drive over there wearing a diaper like that crazy former astronautBevo wrote:
For the most part they're going to somewhat fail like that. If it makes you feel any better, I've spent a while catching up with one of my classmates from elementary. I've since moved across the country. We get along real nice like, she looks great and enjoys talking to me as well. She's going to my second choice school. She's more compatible with me than any other girl I've ever met, but I can't do shit about it because she's 1600 miles away.
Drive 1600 miles.
Well, it's kind of just how I write, but I'll try.Uzique wrote:
Thank fuck for that because, my God, it's fucking annoying.
"I'd like to remedy such an annoying deficiency as expediently as possible"
You're talking about your life, you social asstard, not a mathematical equation. Turn down the 'Ostentatiousness' dial from 11 to a more believable 5.
Allthough at one point I had to do a lot of time in the "friend zone" myself, I don't think we should accept it as a real concrete phenomenon. "Friend zone" is a metaphore invented by disillusioned old-school romantics like me and some other guys that frequent this forum, trying to make some sense and to ascribe at least some basic definition to "!@#$%^&*() WTF just happened with that biatch?"._j5689_ wrote:
Another person I've talked to about the girl I like has brought it to my attention that I might even be stuck in the friend-zone already. I can't help but feel like I'm only going to keep doing that. This is the first time I'd have ever gotten in the friend-zone though and it's very depressing to think about: it's as though your failure is always going to be there to remind you of itself.
Is it really worth it to even bother with girls?
"Friend zone" is perhaps like space and should be approached with the same Einsteinian relativism. Space only exist by the mere existence of matter, there is no such thing as void outside of known space, because outside of known space the mere concept of existence doesn't apply. As soon as anyone or anything would "enter" the non existing void, or rather exit known space, known space would simply expand by virtue of that person of that object being there. Likewise "friend zone" only exist when you start thinking you're there.
The above may sound silly, but the way in which you regard matters are determining for the way you approach them and the attitude you take. Rather than worrying about how to not get stuck in the "friend zone" or how to get out of it, disregard it and consider your actions accordingly.
Regarding your final question:.. no, not really. The only reason to do so is when you realize too late and you're already to far to just let it go, other than that it is more of a pain in the ass. With all past loves and present love in the "doomed zone", I still do have some quite close female friends. Actually that suits me just fine. We go out on days, without me being saddled up with a pile o'crap the next day or so. Sure, they might need help as a friend occasionally, in which case I'll be there as a friend, but I aint taking no more shit.
Nah,.. we have Africa for that. They breed even faster than they commit fratercide.Uzique wrote:
for the continued survival of our species, yes...
In Soviet Russia, girl drives to you!Bevo wrote:
For the most part they're going to somewhat fail like that. If it makes you feel any better, I've spent a while catching up with one of my classmates from elementary. I've since moved across the country. We get along real nice like, she looks great and enjoys talking to me as well. She's going to my second choice school. She's more compatible with me than any other girl I've ever met, but I can't do shit about it because she's 1600 miles away.
Seriously though, I wish my girl lived that close. We might not be stuck in the "doomed zone".
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/facepalmUzique wrote:
Not really ironic is it when I don't talk anything like I type in real-life, and don't struggle to approach girls because of my awkwardness.
Go pretend to make posts from your imaginary girlfriend some more, shush up.
I am saying that it is ironic that you criticize someone how they type on the forums, yet you do the same. You just make an ass out of yourself assuming that he talks the same way that he types. Well how about I assume you suck dick by how retarded your bird nest looks.
Go fuck yourself.
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I'm beginning to think it's already done. I walked into a business room(lots computers) to fix an internet problem, turns out it was her class at the time, and she said to me that her internet works again and she was just about to call me. There wasn't much more to it than that, she didn't try to keep talking to me or even look at me but it's nice I guess that she can freely talk to me now.
Still I think it's definitely a friendly thing, and a small thing at that. It made me think about it again after I left the room and I felt a little bit sick to my stomach. Two years of time/pain, and all I get for it is occasional small conversation.
And from what everyone tells me, this kind of thing is inevitable in the world of girls. I don't even want to bother anymore, I just can't keep doing this. Props to you all that are successful, I hope it was worth it and I hope you don't take it for granted.
Still I think it's definitely a friendly thing, and a small thing at that. It made me think about it again after I left the room and I felt a little bit sick to my stomach. Two years of time/pain, and all I get for it is occasional small conversation.
And from what everyone tells me, this kind of thing is inevitable in the world of girls. I don't even want to bother anymore, I just can't keep doing this. Props to you all that are successful, I hope it was worth it and I hope you don't take it for granted.
oh come the hell on bro_j5689_ wrote:
I'm beginning to think it's already done. I walked into a business room(lots computers) to fix an internet problem, turns out it was her class at the time, and she said to me that her internet works again and she was just about to call me. There wasn't much more to it than that, she didn't try to keep talking to me or even look at me but it's nice I guess that she can freely talk to me now.
Still I think it's definitely a friendly thing, and a small thing at that. It made me think about it again after I left the room and I felt a little bit sick to my stomach. Two years of time/pain, and all I get for it is occasional small conversation.
And from what everyone tells me, this kind of thing is inevitable in the world of girls. I don't even want to bother anymore, I just can't keep doing this. Props to you all that are successful, I hope it was worth it and I hope you don't take it for granted.
you're going to give up after one attempt? You're never going to succeed with women if you don't try. That's like trying to, idk... get into college without filling out applications. It won't happen.
I don't want to work like that again and again and again for nothing. It feels like a waste. How can it possibly be worth it?Hurricane2k9 wrote:
oh come the hell on bro_j5689_ wrote:
I'm beginning to think it's already done. I walked into a business room(lots computers) to fix an internet problem, turns out it was her class at the time, and she said to me that her internet works again and she was just about to call me. There wasn't much more to it than that, she didn't try to keep talking to me or even look at me but it's nice I guess that she can freely talk to me now.
