Flaming_Maniac
prince of insufficient light
+2,490|7136|67.222.138.85
Develop some flexibility in your point of view. ***

I was reading some posts by various users in this section, and in many cases people had very extreme, hard opinions based on a certain circumstance, and then extrapolated that out to any other remotely similar circumstance. Sheesh. Use some common sense based on the situation, and you may find that most problems don't have one straight fix, though that's what you would like. You have to think of some situations realistically, in shades of grey, not in black and white.

On the same line of thought, why do many people enjoy classifying themselves as either Republican or Democrat? I know many don't, but why do some vote for straight R. or D. down the ballot, many times without even knowing the candidate that is running? Do you believe that your party is that infallible? Do you even agree with your party on every single issue? In reality every person on the planet is an independent, considering not even all politicians in a party will agree with all the others in the same party. Why even bother trying restrain your views based on your party?

On the other end, why do many people judge others on their said party? Why does someone over the internet that you have never met automatically become a "stubborn conservative" or an "ignorant liberal"? Sure you can disagree with them on some issues, maybe even most, but there is always going to be some middle ground between two sane people. (i.e. murder is wrong) Why are so many people here so quick to judge people based on their given political stance (that as I said is hard to define by anyone) and not on the basis of their arguments?

Example: Jonathan Swift's A Modest Propostal

If someone just came out and said "Eating people is the way to go," there would be a significant portion of the community here that would stop reading right there and proceed to flame Swift. If you actually read the darn thing you might see that though you may still find it appalling, he at least tried to make a valid point and is not an idiot, but mis-guided at most.

Stop judging people by their most likely falsely given titles so quickly.

***Completely and totally jacked from a fortune cookie.
Parker
isteal
+1,452|6823|The Gem Saloon
another version of "dont judge a book by its cover"?
ATG
Banned
+5,233|6958|Global Command
Agreed, going down the middle of the road makes getting run over less likely.

It also helps, really, to get your news from as many places as possible. Spend a few seconds thinking about why people are advocating a certain thing, or choosing to cover a certain story or not.

One of the great values of an international forum is the chance to speak to people all over the world. If your reasonably open minded you should experience an enlightening of views in some manner.

I would point to Jamarhed and CameronPoe and Spark as people I admire and enjoy conversing with from the liberal side of the fence. tbh anymore, I feel a lot like Cougar and feel like conservative republicans are a little worrisome, and I'm not sure what label fits best on me anymore.


former leader of the warmongeringoilguzzlingneocons.
Flaming_Maniac
prince of insufficient light
+2,490|7136|67.222.138.85

Parker wrote:

another version of "dont judge a book by its cover"?
In a political sense, yes.

Usually I find people that disagree with me more interesting to talk to, if they can debate intelligently. It's no fun having everyone agree with you, much better to have lively debate.
paranoid101
Ambitious but Rubbish
+540|7169
Less righting in CAPITALS would be a good Start.

No just kidding, good post Flaming_Maniac and I totally agree.

A least people could try having a opened mind to someone's else's view and try not to be blinded to every other ones opinion but his own.

A +1 for you Flaming_Maniac.

Last edited by paranoid101 (2007-04-08 17:47:04)

Kmar
Truth is my Bitch
+5,695|7030|132 and Bush

ATG wrote:

Agreed, going down the middle of the road makes getting run over less likely.

It also helps, really, to get your news from as many places as possible. Spend a few seconds thinking about why people are advocating a certain thing, or choosing to cover a certain story or not.

One of the great values of an international forum is the chance to speak to people all over the world. If your reasonably open minded you should experience an enlightening of views in some manner.

I would point to Jamarhed and CameronPoe and Spark as people I admire and enjoy conversing with from the liberal side of the fence. tbh anymore, I feel a lot like Cougar and feel like conservative republicans are a little worrisome, and I'm not sure what label fits best on me anymore.


former leader of the warmongeringoilguzzlingneocons.
ATG are you worrisome?
Xbone Stormsurgezz
crimson_grunt
Shitty Disposition (apparently)
+214|7083|Teesside, UK

Flaming_Maniac wrote:

Stop judging people by their most likely falsely given titles so quickly.
excellent point and worthy of karma. 

Pigeon holing people as a label seems a lame way of dismissing people without taking the time to consider their opinion.  I've been called a liberal a lot lately (as well as a whole range of insults based on my perceived label) yet in the UK we have a party called the 'liberal democrats' and I barely agree with them on any subject.

Not only are labels pointless excusses to make often innacurate assumptions about people but they mean different things to people from different countries.
Skorpy-chan
Member
+127|6774|Twyford, UK
Flexibility is all well and good, but my joints will only go so far before they dislocate or the tendon rips loose.

Oh! Flexibility in viewpoint.
Screw you. I know what I think, and don't want to change.
Flaming_Maniac
prince of insufficient light
+2,490|7136|67.222.138.85

Skorpy-chan wrote:

Flexibility is all well and good, but my joints will only go so far before they dislocate or the tendon rips loose.

Oh! Flexibility in viewpoint.
Screw you. I know what I think, and don't want to change.
Haha, that's exactly what I said to my fortune cookie.
ATG
Banned
+5,233|6958|Global Command

Kmarion wrote:

ATG wrote:

Agreed, going down the middle of the road makes getting run over less likely.

It also helps, really, to get your news from as many places as possible. Spend a few seconds thinking about why people are advocating a certain thing, or choosing to cover a certain story or not.

One of the great values of an international forum is the chance to speak to people all over the world. If your reasonably open minded you should experience an enlightening of views in some manner.

I would point to Jamarhed and CameronPoe and Spark as people I admire and enjoy conversing with from the liberal side of the fence. tbh anymore, I feel a lot like Cougar and feel like conservative republicans are a little worrisome, and I'm not sure what label fits best on me anymore.


former leader of the warmongeringoilguzzlingneocons.
ATG are you worrisome?
Not anymore, I'm comfortably numb.
TrollmeaT
Aspiring Objectivist
+492|7101|Colorado
Actually there is no such thing as shades of grey, only black & white but I agree that I need to keep an open mind as to not stagnate. Grey btw is just another shade of black.
On some subjects though such as religion or politics I'm very unflexible.

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