got one of those too!tuckergustav wrote:
burnzz wrote:
thank god i've got a dork . . .
Dorky women ARE the best.
wait...what? I'm all confused now...burnzz wrote:
got one of those too!tuckergustav wrote:
burnzz wrote:
thank god i've got a dork . . .
Dorky women ARE the best.
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Tip: The vast majority of the girls aged puberty to 29 have not a fucking clue what they're on about. They are reacting to the whims of the moment, what they think the people around them think of them, and whatever their hormone level is that day. They do not make any predictable sense at least until the age of 30.
If you manage to find the odd girl that behaves consistently, answers straight questions with straight answers, doesn't live in a cesspool of self-inflicted drama, and shows up on time when and where she says she'll be - hang on to her, as a friend or girlfriend.
Don't be a jackass, but don't be a pushover. Be yourself. If she wants some guy that'll do stupid tricks to impress her - fuck off, next!. If she doesn't like you as you, move on to the next girl.
Girls tend to be self-conscious and unsure of themselves, even if they don't show it. They tend to be attracted to guys who are self-confident and self-assured. If you can manage to be that guy, without being an egotistical Douche4Life that treats a girl like crap - you'll do fine.
TL:DR version - don't overthink it. Say "Hi", be polite, be yourself, talk straight, look at their eyes and really understand what they're saying (verbally and non-verbally). If they're not interested, be polite, and be on your way.
You're talking to a girl, not trying to defuse an atomic bomb.
If you manage to find the odd girl that behaves consistently, answers straight questions with straight answers, doesn't live in a cesspool of self-inflicted drama, and shows up on time when and where she says she'll be - hang on to her, as a friend or girlfriend.
Don't be a jackass, but don't be a pushover. Be yourself. If she wants some guy that'll do stupid tricks to impress her - fuck off, next!. If she doesn't like you as you, move on to the next girl.
Girls tend to be self-conscious and unsure of themselves, even if they don't show it. They tend to be attracted to guys who are self-confident and self-assured. If you can manage to be that guy, without being an egotistical Douche4Life that treats a girl like crap - you'll do fine.
TL:DR version - don't overthink it. Say "Hi", be polite, be yourself, talk straight, look at their eyes and really understand what they're saying (verbally and non-verbally). If they're not interested, be polite, and be on your way.
You're talking to a girl, not trying to defuse an atomic bomb.
it's ok, i'm married. i have a dork, and a dorky woman.
[she can see my FB, but not ma bf2s ]
[she can see my FB, but not ma bf2s ]
yeah...truerdx-fx wrote:
Tip: The vast majority of the girls aged puberty to 29 have not a fucking clue what they're on about. They are reacting to the whims of the moment, what they think the people around them think of them, and whatever their hormone level is that day. They do not make any predictable sense at least until the age of 30.
If you manage to find the odd girl that behaves consistently, answers straight questions with straight answers, doesn't live in a cesspool of self-inflicted drama, and shows up on time when and where she says she'll be - hang on to her, as a friend or girlfriend.
Don't be a jackass, but don't be a pushover. Be yourself. If she wants some guy that'll do stupid tricks to impress her - fuck off, next!. If she doesn't like you as you, move on to the next girl.
Girls tend to be self-conscious and unsure of themselves, even if they don't show it. They tend to be attracted to guys who are self-confident and self-assured. If you can manage to be that guy, without being an egotistical Douche4Life that treats a girl like crap - you'll do fine.
TL:DR version - don't overthink it. Say "Hi", be polite, be yourself, talk straight, look at their eyes and really understand what they're saying (verbally and non-verbally). If they're not interested, be polite, and be on your way.
You're talking to a girl, not trying to defuse an atomic bomb.
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I'm certainly an egotistical douche, I'd like to think I don't completely treat girls like crap though.rdx-fx wrote:
Girls tend to be self-conscious and unsure of themselves, even if they don't show it. They tend to be attracted to guys who are self-confident and self-assured. If you can manage to be that guy, without being an egotistical Douche4Life that treats a girl like crap - you'll do fine.
rdx-fx wrote:
If you manage to find the odd girl that behaves consistently, answers straight questions with straight answers, doesn't live in a cesspool of self-inflicted drama, and shows up on time when and where she says she'll be - she's probably a dude.
burnzz wrote:
it's ok, i'm married. i have a dork, and a dorky woman.
[she can see my FB, but not ma bf2s ]
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If the guy is worth it, they will break every damn rule in their book without blinking.ghettoperson wrote:
Hmmm, I knew that was the case, but I figured it had to be more than going out to dinner once, they had to actually be seeing each other for a while. Although actually most girls are whores, and ignore these rules.
Edit: if they know they have competition, they will break those rules faster to beat the other girl
Last edited by rdx-fx (2010-05-27 17:43:29)
well, Tetn1s...I guess it all comes down to this...
