American University Erupts Over Date Rape

2010-04-04 19:04:12

#1

Marlo Stanfield: online poker tax cheating; +122|5449

Girls Who Get Drunk at Frat Parties 'Responsible' For Date Rape, Says Student Newspaper

Today begins Sexual Abuse Awareness and Prevention month -- and American University is in an uproar over an anti-feminist diatribe in the student newspaper charging that some women who survive date rape invited it.

"Let's get this straight: any woman who heads to an EI [fraternity] party as an anonymous onlooker, drinks five cups of the jungle juice, and walks back to a boy's room with him is indicating that she wants sex, OK?" columnist Alex Knepper, 20, wrote in the Eagle, the school paper.

"To cry 'date rape' after you sober up the next morning and regret the incident is the equivalent of pulling a gun to someone's head and then later claiming that you didn't ever actually intend to pull the trigger," he said.

The column -- "Dealing With AU's Anti-Sex Brigade" -- sparked a backlash and nearly 300 online comments on the newspaper's Web site, chastising the Eagle for being "open-facedly offensive" and publishing a "slap in the face to so many women, and men, in our generation."

Students bombarded the Eagle's office, gathering the March 28 issue from dispensaries and stacking them outside the door. More protests were planned today as letters to the editor poured in to the newspaper.

Others from American's Community Action for Social Justice Coalition (CASJC) hung a sign: "No room for rape apologists."

http://abcnews.go.com/Health/MindMoodNe … d=10254150
Alright sure rape is not cool and all but do you think that the kid has a it of a point that sometimes girls bring it on themselves?

2010-04-04 19:09:01

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blademaster: I'm moving to Brazil; +2,075|6931

hmmm reminds me of all those "college fuckfest" videos on interwebz where chicks in college arebanged by some guys at some party ... maybe they later realize oh fuck everyone is gonna see this shit I better sue em for RAPE or some shit ... or I might be wrong...

2010-04-04 19:11:45

#3

mtb0minime: minimember; +2,418|6940

Yes, those college girls bring it upon themselves because they're attention-seeking sluts.

Sounds like a sarcastic troll post but it's not. It's the truth.

Anyone remember the Duke lacrosse team?

Last edited by mtb0minime (2010-04-04 19:12:51)

2010-04-04 19:12:23

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Poseidon: Fudgepack DeQueef; +3,253|6823|Long Island, New York

Makes me think of the girls who wear incredibly low v-necks and then give you dirty looks when they catch you looking.

Although I'm always reminded: Boobs are like the sun. Look for a second and you're in the clear. Stare too long and it might hurt.

2010-04-04 19:12:55

#5

eleven bravo: Member; +1,399|5545|foggy bottom

blademaster wrote:
hmmm reminds me of all those "college fuckfest" videos on interwebz where chicks in college arebanged by some guys at some party ... maybe they later realize oh fuck everyone is gonna see this shit I better sue em for RAPE or some shit ... or I might be wrong...

all those chicks were porn actresses

Tu Stultus Es

2010-04-04 19:13:48

#6

Marlo Stanfield: online poker tax cheating; +122|5449

eleven bravo wrote:
blademaster wrote:
hmmm reminds me of all those "college fuckfest" videos on interwebz where chicks in college arebanged by some guys at some party ... maybe they later realize oh fuck everyone is gonna see this shit I better sue em for RAPE or some shit ... or I might be wrong...
all those chicks were porn actresses

2010-04-04 19:16:22

#7

blademaster: I'm moving to Brazil; +2,075|6931

eleven bravo wrote:
blademaster wrote:
hmmm reminds me of all those "college fuckfest" videos on interwebz where chicks in college arebanged by some guys at some party ... maybe they later realize oh fuck everyone is gonna see this shit I better sue em for RAPE or some shit ... or I might be wrong...
all those chicks were porn actresses

lol yeah from that site... there are others where real chicks get to business...

