BF2S Forums The BF2s girl-problems thread

Well, as of 10:30, neither her nor my friend who knew where the party was has contacted me.  Although I was talking with her on FB and we both agreed that it would be kind of dumb to go all the way to Baltimore and have a long drive back where everybody is already fucked up, so she said she'd find another.

Looked on her FB just now and she's going to one of those abandoned hosptitals tonight with some friends instead.  Not sure if it's a good bad, or neutral thing though.  Some way or another, I figured shit wasn't going to happen, it never really does

Is there anything I should do?

Camm wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

Is there anything I should do?

stop being a fucking pussy and posting in this thread, grow a set of nuts, and man the fuck up.

How many times do I have to say that I don't know what to do before it takes effect?

_j5689_ wrote:

Camm wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

Is there anything I should do?

stop being a fucking pussy and posting in this thread, grow a set of nuts, and man the fuck up.

How many times do I have to say that I don't know what to do before it takes effect?

when coming here to ask for help doesn't take effect... I think you're screwed. Honestly, it's not fucking hard. My girlfriend and I met because I frequented the pub she works in, chatted to her outside when having a smoke, met her on a night out, boom. Moving in together in the summer.

Camm wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

Camm wrote:

stop being a fucking pussy and posting in this thread, grow a set of nuts, and man the fuck up.

How many times do I have to say that I don't know what to do before it takes effect?

when coming here to ask for help doesn't take effect... I think you're screwed. Honestly, it's not fucking hard. My girlfriend and I met because I frequented the pub she works in, chatted to her outside when having a smoke, met her on a night out, boom. Moving in together in the summer.

Further proof that the drinking age is keeping Americans virgins

I guess I really do have to go all out fucking primal and ridiculous.  I'm tired of going in fucking circles like this all the time

The only thing I can think of at this point is just wait some more or come clean which is probably a bad idea anyway.

Whatever, night time's not a good time to think about any of this....

_j5689_ wrote:

Whatever, night time's not a good time to think about any of this....

burnzz wrote:

neither is day time, evening time, whatever.

quit thinking.

Overthinking things is the death of good ideas,
and the rationalization of marginal ideas.

Trust your gut.
Your dick and your brain will conspire to make you do stupid shit.
Your gut is usually pretty simple, straightforward, and honest.

Just tried that gut thing a little bit

Asked her if she was looking for any Superbowl parties today and said lemme get her number.  No explanations, no bullshit

Last edited by _j5689_ (2011-02-06 07:14:35)

It's not really necessary and they don't like it anyway because it's the logical thing to do, lol

I realized it shows lack of confidence as well

Motivation and progress ftw

this thread has got all kinds of rapey lately

burnzz wrote:

inb4_j5689_

Aw damn

Sike, I already saw it

You can't tempt me and not expect me to come back

I'm just waiting a few days for her to respond, and then I'll just drift back into not caring and wait until next year's great opportunity because that's about how often they come around.  Unless I can make something of those other two that have been around atm

_j5689_ wrote:

burnzz wrote:

inb4_j5689_

Aw damn

Sike, I already saw it

You can't tempt me and not expect me to come back

I'm just waiting a few days for her to respond, and then I'll just drift back into not caring and wait until next year's great opportunity because that's about how often they come around.  Unless I can make something of those other two that have been around atm

Instead of posting every single thought you have on the topic, post WHEN something happens. People are getting pretty over it tbh.

This is the "girl problems" thread. Not the "I wanna start a blog about a girl I met once" thread.

Last edited by Jaekus (2011-02-06 21:08:53)

If she understood and let it go that you cheated on her, I'm sure she'll forgive you for that.

FFLink wrote:

If she understood and let it go that you cheated on her, I'm sure she'll forgive you for that.

i didn't cheat on her, we weren't officially together over xmas and we were both still involved with other people (she was involved with this ex flame i started on- that's the whole point). i really like her and we're really good together... it is literally totally inexplicable why i did it. ever been drunk and just gone to a bad place, or ended up acting out of character? the drink just turned your personality nasty or sour or anti-social? it was just like that. it's not an excuse - far from - and yeah im taking responsibility for it. feel fucking awful because, contrary to my bf2s persona, im just a nice social guy in real life. really shocked myself that i was so out of order and belligerent. woke up with one of those "oooh fuck, what happened last night?" thoughts and she was lay in bed next to me, looking angry even in her sleep. haha. such a mess. just one of those sadistic, masochistic moods where your head seems intent on ruining shit for yourself; like it's a game, or as if you're going to get some sort of twisted pleasure out of putting yourself in such a difficult situation. i've done it to myself a few times before in the past... equally baffled then as now.

Last edited by Uzique (2011-02-08 05:23:33)

That type of drunk is never good, started ranting at some of my best friends before about religion for almost an entire night, fuck knows why I did it but it pissed everyone off. Also just pushed over some guy in a bar/club once because he was dancing with my friend and I just didn't like it for some reason.
Like you said, all you can do is apologise and explain you don't know where it came from.