Dilbert_X
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uziq wrote:

there has been very little that is ‘mundane’ about my existence. i don’t need a filthy and ungrateful animal to make my life exciting! i go outside! i have hobbies, dammit!

the other half is making encouraging sounds about very nice and expensive designer furniture. which is the perfect opportunity for me to point out that good stuff in means awful tacky filthy cat crap has to go. the transition to sensible good living has begun in earnest.
I think the problem is not the cat its your psychology.

You need to reframe your thoughts from believing the cat is evil and out to ruin your life to understanding the cat is a mystical spirit which was sent to protect you from evil spirits and help you with personal growth.

When the cat does some apparently malicious act understand that it wasn't. I mean maybe it was but more likely it was to amuse you or force you to reflect.
Are/were those expensive earphones really that valuable to me bearing in mind the sun will eventually expand to a red dwarf and swallow the earth?
etc

You can bring a lot of joy to a tiny life without a lot of effort. Maybe that is your purpose.

Last edited by Dilbert_X (2025-12-15 01:05:21)

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uziq
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i am actually fine with animals just doing animal things. i'm not neurotic or a control freak or anything. my family have had dogs. i've been around cats, at a safe and confined distance (typical mad cat aunt, etc.)

the cat was specifically playing up and acting out all summer though. even my other half expressed alarm and said she had never encountered behaviour like it. it was being a shit, and part of its shittiness was targeted at me. not something you want to contend with when you've just bought into 'your' home. this town ain't big enough for the two of us, etc., kinda vibe. why should i have my first 4 months in my new home scotched because of an undisciplined, spoiled animal?

inevitably, most of it came down to her not training or socializing the cat whatsoever. they lived together in some dyad, where even her sisters or relatives visiting her former place equalled a showdown. the animal was given everything, and denied nothing. and somehow i was expected to just fit into this extremely unhealthy and overindulged atmosphere. while paying into the mad scheme.
uziq
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Dilbert_X wrote:

OK you enjoy your luminous orange rice snacks which taste of EPDM.
not really sure what you're referring to, to be honest.

the rice snacks in asia are fresh and healthy. honestly, corner-store or convenient mart food in the west is not as good. convenience store food is so good in asia that it's a meme on social media. it's a part of people's tourists experience to try this stuff.

https://preview.redd.it/16b77va3oom41.jpg?width=1080&crop=smart&auto=webp&s=cec9ba8b5b300b2a948259f09f1e53ab3aca1708

https://www.endlessdistances.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/12/gluten-free-japanese-snacks-15.jpg

if this looks unhealthy to you, don't look too closely at what brits or americans are snacking on during their corporate lunch breaks. the equivalent 'social media meme' food in the UK is ... greggs.

https://images.ft.com/v3/image/raw/https%3A%2F%2Fd1e00ek4ebabms.cloudfront.net%2Fproduction%2Fdeb8c3e8-73c5-490d-b9f5-9e692472ebda.jpg?source=next-article&fit=scale-down&quality=highest&width=700&dpr=1

sorry man, you're honestly just going to have to travel and get out of your comfort zone on this one. asia has rock-bottom obesity rates and their food, whether michelin star gourmet or fast food, is shockingly good. that's kind of a huge part of their draw, internationally.
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'luminous orange rice snacks' honestly sound like rice crackers, which should just have a soy sauce or vinegar brushing. pretty much the same additives cautionaries as for any other processed, packaged food. not like the west is short of any of that. eat bar mix sparingly.
unnamednewbie13
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pnw problems, getting sick of marijuana stank. entire groups of city blocks need to be carpet-bombed with ozium.
unnamednewbie13
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if microsoft had enough update power to randomly splash ad widgets onto my startup screen, necessitating my going into MICROSOFT EDGE to have to turn them off one at a time, it can very well keep up with security updates.

m$ trying to have it both ways.

is it because people aren't moving to 11?
SuperJail Warden
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I can't do the distances of Pennsylvania. 10 minute drive to go to Walgreens. I have a Walgreens down the street. I live on the main road.

Nearest food spot is a McDonald's a 5 minute drive across a fucking bridge. I can walk to McDonald's where I live.

Girlfriend works from home. I am at work 5 days a week. She is stir crazy and wants to go out as soon as I get home. I had to drive 2 hours to Pennsylvania. I just wanted to get there get high but now we are going to Walgreens and to play Pokemon Go.

