you don’t have to go to some sketchy ‘free party scene’ rave. there are loads of great venues with proper authentic scenes in NYC. world-class DJ’s are playing there all the time to discerning crowds who are there for the music. none of the EDM crapshoot.
haven’t seen anyone deck dance or do stupid shit like that. i go to fairly selective/self-selecting venues. i don’t really enjoy the giant light shows and warehouses full of 3000 pressed bodies anymore. prefer a small room with attention on good sound and attention to detail. tiktok and video reel social media has turned those big events into pure spectacles. i do not need to see the big CGI robots shooting lasers from their eyes while a cheesy trance synth plays an arpeggiated breakdown. all that shit is corny as hell.
i think the pandemic broke young people’s brains when it comes to acting within the realms of normality/acceptability at these things. plus do not underestimate how the drug du jour can drastically change the vibe in the nightlife scene. ketamine’s widespread popularity has led to really rubbish dancefloors tbh. GHB in europe similarly so.
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