Kmarion, is your neigborhood "bad" or something?
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IRONCHEF wrote:
You know, I think blaming an influence isn't productive. As much as I'd agree that music culture, violent games or movies are definitely not promoting alternative solutions to problems, they certainly aren't the "cause." I'd call them more of an "instructional" device.
Parenting is where I lay 85% of the blame. If parents are calling their kids f#*$-ups and retards, and smack them around or are too sarcastic with them and ignore them...then yes, the GTA:San Fernando/SAWIII/Marilyn Manson will be my new god..they will respect me more than my parents..they will instruct me in the ways of life more than my stupid parents.
I was in the grocery store the other day with my kids and walking an aisle looking at fish...I saw some skater looking burn out dad walking his cart with his 2 sons...average looking, somewhat obese, nappy red head kids with low self esteem expressions get the following comment from their pa, "..STFU or I'll hit you with it when we get home dammit...you're really fucking pissing me off..." Other than hoping my kids didn't hear that assclown, I was sooooo close to saying something...but what? Other than create a spectacle and get arrested or get my ass kicked in front of my kids...regardless what I would have said, the prick would have still gone home and returned to his asshole ways...while his kids suffer, hate, never feel loved, etc....and be perfect potential for when it gets really bad and they have to react.
Fucking exaclty. My divorced mom always been a dangerous alcoholic, took me to "The Running Man" when I was 3 years old, I watched movies like Terminator, Predator, The Rambos, shit like that. Played Doom, Wolfenstien 3-D, and listening to Nine Inch Nails, Ministry, and Marilyn Manson, and grew up around guns.
My Dad, who I lived with was a competant father who raised me on right and wrong, and made damn well sure I knew, when I fucked up. maybe wasn't into my life when I grew up, but taught me how to behave. I turned out pretty damn good.
I agree too, that video games, violent music, and bloody movies don't help. They don't help AN ALREADY DISTURBED CHILD. I never had a sudden blood lust when someone handed me a loaded pistol (AT A fucking shooting range, ok?)
EDIT: But overall, I'd say the problem is is parental negligence and our school system and society catering to stupidity and children who don't care to learn.
2nd EDIT: It probably doesnt help also when teachers cater more to the rich kids or kids of influential parents, or the Athletes and Jocks. So when the "privileged kids" do something like pick on the "loser" kids, they don't get into trouble and the "losers" get ignored. Not all teachers are like this, but there are some. Perfect example of all three is my high school and probably the schools where the shootings occured.
But, once again, the parents, IMO, is where we should look first.
Last edited by RoosterCantrell (2007-12-17 17:41:58)