BF2S Forums Are you hopelessly single?

Married three months ago and very happy.  She is not into BF2, but accepts the many hours i have put into it so far.  Cant wait for kids, so that i can raise my own Clan.

[QXJZ]Capt_Kefra wrote:

BellusEndus wrote:

What's this thread about again? Love advice for teenage nerds? "I don't have a GF because I can't be bothered/theres none I like/I've got more important things to do/their my best friend/I prefer it this way" blah blah blah...........its cos you're a geek. Theres nothing wrong with that (I'm one too!) but stop making excuses and either realise that it's your own fault you're single and live happily with it or go out and change it. Oh and please tell me if it's easy or not cos I'm been with the mrs since I was 15, now 7 years and counting, and if we ever split I don't know how I'll manage it!

I'm a lifelong bachelor with the best of intentions in mind whenever I meet a potential partner, but somehow I always say and do the wrong things at the worst possible times.  Certainly my "geek" persona plays a role in this and it would be wrong of me to blame anyone but myself for my lifetime of loneliness...but there's no need to be so holier-than-thou about it.

Yes, I'm bitter sometimes, I get jealous sometimes, I wish I could trade my copy of BF2 for a wife-beater and some dog tags and pick up chicks effortlessly, but I can't.  I was born to do something in this life, but having a significant other apparently doesn't factor into mine anywhere.

Well then, I guess you've stopped making excuses, realised its your fault, not necessarily happy with it but you're trying to change it and by the looks of things its not easy. Did I mention anything else?

I wasn't trying to sound superior, I just find it funny when people give bullshit excuses when in reality its cos their shy/ashamed/a nerd etc. etc. At the end of the day if there's someone for you you'll find them eventually (well....sometimes) but in the mean time just be happy with who you are. My rant was aimed at pathetic (maybe thats a bit harsh but hey, gotta be cruel to be nice!) whining teenagers, which whilst you may be a teenager(?) you don't seem pathetic and aren't whining about it, you know what's wrong just haven't found a way to change it yet.

girlfriend, to young to be married.

Last edited by IronFerret (2006-04-27 23:52:23)

got a GF now it was the STFU pwnage

Happily single for about 3 years now. I ve had alot of relationships(+/- 20) and i wanted to spend some time alone. So i got meself a couple of cats.

I m interested in a new relationship with a nice girl and i guess its just a matter of time really. Btw here's a pic of me, i m wearing hearing protection and safety glasses cause i m standing next to a 270 hp morbark woodchipper.

Last edited by General-Echo (2006-04-28 04:11:48)

Err, yeah, since I posted and all, I should probably actually, y'know, answer the question. I'm not hopelessly single. I am, however, hopelessly far from my lady for the time being. Bleh. Or meh. One of those two.

I got wife and kids. Hence why I post here. I need to vent!!

Got a girlfriend right now, very sweet played BF2 ones, F*cked up the stats but who cares well see it this way when its over you can always date paris hilton.

fon|sl4y3r wrote:

hm, Echo my dear m8, what about those glasses? They´re orange cause you´re from the netherlands arent they

Actually they are yellow safety glasses made by stihl. The woodchippers we work with, produce alot of dust so if the wind is blowing in the wrong direction these things are great and i bought them cause they dont make you look like a dork.

Last edited by General-Echo (2006-04-28 06:23:12)

Ilocano wrote:

Flecco wrote:

AmBiTiOnZ23 wrote:

Hopelessly single. Have a girl that I'd like to be with, who's my best friend though.

I know the feeling...

My brother is in the same boat, but post "ask the serious question".  He got shot down, but they still hang out together.  I've got girls (hot asian debutante/club going type girls) asking about his availability, but he's totally into his artsy/ifc/grunge girl.

Everyone gets shot down.  Just give it a try.  You never know until you try.

Advice to the desperate ones out there.  Girls know if you are desperate.  It's when you're not trying, just hinting, when they go after you.  Worse was when I got engaged.  They were everywhere.  Funny thing, same thing happened to my dad when he was engaged.

Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelll... Didn't work for me. Then again, 800kms between us is a barrier... Might have to wait and see what happens next time I see her face to face.

Just started up again with my on again/off again lady friend for two years.  I guess we're on again since I cancelled my date for this saturday and she's coming to meet me for the Bulls game tonight.

StokoE wrote:

Horseman 77 wrote:

Got a Playboy Bunny type blonde.

Who is an MD.

She refers to my playing BF2 as " He's Relaxing "

Totally Waxed. ( careful here guys, Once you have Waxing, you can never go back. )

Excellent Cook.

Likes Dogs ( lets them Waste the house )

She is " Self  Made " ( Didn't come from money,  has two boys ) so of course she is a Conservative.

Her Lingerie collection is Vast, Twisted and Unmatched.

Drives very fast and very well in any weather.

And ( it took some selling, but now ) Answers to " Bitch "

What she sees in me I have no F#@$% Idea.

I am gonna copy this and send it to her. lol

Single then..

Me

Getting married in 3 months ! have a baby girl !

www.jamie.stokoe.name

Yea, you can have the barbies.