Still I think it's definitely a friendly thing, and a small thing at that. It made me think about it again after I left the room and I felt a little bit sick to my stomach. Two years of time/pain, and all I get for it is occasional small conversation.
And from what everyone tells me, this kind of thing is inevitable in the world of girls. I don't even want to bother anymore, I just can't keep doing this. Props to you all that are successful, I hope it was worth it and I hope you don't take it for granted.
you're going to give up after one attempt? You're never going to succeed with women if you don't try. That's like trying to, idk... get into college without filling out applications. It won't happen.
You're not gonna find out if you quit._j5689_ wrote:
How can it possibly be worth it?
No, I don't need an attitude adjustment. You just need to fuck off.
But she let you touch her dreads! Surely, that's a sign to keep going?_j5689_ wrote:
I don't want to work like that again and again and again for nothing. It feels like a waste. How can it possibly be worth it?Hurricane2k9 wrote:
oh come the hell on bro_j5689_ wrote:
I'm beginning to think it's already done. I walked into a business room(lots computers) to fix an internet problem, turns out it was her class at the time, and she said to me that her internet works again and she was just about to call me. There wasn't much more to it than that, she didn't try to keep talking to me or even look at me but it's nice I guess that she can freely talk to me now.
Still I think it's definitely a friendly thing, and a small thing at that. It made me think about it again after I left the room and I felt a little bit sick to my stomach. Two years of time/pain, and all I get for it is occasional small conversation.
And from what everyone tells me, this kind of thing is inevitable in the world of girls. I don't even want to bother anymore, I just can't keep doing this. Props to you all that are successful, I hope it was worth it and I hope you don't take it for granted.
you're going to give up after one attempt? You're never going to succeed with women if you don't try. That's like trying to, idk... get into college without filling out applications. It won't happen.
lmao, shut up and let that die alreadyJenspm wrote:
But she let you touch her dreads! Surely, that's a sign to keep going?_j5689_ wrote:
I don't want to work like that again and again and again for nothing. It feels like a waste. How can it possibly be worth it?Hurricane2k9 wrote:
oh come the hell on bro
you're going to give up after one attempt? You're never going to succeed with women if you don't try. That's like trying to, idk... get into college without filling out applications. It won't happen.
I would reply but I think I'm gonna say something else stupid, lol
You make a good point, or so many other people wouldn't keep trying.Eifa wrote:
You're not gonna find out if you quit._j5689_ wrote:
How can it possibly be worth it?
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tbh if i was you i'd just ask her out. you're not gonna find out if she likes you or not if you're not gonna do a thing about it._j5689_ wrote:
lmao, shut up and let that die alreadyJenspm wrote:
But she let you touch her dreads! Surely, that's a sign to keep going?_j5689_ wrote:
I don't want to work like that again and again and again for nothing. It feels like a waste. How can it possibly be worth it?
I would reply but I think I'm gonna say something else stupid, lolYou make a good point, or so many other people wouldn't keep trying.Eifa wrote:
You're not gonna find out if you quit._j5689_ wrote:
How can it possibly be worth it?
just my opinion tho.
No, I don't need an attitude adjustment. You just need to fuck off.
i mean. if you're ready to give up already then what have you got to lose? right?
No, I don't need an attitude adjustment. You just need to fuck off.
Her friendship due to awkwardness that I was not magically able to pick up some sort of "friends-only" message that a normal guy would be able to pick up, it gets awkward like every time that I ask her out.Eifa wrote:
i mean. if you're ready to give up already then what have you got to lose? right?
Not that a friendship with her would really mean shit anyway because if she's not interested in me, then I'm not gonna wanna see or hear about her with other guys if I can help it cuz I obviously can't get over her that easily. Like I said, I think occasional smalltalk appears to be the limit with this friendship.
Ask her out then. I would._j5689_ wrote:
Not that a friendship with her would really mean shit anyway.
No, I don't need an attitude adjustment. You just need to fuck off.
Whats the problem?Kez wrote:
Turns out a girl I like has a penis help guys!
Well basically I was checking her out and then I saw this bulge in her trousers and then I thought "Hang on a minute.."Winston_Churchill wrote:
Whats the problem?Kez wrote:
Turns out a girl I like has a penis help guys!
Suck it, TrebekKez wrote:
Turns out a girl I like has a penis help guys!
Knowing that there's nothing to lose doesn't seem to make it any easier to prep myself to do that. And this is all if I even really decide to actually want to do it.Eifa wrote:
Ask her out then. I would._j5689_ wrote:
Not that a friendship with her would really mean shit anyway.
I heard if a girl lets you touch her penis it almost means as much as letting you touch her dreds.
Well you can mix it up in the bedroom, go for it!Kez wrote:
Well basically I was checking her out and then I saw this bulge in her trousers and then I thought "Hang on a minute.."Winston_Churchill wrote:
Whats the problem?Kez wrote:
Turns out a girl I like has a penis help guys!
LMAOMiggle wrote:
I heard if a girl lets you touch her penis it almost means as much as letting you touch her dreds.
Lulz, Kez how much do you fancy her?Kez wrote:
Well basically I was checking her out and then I saw this bulge in her trousers and then I thought "Hang on a minute.."Winston_Churchill wrote:
Whats the problem?Kez wrote:
Turns out a girl I like has a penis help guys!
Or was it a random stranger?
Yeah guys I'm not sure, I don't really talk to this person much, but she ( .. or he?) is going to my College so I thought I'd say hello but now after this how can I possibly go near her.. or him!!!!!