jackdreaper wrote:
I was with this great girl: She cared about me, was sweet, supported my BF2 addiction, never talked out of turn, all the good things u can imagine from a girlfriend.
I knew she wasnt a virgin, because she had told me when we talked about the topic. I was ok with it until.....
I started to think i really love this girl and i want to marry her. thats when everything went crazy in my head. I started obssessing over her past relationships....i couldnt sleep at nights, couldnt focus in class, almost didnt get my Bachlors degree......i was going crazy...all i could do was think about her with her past boyfriends...and all the devious things they had done together.... Im not judging, i dont care what people do, but it just bothered the hell out of me......any advice?
eventually we broke up.....understandably
I felt so messed up, i dont know whats wrong with me!!!!! This was a few months back....
I just want to know how people feel about their girlfriends pasts.
Dude, breaking up because of her PAST?! Are you insane or simply plain old dumb!? Sorry if it offends you but you're a real dumbass if you let her go just because of her past, lots and LOTS of women are not virgins anymore, whats it to you what she did in the past? Man, it's like having a $1,000,000 and throwing it in the drain, if she really cared about you, was sweet, supported your BF2 addiction, never talked out of turn, all the good things u can imagine from a girlfriend like you said, then WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU LETTING THAT ONE IN A MILLION GIRL GO?! My suggestion go after her and beg for forgiveness and tell her something like "I was in a depressive state and didn't want to drag you in" or some other form of bull, if you don't THIS will be tormenting you!