she wasn't an ex-girlfriend, she was a chinese student in a UK city, studying abroad. i've dated a few girls like that, and they are all cut from the same cloth and of the same opinion (i have no idea why you'd include some swipe at my 'fantasy' relationships; you are a hog, i am a suave good looking young buck). they are an excellent litmus test for what the upwardly mobile, aspirant chinese think: they are the children of chinese families that have $50,000 a year to spend on international degrees, after all. and those views, even among the 'enlightened' bourgeoisie and intelligentsia, is overwhelmingly pro-china.
what do you imagine your average lower-middle class worker or city dweller in china thinks, without benefit of going abroad, learning at august western institutions, centres of liberal democracy, etc.? how about when you imagine that that worker's parents and grandparents were likely involved in pro-communist activism in their own youth? when their grandparents and great-grandparents were rural poor, rice farmers, living year-on-year hand to mouth? and now they live in fancy apartments with boutique store bills on their credit cards?
you are hugely under-rating the success of the chinese system of governance with its own citizens. they have gone from being a largely agrarian backwater to a superpower with tens of millions commuting everyday on maglev trains.
victim of propaganda? no. i am not in support of china's system of governance at all. from any western perspective, the cost to privacy and civil liberties is monstrous. i wouldn't want to live there given another 10 lifetimes; i don't even want to visit tbh. but for you to say that china is some locked-down police state, with its populace living in misery and fear, is just propaganda of another kind. it's not very good. china's middle-class are better off than america's middle-class, and the majority of them are fine with the trade-off in civil liberties -- concepts with which they have never been familiar, in any case.
the absolute HILARITY of you talking about '10,000s of chinese emigrating', when you are the fucking mascot of total population statistics. jay? you know how america has 330,000,000 people? well china has
1.4 billion. how many emigrate as a % of the total population? can you run the sums for me, resident stats expert?
making out that it's some police state in which people escape persecution to 'safe havens' in the west, like iranian liberals after the islamic revolution or north korean dissidents today, is absolutely disingenuous in the extreme.
as a retarded and particularly ignorant american conservative, you're just going to have to deal with the fact that lots of chinese like being chinese, they like china very much, and they think china should rightfully be numbah wan.
"daddy issues"
i would scratch being a psychoanalyst off your list as well as being a history teacher mate. stick to ticking boxes for now. you're doing so well!
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