operating on 2 hours of sleep a day, for however long you need to.. biting your tongue when your teenage daughter starts dating.. and (if it ever needs be) putting your own ass on the line to protect your child..
all of this a real father will do with a smile on his face and the knowledge that
this is the best job in the world.
Your own temper, ego, and pride get stuffed into a distant back corner - and you do
whatever is necessary to raise a happy, healthy, moral, smart adult from a tiny, helpless infant.
gruesome and poetic revenge fantasies do
not enter into things.
raging out and beating on people just to make yourself feel better - is not an option.
Protect the kids, get them safe, and whatever else happens after that is secondary.