notorious wrote:
FloppY_ wrote:
notorious wrote:
Yes, but you need to stop trying. It sounds weird, I know, but if you're really trying to meet someone, chances are good you're not being you. So if you meet someone who likes the confident, aggressive go-getter, and then you settle down a bit when she's with you, she might not like who you've become.
Just be yourself. You're still young...and there's still time. If you don't find "the one" this year, then obviously it wasn't meant to be.
I know, just so ronery Q_Q no girl for +2 years
Words of wisdom aye, would +1 again if I could
Dude, it happens. I met a girl I fell in love with, quit my job, and moved across the country for her. When we broke up, it sucked, but I realize now that if we had gotten married, I'd be so unhappy right now.
Now I'm of the mindset where I don't need a woman to make me happy. I hate relying on others to set or change my mood. Who cares if you don't have a lady? Enjoy living the single life. Enjoy being able to go out when you want, where you want, and not having to worry about checking in. Enjoy being able to do most anything you'd like without having to worry about what someone else is going to say about it.
1. I rely on Effexor to keep my mood unchanged x_x
2. I don't go out (as in, parties & social events)
3. So far, my single life has earned me 99% of the TF2 achievements and a ton of hours in misc other games.
4. I am bored out of my mind both at work and at home, and cannot emagine a single job I would want to do in my future for more than 2-3 months at a time... dropped out of my education TWICE in the last of 3 years due to depression... combine that with the 0 girl and you have me stuck in my "cave" with no motivation for doing anything but what I am told to, and have to do...
[/self pity]
Last edited by FloppY_ (2009-08-19 14:50:16)