BF2S Forums The BF2s girl-problems thread

Parker wrote:

spoken like an insecure boy. im none of those things and i have never had an issue with women...

its all in how you carry yourself.
but i digress...this really is bennisboys area, so im gonna leave it to the pros....the pros that cant get the damn guide finished

So true. When I was still in secondary school, I wasn't confident and I cared too much about what people would think of me if I did certain things. Since being out of school, and starting college, I've attracted alot more attention. I have a girlfriend (), who I wouldn't be with if i was the shy kid from school, and just being more confident in myself has lead to about 4 girls asking for my number on the way to college

I forgot to say, I'm not a "prep" or a "jock" or whatever, and I don't try to be, so it is really just about how you come across to other people.

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Parker wrote:

but i digress...this really is bennisboys area, so im gonna leave it to the pros....the pros that cant get the damn guide finished

Lol, sorry parker, I've been damn busy! Uni, job applications and women take up a lot of time!
Its been a while since I had time to make any progress with it! In fact, I've got to do two covering letters for jobs at morgan stanley tonight, then start coursework for uni 2moro!

m3thod wrote:

bennisboy wrote:

Parker wrote:

but i digress...this really is bennisboys area, so im gonna leave it to the pros....the pros that cant get the damn guide finished

Lol, sorry parker, I've been damn busy! Uni, job applications and women take up a lot of time!
Its been a while since I had time to make any progress with it! In fact, I've got to do two covering letters for jobs at morgan stanley tonight, then start coursework for uni 2moro!

You're a fresher why on earth are you applying for jobs?!

He's a second year.

War Man wrote:

Nintendogamer wrote:

i've never had a girlfriend and im 17, its fucking annoying, maybe girls just don't like me???? im doomed to die a virgin.

You're a teenager, like me. Wait until you get to college, maybe then you will meet someone special.

home school college?

maybe your mom?

I'm pretty sure this girl might like me back but I have no idea what to talk to her about in order to approach her when I see her.  I know she likes Call of Duty but I don't know if she'll feel like talking about videogames and I don't know much else to talk about.  It's been frustrating me thinking about it all day.

_j5689_ wrote:

I'm pretty sure this girl might like me back but I have no idea what to talk to her about in order to approach her when I see her.  I know she likes Call of Duty but I don't know if she'll feel like talking about videogames and I don't know much else to talk about.  It's been frustrating me thinking about it all day.

ask about it - it's something you both have in common! hah
dont dwell on it though or she will think it's all ya do aye?

mcminty wrote:

Kimmmmmmmmmmmm wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

I'm pretty sure this girl might like me back but I have no idea what to talk to her about in order to approach her when I see her.  I know she likes Call of Duty but I don't know if she'll feel like talking about videogames and I don't know much else to talk about.  It's been frustrating me thinking about it all day.

ask about it - it's something you both have in common! hah
dont dwell on it though or she will think it's all ya do aye?

^Protip

_j5689_ wrote:

So this same girl that I've liked for over a year now seems to be easier than ever to talk to.

What did you talk about then?

lol, I mean it seems like she doesn't just blow me off sometimes and actually seems somewhat interested in me now.  She's in the same room as me as I type this, lol.  Computer Graphics class.

And I think she already knows it's all I do, I rarely talked about anything else last year.

Pretty much what zimmer said. Show off your interesting and fun qualities, that way you'll be seen as fun to hang around with. Bigger social circle = more social proof = more girls interested

_j5689_ wrote:

I don't actually do anything other than play videogames and do computer stuff so that's part of the reason why it's so hard.  She didn't even look at me today.

Build confidence by starting a conversation with randoms. If you can spill a conversation out of nowhere and keep it interesting, then you're good to go.

_j5689_ wrote:

I don't actually do anything other than play videogames and do computer stuff so that's part of the reason why it's so hard.  She didn't even look at me today.

This is gonna sound harsh, but I don't actually mean to insult you or your lifestyle. BUT:
If all you do is play games n other computer stuff, you wont just struggle with women, you will struggle in life.
Both females and employers look for people with life skills; such as teamwork, ability to perform under pressure, able to communicate and many other things. By limiting your life to just computers, you really are limiting the potential of your life.
If you want to succeed with girls, you need to change your image. Playing videogames is fine in MODERATION. You've got to bring other stuff into your life, sports, gym, art, whatever!

How old are you? Cos it sounds like you're still fairly young, but you need to change your lifestyle

bennisboy wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

I don't actually do anything other than play videogames and do computer stuff so that's part of the reason why it's so hard.  She didn't even look at me today.

This is gonna sound harsh, but I don't actually mean to insult you or your lifestyle. BUT:
If all you do is play games n other computer stuff, you wont just struggle with women, you will struggle in life.
Both females and employers look for people with life skills; such as teamwork, ability to perform under pressure, able to communicate and many other things. By limiting your life to just computers, you really are limiting the potential of your life.
If you want to succeed with girls, you need to change your image. Playing videogames is fine in MODERATION. You've got to bring other stuff into your life, sports, gym, art, whatever!

How old are you? Cos it sounds like you're still fairly young, but you need to change your lifestyle

I'm 16.

Yeah I know my lifestyle is terrible but I don't have as much fun doing anything else

I do actually have bad ability to operate under pressure and to communicate with my voice. (I have mild Aspergers Syndrome)

When I talk it sometimes either comes out monotome or sarcastic or just plain sounding like an ass when I don't intend to.

FatherTed wrote:

99 problems

but a bitch aint one

The Sheriff wrote:

but a bitch ain't one

too late oli, take that u northen cunt