She's just not that into you. Don't waste all your time analyzing it and trying to set up some situation in which you will "win her over"...find someone who is that into you...
She's just not that into you. Don't waste all your time analyzing it and trying to set up some situation in which you will "win her over"...find someone who is that into you...
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This true pimp knows how to get inside the pants of a lady.rdx-fx wrote:
Tip: The vast majority of the girls aged puberty to 29 have not a fucking clue what they're on about. They are reacting to the whims of the moment, what they think the people around them think of them, and whatever their hormone level is that day. They do not make any predictable sense at least until the age of 30.
If you manage to find the odd girl that behaves consistently, answers straight questions with straight answers, doesn't live in a cesspool of self-inflicted drama, and shows up on time when and where she says she'll be - hang on to her, as a friend or girlfriend.
Don't be a jackass, but don't be a pushover. Be yourself. If she wants some guy that'll do stupid tricks to impress her - fuck off, next!. If she doesn't like you as you, move on to the next girl.
Girls tend to be self-conscious and unsure of themselves, even if they don't show it. They tend to be attracted to guys who are self-confident and self-assured. If you can manage to be that guy, without being an egotistical Douche4Life that treats a girl like crap - you'll do fine.
TL:DR version - don't overthink it. Say "Hi", be polite, be yourself, talk straight, look at their eyes and really understand what they're saying (verbally and non-verbally). If they're not interested, be polite, and be on your way.
You're talking to a girl, not trying to defuse an atomic bomb.
see sig for details on my level of agreementrdx-fx wrote:
Tip: The vast majority of the girls aged puberty to 29 have not a fucking clue what they're on about. They are reacting to the whims of the moment, what they think the people around them think of them, and whatever their hormone level is that day. They do not make any predictable sense at least until the age of 30.
If you manage to find the odd girl that behaves consistently, answers straight questions with straight answers, doesn't live in a cesspool of self-inflicted drama, and shows up on time when and where she says she'll be - hang on to her, as a friend or girlfriend.
Don't be a jackass, but don't be a pushover. Be yourself. If she wants some guy that'll do stupid tricks to impress her - fuck off, next!. If she doesn't like you as you, move on to the next girl.
Girls tend to be self-conscious and unsure of themselves, even if they don't show it. They tend to be attracted to guys who are self-confident and self-assured. If you can manage to be that guy, without being an egotistical Douche4Life that treats a girl like crap - you'll do fine.
TL:DR version - don't overthink it. Say "Hi", be polite, be yourself, talk straight, look at their eyes and really understand what they're saying (verbally and non-verbally). If they're not interested, be polite, and be on your way.
You're talking to a girl, not trying to defuse an atomic bomb.
RDX doesn't post enough, I like that guy.
Well said, RDX.
Fuck bitches.
So I had a very nice conversation via MSN with the girl I like. We spoke about relationships. Then she asked me if I had anybody in mind. She knows I like her so I was surprised she asked that. I said I didn't want to talk about it and she asked why.
I replied with, "The girl I like is amazing, and I wouldn't want to lose my friendship with her over something stupid."
Then I asked her what she thought about relationships and she said she wasn't ready to have a boyfriend at the moment. Sucks to be me.
I replied with, "The girl I like is amazing, and I wouldn't want to lose my friendship with her over something stupid."
Then I asked her what she thought about relationships and she said she wasn't ready to have a boyfriend at the moment. Sucks to be me.
And above your tomb, the stars will belong to us.
Shit answer.
Hope she is giving you real pics of herself and not some other broad.
Well if it's such a shit answer what should I have said?
And above your tomb, the stars will belong to us.
Something casual and jokey and not something that makes it sound like you lurk in your bedroom thinking about her every night obviously.-Sh1fty- wrote:
Well if it's such a shit answer what should I have said?
this.I'm Jamesey wrote:
Something casual and jokey and not something that makes it sound like you lurk in your bedroom thinking about her every night obviously.-Sh1fty- wrote:
Well if it's such a shit answer what should I have said?
fuck dude even when she gives you a shit answer, don't despair. This relationship is about you as well. If you are convinced you like her 100%, then prove it to yourself and to her. Don't ever back-pedal from a potential boyfriend to just a friend....it shows a lack of confidence. Women are always ready just you have to observe and court them properly. Strengthen your conviction and fire off your guns (not literally) affection and if she still rejects you, time to go looking elsewhere.-Sh1fty- wrote:
Well if it's such a shit answer what should I have said?
No I'm not back pedalling, I'm still trying to go out on a date with her. I'm just saying it could be shit cause she isn't "Ready", but I'm determined on changing her mind.
And above your tomb, the stars will belong to us.
"I'm not ready for a boyfriend" means "I don't want to date you".
Move on.
Move on.
Persuade her she is ready for a boyfriend by being fucking awesome.