my sentiments exactly. if he tells his mom, she probably knows, but "ohnoez mah kedz knoz too!!11!!" hysteria sets in and is compelled to leave your dad. Look life is not perfect. you can talk to your dad but have no expectations that he will stop his affair. Maybe you and your sisters can leave your parents alone on a friday night or something (just a thought)Engineer_Fox wrote:
Don't blackmail anybody, bad shit will hit you in the face.
My dad cheated on my mom and when I finally understood wtf was going on, I told my dad that when he isnt around, I'll tell mom. So I told her and she talked to my dad. 2 moths later, my parents seperated, I keyed her car, threw out a couple of windows, punched one of her sons and set the garden on fire.
The day after my dad came to my house and send me to a Internaat (sort of discipline school/military). Worst time of my life.
Point is, mind you're own business, when it comes down to it, handle it with dignity and respect.
Should have keyed his car tbh.Engineer_Fox wrote:
Keyed the car of the women my dad was seeing..menzo wrote:
why did you key your moms car? your dad cheated and fucked it upEngineer_Fox wrote:
Don't blackmail anybody, bad shit will hit you in the face.
My dad cheated on my mom and when I finally understood wtf was going on, I told my dad that when he isnt around, I'll tell mom. So I told her and she talked to my dad. 2 moths later, my parents seperated, I keyed her car, threw out a couple of windows, punched one of her sons and set the garden on fire.
The day after my dad came to my house and send me to a Internaat (sort of discipline school/military). Worst time of my life.
Point is, mind you're own business, when it comes down to it, handle it with dignity and respect.
...better: tell you dad next time you see him, to remember to clean his phone!
do it with a smile!
do it with a smile!
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"Your girlfriend called.."Beduin wrote:
...better: tell you dad next time you see him, to remember to clean his phone!
do it with a smile!
How old are you, -Sh1fty-?
hes 17 im pretty sure.liquidat0r wrote:
How old are you, -Sh1fty-?
what happened to all the other posts?
deleted, because it is not cool to make jokes about this, he is asking for helpandrooz wrote:
hes 17 im pretty sure.liquidat0r wrote:
How old are you, -Sh1fty-?
what happened to all the other posts?
find out about the woman ........... if shes hot .... then blackmail her ......... for sex ........................... you need to learn about sex and the best teachers are the older ones
yeah that shit is kinda fucked up.menzo wrote:
deleted, because it is not cool to make jokes about this, he is asking for helpandrooz wrote:
hes 17 im pretty sure.liquidat0r wrote:
How old are you, -Sh1fty-?
what happened to all the other posts?
asking bf2s probably wasnt the best idea since theres several dickheads here (there has been some good advice though)
you have your options now you just need to decide what you want to do shifty. i dont think id tell your mom because then theyd for sure get divorced.
Andrew calling someone a dickhead...
On topic, definitely tell your father, I do however think there is little chance your parents will stay married.
On topic, definitely tell your father, I do however think there is little chance your parents will stay married.
ok first, your arms are toothpicks-Sh1fty- wrote:
I was thinking more like I could blackmail him.FFLink wrote:
Tell your dad that you know, prepare for him to try and blackmail you (if he's an asshole).
If nothing's done, tell your mother.
On a side note, I forgot why we were snooping but thank God we did.
So, I should have a talk with him? Unfortunately he could snap my arms like a toothpick.
second, post the pics plz
third (and serious this time) tell him to tell her or you will, because wtf? cheating is not cool
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no but really, xfire me the pics pls
ya people will always hate me, thats just the way it is. haters will keep on hating.The Sheriff wrote:
Andrew calling someone a dickhead...
On topic, definitely tell your father, I do however think there is little chance your parents will stay married.
but im not a dickhead to people for no reason, especially in a situation like this.
wait shifty do you know the woman hes cheating with?
