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I used to have no shame but I've grown up a bit in that regard.  When I was in and just out of high school I cheated on a few girlfriends I had.  I think one or two never found out, one I told when we got in an argument and she ended up breaking up with me right then and there (it was doomed anyway), one found out through one of her friends and I denied it 'til the day she crushed my heart.  That last one I still talk to fairly regularly and she got over it.

I have found that as I grow up, trust is less and less of an issue in relationships.  I used to get super jealous when dudes looked at my chick or when they would hang out with other dudes or even go out with their friends in social settings, but that got me nowhere and drove me crazy.  Making a relationship work is hard enough without driving yourself insane with your own insecurities.

Never cheated... yet.

I have never cheated. I hope I never will. In my view, it is a terrible thing to do. I'd never want to do that to my girl, no matter what. Even if our relationship falls apart in the future, I would not cheat on her. I have never cheated on past girlfriends either, not even a kiss.

i haven't had a girlfriend but if i do i will try to be loyal to her.

the way i see it, if you*re willing to sacrifice the time and effort with your significant other for a fuck, then you did give a fuck for your relationship. that's all you gave though - the relationship's over, you've already moved on. . .

=NHB=Shadow wrote:

While me and my ex were in a relationship, a few weeks later I went to la and had fun without telling her. lol.

lol that's messed up brah.

does it count if you know shes cheating on you?

eleven bravo wrote:

=NHB=Shadow wrote:

While me and my ex were in a relationship, a few weeks later I went to la and had fun without telling her. lol.

and while you were in la she was having her own fun

damn right!

To answer Ig; I will have been married ten years come July.

I was engaged to this hawt blonde German bitch. I do mean bitch. She slugged me in the face once.

Anyways, I was playing in an acoustic duo and my best friend asked me if I let people sit in with us. I said, generally no, but who is it?

It was his girl friend. I was also a serious rock climber atm, as was she.

She came to play with us one night. She walked in, our eyes met and I knew right then and there I was in trouble with both my bitch and my best friend.

My wife joined our act on violin, vox and percussion. One night we were getting stoned after a s how and we started kissing.

Two years later my son was born.

I meant, never screw someone elses wife. Bad.

LaidBackNinja wrote:

I have never cheated. I hope I never will. In my view, it is a terrible thing to do. I'd never want to do that to my girl, no matter what. Even if our relationship falls apart in the future, I would not cheat on her. I have never cheated on past girlfriends either, not even a kiss.

sums me up perfectly

i feel like a lot of people cheat because they don't have the balls to break up with their significant other.

have never done it, and don't see myself ever doing it


been cheated on multiple times though, shit sucks

Even if you're not married, you're being disingenuous if you cheat someone on the sly. It's still betrayal, and it should be a sign to you and your 'significant other' that you're not really ready to be honest with people. Seems like this is the way society is flowing, but I wouldn't stand for it.

/edit: fixed a grammar error. was tired when I posted

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