meh, i've gotten better advice online than I have irlRoc18 wrote:
Bawwwww I can't get any girls, let me beat up on myself and hope someone will have the exact answer and solution to my problem on an internet forum.
If you want to get a girl, you have to be the type of person she wants. Fun, interesting, has a direction in life.
Beating yourself up about not getting girls is not going to make you into this sort of person.
Beating yourself up about not getting girls is not going to make you into this sort of person.
all three of those are highly subjective and relative, but I'm pretty sure I'm fun, interesting and I definitely have direction in life
that's good, because women really want a man who's willing to go down.Hurricane2k9 wrote:
all three of those are highly subjective and relative, but I'm pretty sure I'm fun, interesting and I definitely have direction in life
I know you've heard this a million times before and will again but I have to reiterate what other people are likely telling you...Hurricane2k9 wrote:
20 in a few days, from what I hear the tables don't turn in favor of people like myself until the late 20s >_<pirana6 wrote:
just out of curiosity, what's the average age of everyone looking for help in this thread?
I noticed a few DRASTIC changes in girls in a few certain age groups so it's possible everyone might be caught up in them.
Yeah, it sucks now and it will for a while. The kind of guys girls go for at your age have one thing and that's looks. They couldn't give much of a shit about anything else. I was always the 'nice guy' who the girls wanted to be friends with. I can't tell you how many times I heard, 'You're a great guy but I think we should just be friends.' Or, 'You're gonna find someone perfect for you someday.' Yeah yeah fuck you. I'm about 4-5 years older than you and I can tell you this, girls do actually factor in personality/intelligence/integrity and everything most people here likely have but don't think it gets them anywhere with girls. They've dealt with the a-holes who are only good looking and have nothing else. They can finally see (at my age - 24) that those kind of guys were fun but that's about it.
Let me put it this way, (believe me or don't believe me, after all this is the internet, and keep in mind I'm NOT that good looking)
3 weeks ago I had sex with a girl with D-boobs who said she wants to be fwb and let me know she's gonna ask for it fairly regularly.
2 weeks ago I had sex with another friend
Last Saturday (2 days ago) I fooled around with possibly the hottest girl I ever will. She CONSISTENTLY has guys hitting on her whenever she goes out.
Just you wait my boy. Just you wait. Those things that you think are holding you back, won't when all the girls around you wake up and realize that's what they want.
pirana6 wrote:
3 weeks ago I had sex with a girl with D-boobs who said she wants to be fwb and let me know she's gonna ask for it fairly regularly.Hurricane2k9 wrote:
20 in a few days, from what I hear the tables don't turn in favor of people like myself until the late 20s >_<pirana6 wrote:
just out of curiosity, what's the average age of everyone looking for help in this thread?
I noticed a few DRASTIC changes in girls in a few certain age groups so it's possible everyone might be caught up in them.
2 weeks ago I had sex with another friend
Last Saturday (2 days ago) I fooled around with possibly the hottest girl I ever will. She CONSISTENTLY has guys hitting on her whenever she goes out.
Last edited by Roc18 (2011-09-19 20:01:08)
This is why no one likes youRoc18 wrote:
pirana6 wrote:
3 weeks ago I had sex with a girl with D-boobs who said she wants to be fwb and let me know she's gonna ask for it fairly regularly.Hurricane2k9 wrote:
20 in a few days, from what I hear the tables don't turn in favor of people like myself until the late 20s >_<
2 weeks ago I had sex with another friend
Last Saturday (2 days ago) I fooled around with possibly the hottest girl I ever will. She CONSISTENTLY has guys hitting on her whenever she goes out.
im an ugly dude, i've always thought i got chicks from my intelligence and humor.
and your bank account.KEN-JENNINGS wrote:
im an ugly dude, i've always thought i got chicks from my intelligence and humor.
let's hope so innitpirana6 wrote:
I know you've heard this a million times before and will again but I have to reiterate what other people are likely telling you...Hurricane2k9 wrote:
20 in a few days, from what I hear the tables don't turn in favor of people like myself until the late 20s >_<pirana6 wrote:
just out of curiosity, what's the average age of everyone looking for help in this thread?
I noticed a few DRASTIC changes in girls in a few certain age groups so it's possible everyone might be caught up in them.
Yeah, it sucks now and it will for a while. The kind of guys girls go for at your age have one thing and that's looks. They couldn't give much of a shit about anything else. I was always the 'nice guy' who the girls wanted to be friends with. I can't tell you how many times I heard, 'You're a great guy but I think we should just be friends.' Or, 'You're gonna find someone perfect for you someday.' Yeah yeah fuck you. I'm about 4-5 years older than you and I can tell you this, girls do actually factor in personality/intelligence/integrity and everything most people here likely have but don't think it gets them anywhere with girls. They've dealt with the a-holes who are only good looking and have nothing else. They can finally see (at my age - 24) that those kind of guys were fun but that's about it.
Let me put it this way, (believe me or don't believe me, after all this is the internet, and keep in mind I'm NOT that good looking)
3 weeks ago I had sex with a girl with D-boobs who said she wants to be fwb and let me know she's gonna ask for it fairly regularly.
2 weeks ago I had sex with another friend
Last Saturday (2 days ago) I fooled around with possibly the hottest girl I ever will. She CONSISTENTLY has guys hitting on her whenever she goes out.
Just you wait my boy. Just you wait. Those things that you think are holding you back, won't when all the girls around you wake up and realize that's what they want.
I agreeMacbeth wrote:
This is why no one likes youRoc18 wrote:
pirana6 wrote:
3 weeks ago I had sex with a girl with D-boobs who said she wants to be fwb and let me know she's gonna ask for it fairly regularly.
