BF2S Forums Arg.. women.. HELP ME

krazed wrote:

LT.Victim wrote:

tthf wrote:

don't mean to be mean but.... if she sleeps with her bf when he gets back, then its probably not worth trying anymore...
just my opinion.

Ya I know... Hopefully she at least talks to him about the situation before they make there way into the bedroom, because right now, he is completely oblivious to this whole thing..

wouldn't get your hopes up too high on that one :\ as Eboreus said

tthf wrote:

dont mean to be mean but.... if she sleeps with her bf when he gets back, then its probably not worth trying anymore...
just my opinion.

i know i wouldnt

Last edited by krazed (2007-12-26 02:34:47)

MAAN she is hot! You still need to work on it, my advice is you don't cheat, cos it will all go tits up in the end. Take it slow, treat her nicely, and let her choose

LT.Victim wrote:

And... "But how long will you love me for, is it worth it to throw what I have with scott away?"

Sorry, but don't you think it sounds funny?

And on topic, I started dating with my GF with the same situation. She spent a lot of time with me (much more than with her ex-boyfriend) and still was dating with him.

Some reasons for that.

1.She loves you but she doesn't want to hurt him (or she is afraid of telling him)
2.She doesn't love both of you, but being under pressure she feels bad. Try to support her and play a role of friend, not lover.
3.She is a bitch who is so happy that two guys love her at the same time (sorry man, but I faced kind of this. However, she doesn't look like this.)


My advice: don't push her, try not to speak with her about her BF (at least don't convince her to break up with him), be a good friend for her, spend as much time with her as you can (but only if this guy is in town), and be happy - you love someone, this is a gift for you anyway. Good luck dude!

Phil.

enzzenmachine_2 wrote:

BUT you're about the same age as me and I already was in love with a girl although it wasn't the same situation (she hadn't a bf lol). I truly loved her, maybe more than you love this girl (maybe i say)... it was 2 years ago... now I totally ''forgot'' what I felt for her. What I mean is don't make a big deal about love while you're only 17 and don't make a big deal if she doesn't wanna go out with you finally. You're young, you'll get many other girls.

Right...
But don't listen to the old too much or you will be the most boring guy in the world lol

There needs to be like, an entire sub-forum on BF2s devoted to girls.

y/n?

JET_G raidensen wrote:

Poseidon wrote:

There needs to be like, an entire sub-forum on BF2s devoted to girls.

y/n?

They will be naked im assuming.

Well considering we have all these relationship threads, hot girl threads, 12 year old nude girl threads, and other stuff we might as well.

Just a suggestion.

Mmmm... loli...

*looks around*

Uhh, I meant lollipop! Yea, that's it!

K well.. a little update..

I made some major progress last night..


My parents are currently in California until like the 6th, so me being the teenager I am, I decided to invite some friends over for a little get together..

It was only me, her, one of my good male friends and this girl that he is some what "seeing"

Originally, my male friend wasn't going to drink at all so he could drive both of the girls home, but then it started to snow outside and the roads we covered.. so I told them that they could all sleep over.. So we all got pretty drunk, not drunk enough that I couldn't remember shit, but drunk enough that it loosened up the situation between me and her..

We talked for a long while, went for a walk in the snow etc.. She is really torn between who the choose..

She slept in my bed with me, we didn't have sex or anything, I didn't even kiss her, even though it was the most tempting thing in my life.. I pretty much just held her and talked to her the whole night, I barely got any sleep.. My friend and the other girl pushed two of my couches together and slept there.. When we woke up in the morning both of them were gone, the girl was going snowboarding early in the morning and the other guy had to work, so it was just me and her.. We talked a bit more in the morning.. I took a shower and then her worked called and she had to go to work.. So I drove her home..

Apparently she talked to her mom and sister about the whole situation.. her mom thought that we had sex or something (this was before she slept over).. So now pretty much everyone in her family knows that she is torn between two guys.. quite a fun situation..

Oh.. and I managed to take some long ass videos when we went for a walk outside, I might upload them.. I'll have to watch them and see..

So ya.. she told me "You're everything I want, but what do I need?" the other day.. wtf is that suppose to mean..

And today is the day her boyfriend comes back from Mexico, I told her yesterday night while driving her home that I wouldn't see her at all today..
So ya.. what should I do, should I continue to do what I'm doing right now and pretend that things haven't changed.. should I not call or text her and wait for her to call me?

She said she is going to have the "talk" with her boyfriend when he gets back, I just hope she can do it, because if I was in her shoes I don't even know what I would say, and really anything she says to him will look as if she is going to break up with him or something...

Seriously, I don't know what to do, if I didn't like this girl so much I would just walk away, but I can't.. If I walk away now I know that I'm going to have missed something really special in my life, I've never felt this way before.. God dam girls, why does it always have to be so complicated..

bennisboy wrote:

LT.Victim wrote:

So ya.. she told me "You're everything I want, but what do I need?" the other day.. wtf is that suppose to mean..

And today is the day her boyfriend comes back from Mexico, I told her yesterday night while driving her home that I wouldn't see her at all today..
So ya.. what should I do, should I continue to do what I'm doing right now and pretend that things haven't changed.. should I not call or text her and wait for her to call me?

She said she is going to have the "talk" with her boyfriend when he gets back, I just hope she can do it, because if I was in her shoes I don't even know what I would say, and really anything she says to him will look as if she is going to break up with him or something...

Seriously, I don't know what to do, if I didn't like this girl so much I would just walk away, but I can't.. If I walk away now I know that I'm going to have missed something really special in my life, I've never felt this way before.. God dam girls, why does it always have to be so complicated..

Man, I cant believe how similar our situations were

try not to get your hopes up, you'll probs be thinking about it the whole time with crazy scenarios running through your head.

I missed that "something really special" cos uni got in the way when she finally did break up with her bf, but mate, dont give up until you know you have no hope in hell of getting her, if you do you'll forever regret it.

The situation I'm in now, I hardly see the girl, through my own choice, and I still dont thin I'm over her, but I'm forcing myself to get over her. So if the worse comes to the worse, know you tried and it just didnt work out in your favour.

I'm not gonna say that if it doesn't happen it "wasn't meant to be" cos I know how it feels, and from what you've said, it does sound like something should happen, even if it doesn't ever.

Chin up lad, and keep going, it'll last for a while

Thanks for the advice.. it really means alot..

bennisboy speaks the truth. You want to make sure you do everything in your power (short of anything illegal) to try and sway her to your side. Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.