Brasso wrote:
so yeah prom was last night and the girl i was really into apparently thinks i'm an awesome friend but doesn't want to go out with me. i was getting all the wrong vibes...we set up dinner and a movie, i was grinding with her, we went around and played a bunch of games as a couple...then i asked her out. we're the only two kids in our grade going to the same college next year and she thinks of me as "a really good friend" but "doesn't want to go into college in a relationship" cause then she won't get to meet new people.
anyway at post prom i kind of avoided her to sort out what i was feeling and then later when we drove to a party she said she though it was "unfair," which is true i guess. i just don't know how to react to something like that. you put everything on the line and then you just get stomped on, it fucking sucks.
i'm still drunk so i'm going to bed for a bit but someone post something comforting before i wake up please <3
Hey man we've all been there at some stage or another.
It really sucks but in a nutshell, if a girl thinks of you as a friend only, there's not a lot you can do about it. On the flipside, if a girl is really into you, there's not a lot
she can do about how she feels - it's pretty hard for her to think of you as "just" a friend.
Dunno if that helps at all, but if the friendship has value then go with it, just be prepared to feel pretty cut when she shows interest in someone else.
You're probably just best moving on as far as your feelings go. Or you could actively pursue her and see how that works, but just be prepared for rejection. That way if anything else happens you'll be pleasantly surprised
