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I say you should get her drunk and rape her.


Just kidding but don't keep liking her just because she was your first...I've seen many people go that route and it never turns out good. There are plenty of other fish in the sea...or many more vaginas in the street.

Jus thought that I should make things clear. You are gettin a lot of sensible advice, but at your age in life (I'm only 3 years older), most of these things wont work. You can do everything right and still end up gettin your heart broken (if thats how much you like her). You can't expect everything to work out first time round. Girls are there to make us guys lose our minds n not know what we're doing! So if it doesnt work, it will be hard on you, but try to keep your head up. I can tell you're a sensible guy, so don't worry if it doesnt work out the way you'd hoped. Also it sounds like you would be good for this girl n help her to see straight, so good luck mate. Keep us updated.

Cubanpenguin wrote:

I say you should get her drunk and rape her.


Just kidding but don't keep liking her just because she was your first...I've seen many people go that route and it never turns out good. There are plenty of other fish in the sea...or many more vaginas in the street.

Yeah, but she is the only girl in my life I have ever known to actually like me.

Ryan wrote:

trippy982 wrote:

Are you planning for this to be a long term thing?

No. I'm only 15. It's not like I wanna marry her.
I just like her alot.

And Gunslinger, you're right. If I do date her, I'll just tell her not to smoke or drink around me.
Sure, when I'm older she can drink with me, but at 15? I don't think so. Too early for me.

And I definitely won't start smoking or drinking just because she does.

Thats very wise. You wouldn't believe the immense influence a girl, especially when your young (10-20).
If you do anything, make it a drink rather then a smoke, so much safer if you don't plan on doing it the rest of your life ,

I know how it is bro, im the same age, but if you can get her as a girl, then do it, IMO being single is lame and being in a relationship gives you something to think about every waking hour.
Lol.

Ryan wrote:

I'm in a bit of a dilemma here.

3 things to say:

1. I've went out with this girl for 2 months last year, and we broke up in December.
2. I still like her alot, and we still flirt, which doesn't seem normal.
3. She smokes, drinks, and does pot, which turns me off completely.

But I still think she is a great person aside from her 'habits'.

Is this odd to still like her and want to start dating again? Or should I let off and find some other girl?
I want good suggestions, no bullshit like "get her drunk and rape her."

Thanks guys.

I don't think so:

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[#] She does drugs, and if your relationship gets serious, she could drink you out of house and home.
[#] You dated her once and it didn't work out. Unless one of you makes major changes, it will flop again.

Remember, love and all that is fine, but look at the real-life side of it too. After all, barely any of the hot heroines do drugs in movies.

462nd NSP653 wrote:

Ryan wrote:

trippy982 wrote:

Are you planning for this to be a long term thing?

No. I'm only 15. It's not like I wanna marry her.
I just like her alot.

And Gunslinger, you're right. If I do date her, I'll just tell her not to smoke or drink around me.
Sure, when I'm older she can drink with me, but at 15? I don't think so. Too early for me.

And I definitely won't start smoking or drinking just because she does.

I'm impressed, you're pretty squared away. GS is right, it may seem trivial now but some bad decisions come back to haunt you when you least want them too.  GS also called it right...tell her not when she's with you, if she can't respect that then she doesn't respect you and you're better off moving on.

Yeah, but I just can't imagine the fact of her smoking her brains out and running around like a retard.
Maybe she isn't right for me.

Those are some nasty habits for somebody at 15 (im guessing she is since I didnt see her age specified). I might sound idiodic when I say this but, id put habbits a bit before how she is tbh. Since they're gonna affect you, one way or another.  and we all know..

Alcohol = bad
Tobacco = bad
Pot = bad

total = bad, bad, bad.