My girlfriend is great. Pennsylvania is the problem
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uziq
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never could understand how americans could handle their urbanism. it's practically designed to promote atomisation, anomie, and patience-testing rage.

i understood this intuitively when i first visited the states at like 12-13 years old. having to pile in a giant station wagon even to go get a bottle of milk for morning cereal. driving down an actual multiple lane highway just to get to the nearest small store. carparks for as far as the eye could see. just fucking exhausting to anyone from the 'old world' who merely has to slip a coat over their shoulders and 'pop out' for 80% of the essentials they need.
SuperJail Warden
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I genuinely think that a big part of the reason Americans are so miserable is because we have promoted this idea that everyone needs to move, travel, and go on some journey. I guess that is a fundamental part of what it means to be American since we were founded by people who left the perfectly fine continent they lived to make a journey to a far off whatever.

It is a scam by the way. I am getting to know and work with political families in my area. Like "Our family came to America in the 1850s. My great grandfather was a local magistrate and I am running for city council today." The thing I noticed is that they didn't move. Stood in the same spot for generations, got called townies and clowned on for not leaving the place they grew up. But they run the place while the people whose families bought into the "the taxes are lower in the south" don't have the power base to challenge them.
https://i.imgur.com/xsoGn9X.jpg
unnamednewbie13
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a lot of migrant families from europe have a trail of genes all over the country. nomads in yurts had stronger ties to their land. once again, i don't want to hear about ted's 13% irish ancestry from dnasnoop, inc, or spiritual connection to braveheart. about as celtic as a chinese toaster oven. nothing wrong with moving around, but be real about it, y'know. and reject the melting pot at risk of furthering cultural blandification.

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uziq
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SuperJail Warden wrote:

It is a scam by the way. I am getting to know and work with political families in my area. Like "Our family came to America in the 1850s. My great grandfather was a local magistrate and I am running for city council today." The thing I noticed is that they didn't move. Stood in the same spot for generations, got called townies and clowned on for not leaving the place they grew up. But they run the place while the people whose families bought into the "the taxes are lower in the south" don't have the power base to challenge them.
this is just what would have been called the gentry in the old world and is basically the settled bourgeoisie in america. becoming local notaries or assuming voluntary posts as a magistrate, alderman, sheriff, etc. is just a way of 'getting on' in civil society. it's basically as respectable as you can get without hopping into the landed or titled ranks.

you're on the east coast so obviously i guess the social structures are that much more bedded in than the groups who moved, whether for work or in search of religious and political freedoms, etc. i'm sure there's like the equivalent in mormon communities in utah or whatever.
unnamednewbie13
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i'm sure there's like the equivalent in mormon communities in utah or whatever.
yes, apparently. corporation masquerading as church, very tight grip on communities. even the idea of afterlife is heavily tiered and reminds me of what i've been told about amazon's internals. meanwhile if i was starving on the street, i'd hit up a mosque before the lds.
SuperJail Warden
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Isn't the Mormon Church growing? Can't argue against success.

As a guy who tells people he is a "Proud Catholic," I have no issues with the Mormon Church. I almost welcome it as its own center of gravity.

It is funny how different our lives can be in this big country. You are literally the only person I ever hear complain about the Mormon Church. (It is actually endearing and unique.) We don't even think of you guys over here. I don't see too many Mormons walking the streets with their pressed shirts anymore. They were always nice and people never bothered them. I think there is some local Mormon thing around here but is made up of Hispanic converts that stayed rooted. They don't send their kids to school for Halloween or allow them to eat candy that day.

What do people in Utah understand about Catholicism? Is there some 35 year old "Proud Mormon" dude in Utah who is like 'I have no issues with the Catholic Church. I welcome it as its own space." The guy really doesn't understand the blood and body cracker/wine thing too. But then again most Catholics don't either. That is a bit strange.
https://i.imgur.com/xsoGn9X.jpg
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SuperJail Warden wrote:

Isn't the Mormon Church growing? Can't argue against success.

As a guy who tells people he is a "Proud Catholic," I have no issues with the Mormon Church. I almost welcome it as its own center of gravity.

It is funny how different our lives can be in this big country. You are literally the only person I ever hear complain about the Mormon Church. (It is actually endearing and unique.) We don't even think of you guys over here. I don't see too many Mormons walking the streets with their pressed shirts anymore. They were always nice and people never bothered them. I think there is some local Mormon thing around here but is made up of Hispanic converts that stayed rooted. They don't send their kids to school for Halloween or allow them to eat candy that day.

