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why are you spending the night at home and not there with her?

The early bird gets the worm. He made his move first. Sorry shifty.

Spend the night there then sneak down to her floor ya dolt.

mcminty wrote:

Lai wrote:

Sh1fty, lower your expectations and don't focus on the girl too much. Try to have a good time at the camp in general, if you focus on the girl too much and it fails you'll look back and find you have let pass what could have been a nice four days with mates.

tbfh

qft

Lots of lube and gentle pressure.

Gah, I don't think I could be with someone who doesn't know how to use ironic properly...

it is flattering to women when you literally chase after them so go put some pants on and beat feet.

I was talking to this Junior girl about 15 minutes ago over Facebook about the prom(happening tonight and right now) and asked why she didn't go, she said cuz she wanted to wait till senior year to take it all in and then she asked me why I didn't go and I said cuz I don't dance and wouldn't have had that close of friends to go with and I heard that makes it suck and also that I'm starting to regret it a little but will get over it.  And then I apologized for saying so much cuz it was on her status and stuff.

And then she said I was fine and reminded me how everybody I grew up with and stuff would be there, and then I explained how I am starting to realize that but at the time when they were selling tickets it didn't occur to me because I was failing then and I joked about how they should've sold tickets longer

I said that there's also beach week but that's for all those people that smoke and get wasted all the time and I said I don't do that, even if I look like I do according to a lot of people.

She never responded, did I do anything wrong?  I've been especially conscious about this shit again because I don't know if it's going to get that much better in college now that it's so much closer

Last edited by _j5689_ (2010-05-14 18:18:27)

Bevo wrote:

don't think so much

just do

As I said before, it doesn't happen that way.  Gotta use logic in place of instincts because the insticts are broken

Bevo wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

Bevo wrote:

don't think so much

just do

As I said before, it doesn't happen that way.  Gotta use logic in place of instincts because the insticts are broken

just do and then react. trial by fire. gotta fuck up to move on, so stop placing your big toe in the water and just jump in

ed: at the least watch what other people do. that guy who gets all the girls - what does he do? do you do the same things? what's similar, can you change it? how do others handle these situations?

i've had little to no actual relationship/dating experience, but I know plenty enough about it. I stuck my hand in the fire, just like everyone else. made my mistakes, learned how to deal. watched how others handled it.

So I pretty much have to keep blatantly fucking up and saying probably really stupid stuff?

That's why I need input on this is to tell if it's a fuckup or not so I know what to say and what not to say, that's the major thing I think.  I almost didn't say anything to her at all.

Last edited by _j5689_ (2010-05-14 18:36:30)

Bevo wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

So I pretty much have to keep blatantly fucking up and saying probably really stupid stuff?

yes

if it goes badly- adapt, learn.

That's why I need input on this is to tell if it's a fuckup or not so I know what to say and what not to say, that's the major thing I think.  I almost didn't say anything to her at all.

you have to learn that on your own

I can't get any help?  I'll honestly overthink it till the cows come home trying to figure out where I went wrong and it just ends up making me more cautious.

Shit, I can't even approach a girl let alone say the right things to them.

Bevo wrote:

_j5689_ wrote:

I can't get any help?  I'll honestly overthink it till the cows come home trying to figure out where I went wrong and it just ends up making me more cautious.

Shit, I can't even approach a girl let alone say the right things to them.

help is just a crutch (and a poor one, at that), it's much better if you experience it first hand, so that you know how to act appropriately when the time comes and don't have to ask anyone.

you cant be so afraid to fail because it's inevitable. you HAVE to fail. you WILL fail. they're steps to progress

So true.