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Uzique wrote:

fun fact: the last ever recorded duel with a fatality happened in the village im living in now

not-so-fun-but-equally-factual: if a girl is talking to you about marriage in highschool, she's fucking nuts and you should avoid her

nice guys finish last and competition sucks, so you've either gotta be a bastard, break some codes and seize it, or let it slide

your call

well, when she said that, it didn't seem like she was proposing at all.  we were just discussing relationships and it wasn't weird at all imo.  not like the last girl who liked me who said wouldn't it be great if we got married.

anyway, I used to be a doormat 2 years ago but I learned my lesson from that haha.  now I just act like a nice guy without being a desperate noob and just having fun and flirting at the same time.  is it possible that this girl doesn't know that I like her in a relationship type of way?  that's sort of what it looks like to me but I'm not sure how I should let her know I'm interested.  I don't want to just go out and say it because she does have a boyfriend and I respect that.  we can sit and talk for hours, we flirt, we cuddle, weve slept together (not sex lol).  she likes to be around me I like to be around her etc.  I feel like she would wasn't to be in a relationship with me but maybe I'm just completely wrong.

HaiBai wrote:

Uzique wrote:

fun fact: the last ever recorded duel with a fatality happened in the village im living in now

not-so-fun-but-equally-factual: if a girl is talking to you about marriage in highschool, she's fucking nuts and you should avoid her

nice guys finish last and competition sucks, so you've either gotta be a bastard, break some codes and seize it, or let it slide

your call

well, when she said that, it didn't seem like she was proposing at all.  we were just discussing relationships and it wasn't weird at all imo.  not like the last girl who liked me who said wouldn't it be great if we got married.

anyway, I used to be a doormat 2 years ago but I learned my lesson from that haha.  now I just act like a nice guy without being a desperate noob and just having fun and flirting at the same time.  is it possible that this girl doesn't know that I like her in a relationship type of way?  that's sort of what it looks like to me but I'm not sure how I should let her know I'm interested.  I don't want to just go out and say it because she does have a boyfriend and I respect that.  we can sit and talk for hours, we flirt, we cuddle, weve slept together (not sex lol).  she likes to be around me I like to be around her etc.  I feel like she would wasn't to be in a relationship with me but maybe I'm just completely wrong.

She already knows...and she is eating it up.  Don't do anything about it. She has a boyfriend...stop pursuing the unvailable.

Adams_BJ wrote:

Lai wrote:

Cybargs wrote:

nice guys finish last.

You know the guy that ran the original marathon? He finished first, then dropped dead.

Spoiler (highlight to read):
Seriously though I am not getting your point here. You are repeating yourself. I am trying to explain that the concept of nice guy does not have to refer to the classic shy "nice" guy who is simply passive. There is a lot better than and inbetween Alan and Charlie Harper

..but he won

Oh yeah, forgot to mention: he was the only one running.

if you are not" chasing" her why did you "give up" on her? sounds like you like her alot

side note:
Horrible online dating stories
http://jezebel.com/5696882/horrible-onl … you-single

everything is always so over-complicated and convoluted in high-school

just have fun. stop stressing. it's never worth it.

Adams_BJ wrote:

have sex. if youve never had sex, youre gunna suck. but who cares about the woman cameraman anyway

fixt.

party like a rock star, hammer like a porn star

Look just say this "Get yer tits out!"

its not going to feel forced, but since she has a boyfriend im not going to ask her out to dinner or something like that.  we live about 45 minutes away from each other, its not like i can just go to her house and be like whats up

in these late night conversations.. were you talking about her bf? 'helping' her out?

I'd probably side with Uzi in this seems like she just waits for something better to come along all the time. What's to say it won't happen to you?

wah1188 wrote:

Can her bf have you in a fight?

i hope he fights me, then i won't look like an ass and i have an excuse to kill him

wah1188 wrote:

I'd probably side with Uzi in this seems like she just waits for something better to come along all the time. What's to say it won't happen to you?

well shes been going out with the same dude for 2 and a half years so....

Uzique wrote:

HaiBai wrote:

its not going to feel forced, but since she has a boyfriend im not going to ask her out to dinner or something like that.  we live about 45 minutes away from each other, its not like i can just go to her house and be like whats up

and why are you really bothering with a girl that lives 1hr away when you can't drive?

forget about it. have fun whilst you can. not as if 'waiting around' for a girl in your teenage years is worth a damn

i know what you mean, but in this case im not in it just to get into her pants.  when im with her everything just seems so natural and we can talk for hours and hours and its just different.  i cant really describe it.  we should both be able to be drive but we were both late in taking drivers ed so we both have about another 6 months 

Wait how old are you? Fuck it doesn't matter just read the post where this all started. Don't make her your only option, some girls just say shit for attention. Women love to be wanted, I was going to say chased but that sounds wrong.

Last edited by wah1188 (2010-11-26 21:42:05)

Don't be a jerk and try to steal someone else's girl.  Not cool. 

Why would you want to make her life harder by introducing that kinda drama into her relationship? Kinda selfish, dude. tbh