2 weeks ago I had sex with another friend
Last Saturday (2 days ago) I fooled around with possibly the hottest girl I ever will. She CONSISTENTLY has guys hitting on her whenever she goes out.
cept the smokingHurricane2k9 wrote:
let's hope so innitpirana6 wrote:
I know you've heard this a million times before and will again but I have to reiterate what other people are likely telling you...Hurricane2k9 wrote:
20 in a few days, from what I hear the tables don't turn in favor of people like myself until the late 20s >_<
Yeah, it sucks now and it will for a while. The kind of guys girls go for at your age have one thing and that's looks. They couldn't give much of a shit about anything else. I was always the 'nice guy' who the girls wanted to be friends with. I can't tell you how many times I heard, 'You're a great guy but I think we should just be friends.' Or, 'You're gonna find someone perfect for you someday.' Yeah yeah fuck you. I'm about 4-5 years older than you and I can tell you this, girls do actually factor in personality/intelligence/integrity and everything most people here likely have but don't think it gets them anywhere with girls. They've dealt with the a-holes who are only good looking and have nothing else. They can finally see (at my age - 24) that those kind of guys were fun but that's about it.
Let me put it this way, (believe me or don't believe me, after all this is the internet, and keep in mind I'm NOT that good looking)
3 weeks ago I had sex with a girl with D-boobs who said she wants to be fwb and let me know she's gonna ask for it fairly regularly.
2 weeks ago I had sex with another friend
Last Saturday (2 days ago) I fooled around with possibly the hottest girl I ever will. She CONSISTENTLY has guys hitting on her whenever she goes out.
Just you wait my boy. Just you wait. Those things that you think are holding you back, won't when all the girls around you wake up and realize that's what they want.
quiet, michelle obamaRTHKI wrote:
cept the smokingHurricane2k9 wrote:
let's hope so innitpirana6 wrote:
I know you've heard this a million times before and will again but I have to reiterate what other people are likely telling you...
Yeah, it sucks now and it will for a while. The kind of guys girls go for at your age have one thing and that's looks. They couldn't give much of a shit about anything else. I was always the 'nice guy' who the girls wanted to be friends with. I can't tell you how many times I heard, 'You're a great guy but I think we should just be friends.' Or, 'You're gonna find someone perfect for you someday.' Yeah yeah fuck you. I'm about 4-5 years older than you and I can tell you this, girls do actually factor in personality/intelligence/integrity and everything most people here likely have but don't think it gets them anywhere with girls. They've dealt with the a-holes who are only good looking and have nothing else. They can finally see (at my age - 24) that those kind of guys were fun but that's about it.
Let me put it this way, (believe me or don't believe me, after all this is the internet, and keep in mind I'm NOT that good looking)
3 weeks ago I had sex with a girl with D-boobs who said she wants to be fwb and let me know she's gonna ask for it fairly regularly.
2 weeks ago I had sex with another friend
Last Saturday (2 days ago) I fooled around with possibly the hottest girl I ever will. She CONSISTENTLY has guys hitting on her whenever she goes out.
Just you wait my boy. Just you wait. Those things that you think are holding you back, won't when all the girls around you wake up and realize that's what they want.
Well my advice for Hurricat is, go out with your friends to parties/bars/social gatherings or online date to meet new people. Go into it not trying to get in a girls pants but just being yourself and meeting new people and see where it goes from there.
You won't have to. All you have to do is wait. I've seen it SOO many times before.Hurricane2k9 wrote:
let's hope so innit
I shall. I joined a few clubs this semester so they should prove to be good grounds for meeting new faces.Roc18 wrote:
Well my advice for Hurricat is, go out with your friends to parties/bars/social gatherings or online date to meet new people. Go into it not trying to get in a girls pants but just being yourself and meeting new people and see where it goes from there.
yeah around 19-20 i found that girls just became... easier. whether or not it was me or them (or both) that changed, i dunno. but finding girls that were interested in me has become infinitely more simple than 3-4 years ago
dude no you aren't, i've seen your pics before on here.KEN-JENNINGS wrote:
im an ugly dude, i've always thought i got chicks from my intelligence and humor.
@hurri, question for you. are you a virgin/have you had a gf? if you're not a virgin and have had a gf then at least be happy, even if you're still a virgin but you've had good interactions with girls.
you're 20 and still in uni right? why would you even be worried about getting tied down right now? you're still so young and busy with uni/jobs, etc so i would just have fun and live the life atm if i were you.
it seems like sometimes the more you worry/beat yourself up over shit the worse it can get.
i'm not saying to give up or stop trying but just think positive. you're a good person, you look normal, no physical or mental problems, think positive.
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"Ah, you miserable creatures! You who think that you are so great! You who judge humanity to be so small! You who wish to reform everything! Why don't you reform yourselves? That task would be sufficient enough."
-Frederick Bastiat
-Frederick Bastiat
forgot to include a ""Jay wrote:
andros wrote:
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If you finished your first year uni and still a virgin, son i am disappoint. college girls are WAY too fucking easy. grow some balls and go pick up, if my friend dresses like a bum, has a shitty phone (bitches love iphone these days) and has a rat tail (aussie ghetto thing) and can pick up (especially rich azn bitches they only like a man with money), everyone can do it.
Apparently everyone can't, just look at hurricanes posts brah.Cybargs wrote:
If you finished your first year uni and still a virgin, son i am disappoint. college girls are WAY too fucking easy. grow some balls and go pick up, if my friend dresses like a bum, has a shitty phone (bitches love iphone these days) and has a rat tail (aussie ghetto thing) and can pick up (especially rich azn bitches they only like a man with money), everyone can do it.
bitches be obsessed with bbm here. i just switched to android
MFW when i realized it was one of these things. that shit is ballsy.Cybargs wrote:
rat tail (aussie ghetto thing)
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