Last edited by blademaster (2010-04-04 19:18:30)

2010-04-04 19:23:44

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Hurricane2k9: Pendulous Sweaty Balls; +1,538|5987|College Park, MD

the kid looks like a 4chan troll

https://a.abcnews.com/images/US/ht_knepper_100331_mn.jpg

Anyway, there are multiple parts to the college date rape problem. Men should know that in many states, the law says that being under the influence of alcohol nullifies consent. She might be saying 'give it to me big boy' but if she can't walk straight and she's slurring her words, it can still be considered rape.

Women also need to be cautious. I wouldn't walk around the worst parts of town listening to my iPod at 2AM. Why would you go and get drunk at a party? I'm not blaming them, but a very simple precautionary measure (not getting drunk) pretty much kills any chance of one being a victim of date rape.

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2010-04-04 19:28:53

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blademaster: I'm moving to Brazil; +2,075|6931

Hurricane2k9 wrote:
Women also need to be cautious. I wouldn't walk around the worst parts of town listening to my iPod at 2AM. Why would you go and get drunk at a party? I'm not blaming them, but a very simple precautionary measure (not getting drunk) pretty much kills any chance of one being a victim of date rape.

dont mean to be rude or anything, but its the 21 century women are very promiscuous these days.... or not all of em but certainly there are more than there were 50 years ago or so ...

2010-04-04 19:39:05

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Winston_Churchill: Bazinga!; +521|7025|Toronto | Canada

Yeah, thats just dumb. Getting drunk at a frat and going up to a guys room... and you werent planning on having sex with him? If she thinks she seriously has a case there must be more to the story

2010-04-04 19:40:29

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mtb0minime: minimember; +2,418|6940

She's just mad she got fucked by an ugly one and not a hot one.

2010-04-04 19:46:25

#12

Jay: Bork! Bork! Bork!; +2,006|5644|London, England

No one puts a gun to their head and forces them to drink. They know the consequences of drinking and don't have a leg to stand on when crying rape the next day. What if the guy is drunk? Does he get to claim date rape too?

"Ah, you miserable creatures! You who think that you are so great! You who judge humanity to be so small! You who wish to reform everything! Why don't you reform yourselves? That task would be sufficient enough."
-Frederick Bastiat

2010-04-04 19:53:33

#13

BVC: Member; +325|6981

Is leading a guy on a form of sexual harrassment?

2010-04-04 20:03:22

#14

eleven bravo: Member; +1,399|5545|foggy bottom

I didnt know roofies were so popular here

Tu Stultus Es

2010-04-04 20:05:15

#15

mtb0minime: minimember; +2,418|6940

http://bash.org/?24

<ckx> women ask for it
<ckx> they act all old and mature
<ckx> and then you stick your cock up their ass
<ckx> and they get all bitchy
<ckx> "I"M ONLY 13, I'M ONLY 13!!!"

2010-04-04 20:06:09

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Winston_Churchill: Bazinga!; +521|7025|Toronto | Canada

JohnG@lt wrote:
What if the guy is drunk? Does he get to claim date rape too?

I love how that is never an issue. If the guy was just as drunk as the chick why does she get to claim rape? He should say she raped him...

2010-04-04 20:32:04

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DesertFox-: The very model of a modern major general; +796|6970|United States of America

If you read the whole article, it's a rather interesting subject. One part I found particularly true was: "Of course men have to behave themselves," he said. "These are freedoms women have fought for -- the same opportunities and ability to go into these sexual realms. But they have the same risk and responsibilities.

"There is a pattern of infantilizing women," he said. "If they have too much to drink and do something stupid, they still have to be responsible for their actions."

I don't think anyone is saying she deserved it, but she is for damn sure not a blameless victim here. No one is condoning rape or taking advantage of women, but whenever the issue of rape comes up it is always those horrible, brutish men who get punished.

2010-04-04 22:18:24

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Cybargs: Moderated; +2,285|7002

Winston_Churchill wrote:
JohnG@lt wrote:
What if the guy is drunk? Does he get to claim date rape too?
I love how that is never an issue. If the guy was just as drunk as the chick why does she get to claim rape? He should say she raped him...