What do people in Utah understand about Catholicism? Is there some 35 year old "Proud Mormon" dude in Utah who is like 'I have no issues with the Catholic Church. I welcome it as its own space." The guy really doesn't understand the blood and body cracker/wine thing too. But then again most Catholics don't either. That is a bit strange.
I grew up around a sizeable minority of Mormons. Even where I live now in LA there's a huge Mormon church on Santa Monica blvd. As a Christian I disagree with their beliefs but I gotta say they were solid people and most of the ones I knew are pretty successful. Tight family unit, against alcohol and drugs, they go on missions around the world learning different languages and cultures and probably constantly getting rejected. Makes for strong people
gang shit
unnamednewbie13
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it's a tossup individually. some nice, some not. some who drink like fish and do who knows what kind of other drugs. that's just people and people's various façades. as an organization, it's easier to pin down, if you care to.
uziq
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i don’t really see where i was complaining about mormons. europeans hardly think of them at all either. they’re considered a part of the zaniness of american life and religion - like ‘get a load of these guys who obviously fell for a deeply weird huckster’.

all these religious weirdos left the old world in the first place because their beliefs were too kooky/leaders too self-aggrandising and cultish to get along with ordinary folks back home. even the virginia settlers and what you consider the ‘southern aristocracy’ were ultimately a bunch of LARPers and soiled cavaliers on the make. their contemporaries found their airs and graces in the new world faintly ridiculous - and that attitude of bemusement is basically the main tenor of all old world–new world relations. there’s definitely no ‘hate’ or strong feelings going on.

my point about the mormons was indeed that ‘america is a very big place’. you talk about all these inter-generational dynasties on the east coast who evince the benefits of ‘staying put’, but my point is america has been capacious enough - geographically and socially - for there to be entire other dynasties elsewhere on the continent made up precisely of those ‘who moved often’.

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unnamednewbie13
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didn't think you were and you were right. we just spun off from there.

i've never lived in utah, but spent enough time with people who have, i think.
unnamednewbie13
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i was gifted a bag of apples. i like apples. but these are red delicious. likely the cheapest there were on the shelf.

pretty sure i've stated my unfavorable opinion on red delicious apples in ancient bf2s history. i'm pretty sure styrofoam tree ornaments have as much flavor.

still thanked them for it. sure i'll find some use. maybe as smoothie thickener.

gift horses and such.

i need to log a reminder to grab some jazz or gala.
uziq
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trying to repair my 35" curved benQ monitor today. finally found some appropriate silicone electronics gel from xi jinping's utopia.

curved monitors: never again. i mean seriously. fucking nightmare. the internet is a litany of user complaints about the panel slowly separating from the back screen. who knew that sleekly curved electronics don't with-hold constant heat and humidity cycling?!?

even buying a 'premium' panel from a 'reputed' brand has helped me nada. when i emailed them about it first happening, they essentially said i was shit out of luck, in so many fine words (a warranty that warranted for very little, apparently).

fuck curved screens!
RTHKI
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That sucks. Work started buying curved monitors a couple years ago, 27in or so, no issues so far but there's nothing special about em.

My 27in flatscreen ips 1440p from 2012 is still chugging along at home.
https://i.imgur.com/tMvdWFG.png
uziq
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i went away to korea for just under a year after buying the monitor. came back and it had begun to peel away. giant bar of leaking white back-light all along the top. very common issue if the internet is to be believed. rubbish quality control. and it cost about $1000!
pirana6
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I don't know what my next meal is to cook.
I spent sunday morning as I always do, looking through 3 dozen saved recipes printed out shoved in a folder plus another half dozen cookbooks of various ethnicities, found 3-4 I felt like having, wrote down the ingredients for all of them, bought those ingredients, made 1 each night, and now I'm on my last one and I don't remember what recipe I chose.

I have a random assortment of ingredients, but I don't have a corresponding recipe.


Am I an idiot?
KEN-JENNINGS
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Lol. Sounds like youve learned to write down the recipe.

Throw em all in a wok and try to see how it works. This could be a top chef challenge
Dilbert_X
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I would not want to attempt to manufacture a curved screen.
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uziq
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Dilbert_X wrote:

I would not want to attempt to manufacture a curved screen.
i mean, seems like a quality-control issue if the glue isn't keeping its bond when the monitor is just stood there, inert, on a desk.

i can understand flexing and pressure being applied to the screens causing a big headache, during transport or setup or whatever.

but the screen shouldn't separate from its backing while turned off for a year.

the $5 silicone glue i ordered from china has seemed to sort it. not great for a $1000 item.

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