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Cybargs wrote:

shy people are awkward to be around.

Obsessing about a particular girl, and whether or not she likes you, is the KISS OF DEATH! If you're worrying about whether a girl likes you or not, chances are she doesn't - or rather, SHE WON'T. She won't because your worry and your obsession with what she thinks of you will actually push her away. When you let yourself fall into the obsession trap, you begin to analyze everything your dream girl does, every word she says, every move she makes and try to relate them all to you. She smiled at you - she didn't smile at you. She emailed you - she didn't email you. She returned your call - she didn't return your call. Confusion, frustration, and anxiety result.

And not just for you. If she comes to know that you're obsessing about her, she will also know, that you'll be analysing her every move in relation to you. Which will invariably make her uncomfortable. She can't be herself anymore, she can't relax and feel free in your proximity or company. Knowing that you're obsessing, she will feel anxiety, discomfort and maybe even fear when you're around. And on all occasions, she will want to get away, further away from the source of her anxiety, further away from you.

Well, but there's this rather slight and slim possibility, that she's also obsessing about you, right? I mean, people sometimes do end up with people who have initially been obsessed about them, and they live happily ever after, right? Yeah right, in fairy-tales they do. In real life however, if you want her, do something, anything, preferably of course something suggested elsewhere in this guide, and quick. But once you let yourself become obsessed and act under the influence of that - you're doomed. And this is also where the standard ASF suggestion of spend some intimite time with ten other girls before you get back to this special girl again stems from. Because once you're accomplished that, you'll ease up on the obsession, you will feel relaxed and comfortable (and as moods are contagious, so will she), she in turn will be more comfortable about getting close to you, and now that you're filled with calm confidence (heck, even if she doesn't dig me enuff, I've just been with ten girl and can get laid at will anyway, so let's just have fun with this) you will be able to handle her more proficiently etc.

^*AlphA*^ wrote:

Cybargs wrote:

^*AlphA*^ wrote:

depends what kind of "shy"

ones who never talk first and give short replies.

all about personality, if somebody is shy and boring after, then yes. you get that

but you also got shy people and when you get to know them, turn out really cool, who talk the ears off your head.

Superior Mind wrote:

How to woo a female:

1. Greet her with a "Hey, Sweetness."
2. Say "mmm" as you look her up and down.
3. Smack your lips.
4. ???
5. Hot sex.

Kimmmmmmmmmmmm wrote:

Cybargs wrote:

white man moving to asia = instant poon.

ban

.Sup wrote:

when you come to Asia you feel like a rockstar

Superior Mind wrote:

How to woo a female:

1. Greet her with a "Hey, Sweetness."
2. Say "mmm" as you look her up and down.
3. Smack your lips.
4. ???
5. Hot sex.

Camm wrote:

I thought break-ups were supposed to get easier with time

Camm wrote:

Cybargs wrote:

Camm wrote:

I thought break-ups were supposed to get easier with time

no they just make you want to kys until you found someone else.

I dont so much want to kms, this is killing me enough