the whole situation was bizarre, funny, and kind of sad. i was living in a house where a housemate was actively stalking my posts on this forum and feeding back everything i was saying about my deteriorating relationship to the girlfriend we were living with. the situation in that house was a unique powder-keg of awful. the weird social dynamics and sort of fawning three-way that the other guys in the house had over my girlfriend is what led to the police being called on me. they told me later that they regretted taking that step, because it took a situation with a bunch of immature 19 year olds behaving badly (mostly me being disruptive and loud, it must be said) and escalated it way out of all proportion.
i self-dramatized the whole thing bigtime here on the forum at the time. it did feel pretty dramatic at the time, although in retrospect in a very sort of 'late adolescent' way. parents (who were lawyers) coming in and making threats, being protective over 'their' baby, etc, threatening legal action, yada yada. none of it went anywhere. i certainly never had any legal or medical repercussions from that episode -- contrary to whatever i may have narrated at the time in my grandiloquent drama. the same girl who was at the centre of that whole ruckus actually eloped with me several more times in my 20s. we had a really nice time and that sophomore episode was rapidly forgotten about. all in all, 8/10, no ragretz.
the legal drug that everyone was strung-out on permanently during that year got banned in pretty short order and everyone just stopped taking it. we didn't have access to things like cocaine then, we were 19 year olds living in a quiet leafy suburb and didn't have those sort of connections (or even inclinations). the worst 'run-in' i ever had because of 'drug abuse' was simply over-indulging in an experimental research chemical, along with everyone else in my circle and, it seems like, everyone else in fucking london at the time. lol. it was being delivered around by men on scooters 24/7. extremely 2010 zeitgeist. i've never got in trouble or become unstuck with drugs like that again since ... it's not even been possible to get drugs that easily, so plentifully, and so cheaply since then. that legal shit was cheaper than beer. plus, i had a job and responsibilities, etc. i wasn't interested in staying up partying for 3 days straight.
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