I almost got date raped in that sense then. Make the law equal lel.

Well if you put yourself in a situation where you get so drunk and shag a random bloke, it's your fault really and you're just being a poof about it.

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2010-04-04 22:20:00

#19

Turquoise: O Canada; +1,596|6691|North Carolina

Winston_Churchill wrote:
JohnG@lt wrote:
What if the guy is drunk? Does he get to claim date rape too?
I love how that is never an issue. If the guy was just as drunk as the chick why does she get to claim rape? He should say she raped him...

Pretty much...

Women say they want equality, but in practice, it's usually favoritism they want -- like in custody laws, for example.

My personal favorites are the ones who claim to be feminist but still expect all the traditional niceties for women that were attached to our culture before feminism.

But yeah, when it comes to rape, it's usually a woman's word against a guy's, and thanks to rape shield laws, her history can't be used against her -- even if it is relevant.

2010-04-06 12:48:33

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Ticia: Member; +73|5621

There's a huge difference between being a little tipsy and being close to an alcoholic coma. Guys who fuck these girls are nothing but assholes that can't get a sober woman in bed.

2010-04-06 12:59:38

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RTHKI: mmmf mmmf mmmf; +1,743|7023|Cinncinatti

Except when the guy is also drunk off his ass, right? A little drunk and he could probably stop himself, but not so much to where he remembers nothing he did the previous day..
So how drunk was the guy?

2010-04-06 13:05:31

#22

ghettoperson: Member; +1,943|6935

mtb0minime wrote:
Yes, those college girls bring it upon themselves because they're attention-seeking sluts.

Sounds like a sarcastic troll post but it's not. It's the truth.

Anyone remember the Duke lacrosse team?

Lacrosstitutes.

2010-04-06 13:12:46

#23

=NHB=Shadow: hi; +322|6651|California

partyyy

2010-04-06 13:14:28

#24

lowing: Banned; +1,662|6937|USA

Marlo Stanfield wrote:
Girls Who Get Drunk at Frat Parties 'Responsible' For Date Rape, Says Student Newspaper
Today begins Sexual Abuse Awareness and Prevention month -- and American University is in an uproar over an anti-feminist diatribe in the student newspaper charging that some women who survive date rape invited it.

"Let's get this straight: any woman who heads to an EI [fraternity] party as an anonymous onlooker, drinks five cups of the jungle juice, and walks back to a boy's room with him is indicating that she wants sex, OK?" columnist Alex Knepper, 20, wrote in the Eagle, the school paper.

"To cry 'date rape' after you sober up the next morning and regret the incident is the equivalent of pulling a gun to someone's head and then later claiming that you didn't ever actually intend to pull the trigger," he said.

The column -- "Dealing With AU's Anti-Sex Brigade" -- sparked a backlash and nearly 300 online comments on the newspaper's Web site, chastising the Eagle for being "open-facedly offensive" and publishing a "slap in the face to so many women, and men, in our generation."

Students bombarded the Eagle's office, gathering the March 28 issue from dispensaries and stacking them outside the door. More protests were planned today as letters to the editor poured in to the newspaper.

Others from American's Community Action for Social Justice Coalition (CASJC) hung a sign: "No room for rape apologists."
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/MindMoodNe … d=10254150
Alright sure rape is not cool and all but do you think that the kid has a it of a point that sometimes girls bring it on themselves?

Enough reasonable doubt as to NOT proceed with charges against the accused.

This guy should not be scape goated in an effort for her to spare her reputation, or her "family honor"

Last edited by lowing (2010-04-06 13:16:32)

2010-04-06 13:19:04

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ghettoperson: Member; +1,943|6935

And btw, unlike how Marlo phrased it, it's not 'bringing it on themselves'. I don't buy that, it's like the argument that girls in short skirts shouldn't be surprised when they get raped. In this case they're the willing partners, if not the instigators, because they had to much to drink and want to get laid whilst forgetting about their boyfriend at home/chastity ring. Yes, some girls are taken advantage of because they're drunk out of their minds, but not most.

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