-Sh1fty-
plundering yee booty
+510|5690|Ventura, California

Jaekus wrote:

You're not in a relationship yet so don't treat it as such.

Just go on a date and see where it goes from there. Don't be too concerned about the outcome and just have fun.
Is that what you're telling me to tell her? sounds good...
And above your tomb, the stars will belong to us.
KEN-JENNINGS
I am all that is MOD!
+2,978|6849|949

wait, you've hung out with her for a total of 20 minutes? or am i missing something here?
-Sh1fty-
plundering yee booty
+510|5690|Ventura, California

KEN-JENNINGS wrote:

wait, you've hung out with her for a total of 20 minutes? or am i missing something here?
no that was the time I met her and got her number

edit: lol you think I can find out so much about a person in 20 minutes? Sorry I had to come back and edit this part to add that because you made me chuckle

Last edited by -Sh1fty- (2012-09-17 22:03:13)

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Hurricane2k9
Pendulous Sweaty Balls
+1,538|5918|College Park, MD
gonna try asking this girl out again this weekend, maybe this time she'll answer her phone lol.
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Jaekus
I'm the matchstick that you'll never lose
+957|5395|Sydney

-Sh1fty- wrote:

Jaekus wrote:

You're not in a relationship yet so don't treat it as such.

Just go on a date and see where it goes from there. Don't be too concerned about the outcome and just have fun.
Is that what you're telling me to tell her? sounds good...
Not in those words, and that's more to reflect your own attitude.
-Sh1fty-
plundering yee booty
+510|5690|Ventura, California
ok thanks man

anyway our conversation tonight ended on a positive note and I look forward to talking to her again. She says she needs some time to think.
And above your tomb, the stars will belong to us.
Adams_BJ
Russian warship, go fuck yourself
+2,054|6839|Little Bentcock
she needs to see her boyfriend for a little while
Jay
Bork! Bork! Bork!
+2,006|5575|London, England

-Sh1fty- wrote:

Well cool I got back in touch with her.

Turns out she's a girl that doesn't have too much self-confidence. She's afraid of a serious relationship because she doesn't want to be emotionally hurt and she says that she doesn't get along too well with most other people.

When I spoke with her those 20 minutes. I saw a really fun girl. We had a lot of things in common, she was pretty, and very kind. I don't know why she feels that way. We texted for a few days after that and agreed to hang out that second time but she didn't contact me back so we could meet up. So tonight on FB I asked her why and she told me what I told you guys above. I tried to reassure her that I wasn't some jackass that would be a jerk and emotionally hurt her and stuff. I put it quite more eloquently than that of course...I just don't know what to do. She likes me but she's unsure of herself she says.

I think she's neat though. Like we have so much in common as far as tastes go.  Not sure what to say at this point to her.
She's just not that into you.
"Ah, you miserable creatures! You who think that you are so great! You who judge humanity to be so small! You who wish to reform everything! Why don't you reform yourselves? That task would be sufficient enough."
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west-phoenix-az
Guns don't kill people. . . joe bidens advice does
+632|6606

Jay wrote:

She's just not that into you.
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-Sh1fty-
plundering yee booty
+510|5690|Ventura, California
I have no doubt that could very well be the case but she was making it sound like it was a problem on her end, although she could have just been trying to be nice about it if you know what I mean.
And above your tomb, the stars will belong to us.
PrivateVendetta
I DEMAND XMAS THEME
+704|6408|Roma
We do, that's what they've been saying.
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-Sh1fty-
plundering yee booty
+510|5690|Ventura, California
oh glad we're all on the same page then

lets see what happens next I'd feel pretty bad for her though if she was telling the truth. She must have been around some real jerks if they lowered her self-esteem so much.
And above your tomb, the stars will belong to us.
-Whiteroom-
Pineapplewhat
+572|6875|BC, Canada
its not you, its me...
west-phoenix-az
Guns don't kill people. . . joe bidens advice does
+632|6606
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UnkleRukus
That Guy
+236|5253|Massachusetts, USA

-Whiteroom- wrote:

its not you, its me...
It's you
If the women don't find ya handsome. They should at least find ya handy.
-Sh1fty-
plundering yee booty
+510|5690|Ventura, California
hahahaha yeah I could see my situation being that xD crossing my fingers that it isn't

that was a funny video
And above your tomb, the stars will belong to us.
UnkleRukus
That Guy
+236|5253|Massachusetts, USA
No dude, it's you. Move on and fine someone else.
If the women don't find ya handsome. They should at least find ya handy.
KEN-JENNINGS
I am all that is MOD!
+2,978|6849|949

maybe it's not you, but you should definitely just let her have some space for a bit.  Don't push her, maybe give her a few days before you talk to her again...
Uzique The Lesser
Banned
+382|4471
this thread is such a fucking fail.
-Sh1fty-
plundering yee booty
+510|5690|Ventura, California
yep that's exactly what I'm going to do.
And above your tomb, the stars will belong to us.
tuckergustav
...
+1,590|6130|...

I don't like girls that lead with their insecurities.  It just sets a bad tone to the rest of the relationship, friendship or otherwise.

If they just want to talk about their problems, they should get a therapist.  The beginning of relationships are supposed to be fun.
...
west-phoenix-az
Guns don't kill people. . . joe bidens advice does
+632|6606

aynrandroolz wrote:

this thread is such a fucking fail.
doesn't sound like any fucking is going on
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PrivateVendetta
I DEMAND XMAS THEME
+704|6408|Roma
if there was fucking, there would be no problems
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PrivateVendetta
I DEMAND XMAS THEME
+704|6408|Roma
wait, i just got it
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KEN-JENNINGS
I am all that is MOD!
+2,978|6849|949

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