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my dad cheated ......... I found out by cruising down the road 1 day and passed my dad on the road ......... turned around and followed him ( from distance ) ........ he pulled into a condo area of a woman that works at our store ..... parked my truck down the road and made my way through the woods till I could see them through the sliding glass on her back deck ....... well after he ate dinner there and got comfortable on the couch, I decided to come on in and say " hi " ......... nothing like guy built like me throwing a concrete block through a glass door and walking in to give you a " oh shit " face
Wait... why would you decide to turn around and start following your dad like that in the first place, unless you already had a hunch, otherwise damn, that's some luck (or unluck) right there, you could've just ended up following him right back home or anything... rather than actually catching him doing something like that...SEREMAKER wrote:
my dad cheated ......... I found out by cruising down the road 1 day and passed my dad on the road ......... turned around and followed him ( from distance ) ........ he pulled into a condo area of a woman that works at our store ..... parked my truck down the road and made my way through the woods till I could see them through the sliding glass on her back deck ....... well after he ate dinner there and got comfortable on the couch, I decided to come on in and say " hi " ......... nothing like guy built like me throwing a concrete block through a glass door and walking in to give you a " oh shit " face
They don't call him SEREMAKER for no reason Mek you moron.
The Sheriff wrote:
They don't call him SEREMAKER for no reason Mek you moron.
Go talk to your dad and to the woman he is having an affair with.
If you saw your parents or someone randomly on the road why would you start following them, unless you were already suspicious to a high degree
this was in part of our county he never frequents ( that we knew of ) ..... he lives in the southern part of the county and he should have just left work and headed home ( mom was out of town for the night )Mekstizzle wrote:
Wait... why would you decide to turn around and start following your dad like that in the first place, unless you already had a hunch, otherwise damn, that's some luck (or unluck) right there, you could've just ended up following him right back home or anything... rather than actually catching him doing something like that...SEREMAKER wrote:
my dad cheated ......... I found out by cruising down the road 1 day and passed my dad on the road ......... turned around and followed him ( from distance ) ........ he pulled into a condo area of a woman that works at our store ..... parked my truck down the road and made my way through the woods till I could see them through the sliding glass on her back deck ....... well after he ate dinner there and got comfortable on the couch, I decided to come on in and say " hi " ......... nothing like guy built like me throwing a concrete block through a glass door and walking in to give you a " oh shit " face
it was my day off and luck had it he passed right by me ........ then the ole 6th sense kicks in
I agree with gs on this one.eleven bravo wrote:
dude fuck your dad. tell your mom and suck up the aftermath. fuck that blackmail shit. how long do you think youre gonna be able to look at your mom knowing shes getting cheated on and your not telling her.
I stood in line for four hours. They better give me a Wal-Mart gift card, or something. - Rodney Booker, Job Fair attendee.
how do you know it's not the woman hitting on your dad? what if this is all unsolicited on his part?-Sh1fty- wrote:
So yeah I think my Dad is having an affair.
Should I tell?
you should ask your dad "what would you do if a woman's hitting on you, dad?"
if he says "knock the bottom out if son, fuck yeah" don't tell him you've been snooping on his phone . . .
Tell your dad, Shifty. Let us know what happens.
One of my friends at school used to be in this exact situation. He never said anything (his dad forbade him to) about it until after his mum found out and they'd split up.
It must suck .
It must suck .
how is your dad? Aggressive? Bit of an asshole? If you think talking to him man to man will do the trick for him to stop, that might be the best. Or just straight up tell your mom, it is there problem and she has a right to know. As eleven said, can you really look at your mom knowing whats been going on and not tell her?
Yes we know her quite well. She's a whore.androoz wrote:
ya people will always hate me, thats just the way it is. haters will keep on hating.The Sheriff wrote:
Andrew calling someone a dickhead...
On topic, definitely tell your father, I do however think there is little chance your parents will stay married.
but im not a dickhead to people for no reason, especially in a situation like this.
wait shifty do you know the woman hes cheating with?
Right so, best thing I can conclude from all your advice (Thanks guys) is to tell him to tell her, or I will.
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