-Sh1fty- wrote:
I was thinking more like I could blackmail him.
On a side note, I forgot why we were snooping but thank God we did.
So, I should have a talk with him? Unfortunately he could snap my arms like a toothpick.
FFS how old are you? Sh1fty, do you want money out of this or your parents' lives to work out?
I assume the latter which in this case might mean they'll break up or it might mean they won't. It depends on a lot of factors and you can't tell at this stage. You talk to your dad four eyes, you don't have to tell him how you know, just that you do. He probably will be quite shocked and shamed about you finding out and might make up silly excuses, in which case you'll bring in your sister in reserve for leverage. Keep her in reserve unless absolutely required. You don't want to make your father feel any more uncomfortable, that is your mother's job. You don't need to make threats like "I will be telling mom if you don't". Just tell him that you know and give him some time to figure out what to do himself (which would be telling your mom). You'll notice soon enough if he has either way. If nothing happens and he hasn't stopped seeing the woman, then you'll have a second talk with him.
Engineer_Fox wrote:
Don't blackmail anybody, bad shit will hit you in the face.
My dad cheated on my mom and when I finally understood wtf was going on, I told my dad that when he isnt around, I'll tell mom. So I told her and she talked to my dad. 2 moths later, my parents seperated, I keyed her car, threw out a couple of windows, punched one of her sons and set the garden on fire.
The day after my dad came to my house and send me to a Internaat (sort of discipline school/military). Worst time of my life.
Point is, mind you're own business, when it comes down to it, handle it with dignity and respect.
Wouldn't that have been your mother's choice just as much then?