Macbeth
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If you go back home to your apartment early from work and find your girlfriend in bed with another man and you confront them and they guy starts to attack you so you go to the other room and get your handgun and shoot him once in the chest is that murder or self defense. Mind you he did attack you in your own apartment.

Sorta like in this music video starting at :39, is what I'm thinking about.



So murder or self defense?
13urnzz
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Macbeth wrote:

find your girlfriend in bed with another man
two birds with one stone.

you detail circumstances that could be argued as motive. you set up a scenario that could be argued as self-defence.
let us know how the jury treats you.
13rin
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Well, if he attacked you. 
Look and see if there is prior cases where similarities occurred and how the ruling was on that.

But catching a gf cheating?  Kick the slut to the curb.  It isn't like you're married there.  Ton's of other women out there.

*edit:

Was the cheater the witch or the good friend you tried to rape?

Last edited by DBBrinson1 (2009-10-20 13:41:48)

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Christbane
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he was invited into the house obviously.  you confronted him and he felt threatned so he could claim self defense also.  maybe he had no idea she was with someone?  to many what ifs involved here. if the shooter could not prove his life was at risk pretty sure you are looking at manslaughter
Macbeth
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I didn't kill anyone guys, I was just watching the video earlier and was wondering how police would treat something like this.
Jay
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+2,006|5645|London, England
In Texas you're within your rights to shoot him as a trespasser.
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Christbane
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lol  yes I realise you didnt kill anyone
mcgid1
Meh...
+129|7004|Austin, TX/San Antonio, TX
Tough question and it is different from state to state.

For the most part I'm going to go with 2nd degree murder for two reasons.  1) your girlfriend, who I'm assuming was living in the apartment at the time, let him in which could negate the castle doctrine of laws and 2) I'm going to assume that he was unarmed and the use of deadly force would be seen as an escalation on your part and not justified self defense.  In a state like Texas, you might be able to get away with self defense, because if someone is on your property and attacking you at all, then they are fair game period, but in most other states, I'm going to say no.
Christbane
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JohnG@lt wrote:

In Texas you're within your rights to shoot him as a trespasser.
not if your wife/gf invited him in... no tresspass there
Jay
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Christbane wrote:

JohnG@lt wrote:

In Texas you're within your rights to shoot him as a trespasser.
not if your wife/gf invited him in... no tresspass there
Worst you'll get is a seriously reduced sentence due to 'crime of passion'.
"Ah, you miserable creatures! You who think that you are so great! You who judge humanity to be so small! You who wish to reform everything! Why don't you reform yourselves? That task would be sufficient enough."
-Frederick Bastiat
mcgid1
Meh...
+129|7004|Austin, TX/San Antonio, TX

Christbane wrote:

JohnG@lt wrote:

In Texas you're within your rights to shoot him as a trespasser.
not if your wife/gf invited him in... no tresspass there
If he attacks you, he is fair game in Texas.
cpt.fass1
The Cap'n Can Make it Hap'n
+329|6983|NJ
I think that's a crime of passion, they'd have to pin motive before you shot him to make it murder, so maybe it'd be manslaughter(or mans laughter)..

I don't think it matters where it happens.. I also don't think him attacking you would have anything to do with it.
Chou
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Put a knife in his hand.
Agent_Dung_Bomb
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Mac, too many assumptions on your part.  What we don't know.

Was this actually his apartment?  If it was, why did he kick in the door?

If she didn't tell him that she had a boyfriend, he could have thought you were some psycho ex-BF.

Kind of stupid to bring up a self defense scenario from a music video.
Macbeth
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Agent_Dung_Bomb wrote:

Mac, too many assumptions on your part.  What we don't know.

Was this actually his apartment?  If it was, why did he kick in the door?

If she didn't tell him that she had a boyfriend, he could have thought you were some psycho ex-BF.

Kind of stupid to bring up a self defense scenario from a music video.
I figured it was his place because he knew where the gun was in the place that he was able to leave for a split second and get it.

About the door being kicked in, it's just more badass to kick the door in.
cpt.fass1
The Cap'n Can Make it Hap'n
+329|6983|NJ
Didn't watch the video, but the door being kicked in would probably make it man slaughter.. Because he knew they were there and kicked in the door= motivation.
Noobpatty
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+194|6641|West NY
I can't fucking stand that vocalist... and it's self defense under the normal circumstances...nothing changes except how more willing you are to shoot him.
henno13
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If I was in that situation, I would shoot him, mainly becasue he attacked me in my own home. Maybe also because he was banging my girl too. Anyway, I believe it warrants a self defence shooting. I mean, would you let some guy bang your girl and then kick the shit out of you after you walk in on it? What other things can you do?

Last edited by henno13 (2009-10-20 14:32:27)

Dilbert_X
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+1,817|6393|eXtreme to the maX
If it was your flat then maybe.
If its shared with your GF then she's entitled to have visitors, so its not simple.
Even if it is your flat and you allow your GF to come and go she's still allowed to have visitors.

Not sure about Texas but generally if you're able to break off and fetch your gun from another room then you could probably have left and called the Police just as easily.

As I understand it sleeping with some guys skank GF is not a capital crime.
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Hurricane2k9
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+1,538|5989|College Park, MD
I'd charge it as involuntary manslaughter if anything.
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RAIMIUS
You with the face!
+244|7002|US
You probably would NOT have a good case for self defense.  If he was not actively threatening/attacking you, your SD case has probably failed.  Since the guy left (to get the gun), he cannot claim self-defense, since he returned to shoot the other guy.

Manslaughter or murder charges...
DrunkFace
Germans did 911
+427|6968|Disaster Free Zone
You walk in, get in his face about it, so he pushes you, so you kill him. Murder.

Also when you GF/BF/Spouse is cheating on you, you take it up with them not the person they're cheating with.

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