Ehmcminty wrote:
You might as well do it..uevjHEYFFQ wrote:
Most refuse temptation to post my own bawwww in the bawwww thread.
Iuno, did you try to make a move or something? o.OuevjHEYFFQ wrote:
Eh
Long story short; partying and drinking all Friday night with a girl I know, we'll call J.
End of the night J says "I'm pretty fucked when it comes to relationships and I don't want a relationship with anyone right now"
Yep, more or less screwed right?
No, not really. She is confiding in you that she struggles with relationships. This is her looking to see how sensitve you are and hoping you may be the answer for her. Be that confidant she is looking for. Worst case scenario is she looks at you as a friend and then says "I could never have a relationship with a friend."mcminty wrote:
Iuno, did you try to make a move or something? o.OuevjHEYFFQ wrote:
Eh
Long story short; partying and drinking all Friday night with a girl I know, we'll call J.
End of the night J says "I'm pretty fucked when it comes to relationships and I don't want a relationship with anyone right now"
Yep, more or less screwed right?
Before she left I said maybe we could spend some more time together without all these people running around.mcminty wrote:
Iuno, did you try to make a move or something? o.OuevjHEYFFQ wrote:
Eh
Long story short; partying and drinking all Friday night with a girl I know, we'll call J.
End of the night J says "I'm pretty fucked when it comes to relationships and I don't want a relationship with anyone right now"
Yep, more or less screwed right?
Damn it Bovine, you told me what I wanted to hear. I was hoping for some other views I haven't considered.LividBovine wrote:
No, not really. She is confiding in you that she struggles with relationships. This is her looking to see how sensitve you are and hoping you may be the answer for her. Be that confidant she is looking for. Worst case scenario is she looks at you as a friend and then says "I could never have a relationship with a friend."mcminty wrote:
Iuno, did you try to make a move or something? o.OuevjHEYFFQ wrote:
Eh
Long story short; partying and drinking all Friday night with a girl I know, we'll call J.
End of the night J says "I'm pretty fucked when it comes to relationships and I don't want a relationship with anyone right now"
Yep, more or less screwed right?
Lol, you should have also said that in the first place. So.. what Livid said.uevjHEYFFQ wrote:
Before she left I said maybe we could spend some more time together without all these people running around.mcminty wrote:
Iuno, did you try to make a move or something? o.OuevjHEYFFQ wrote:
Eh
Long story short; partying and drinking all Friday night with a girl I know, we'll call J.
End of the night J says "I'm pretty fucked when it comes to relationships and I don't want a relationship with anyone right now"
Yep, more or less screwed right?
I hope you're right. Still would love to hear a "you're screwed" opinion though.mcminty wrote:
Lol, you should have also said that in the first place. So.. what Livid said.uevjHEYFFQ wrote:
Before she left I said maybe we could spend some more time together without all these people running around.mcminty wrote:
Iuno, did you try to make a move or something? o.O
My initial one was. Cause if you "made a move" on her, then this was a kinda sugar-coated "no, not interested".uevjHEYFFQ wrote:
I hope you're right. Still would love to hear a "you're screwed" opinion though.
Eh well, I didn't so I guess it's all good then. Well wouldn't hurt to probe a bit further into it with J nothing to lose anyway.mcminty wrote:
My initial one was. Cause if you "made a move" on her, then this was a kinda sugar-coated "no, not interested".uevjHEYFFQ wrote:
I hope you're right. Still would love to hear a "you're screwed" opinion though.
you mean like prom/homecoming dance? or something else?Hurricane2k9 wrote:
i mean what the fuck how come i fail so fucking hard when it comes ot actually picking up chicsk? i can talk to them fine it's the whole asking them to a dance shit that i don't get
Hey wanna dance.Hurricane2k9 wrote:
so i'm fucking lonely when it comes to women for fuck's sake i could've been at a dance last saturday but instead i got to serve customers for four fucking hours
i mean what the fuck how come i fail so fucking hard when it comes ot actually picking up chicsk? i can talk to them fine it's the whole asking them to a dance shit that i don't get
I'm in a similar situation...Uzique wrote:
Hurricane, taking girls out on stupid 'dates' and being their partner at fancy dances isn't the only way to score, you know. That's probably why you don't get the whole "asking them to a dance shit", because it's unnecessary. Just get out more in general, go to house-parties, big events... whatever. Meeting girls at dances/balls is like the complete extreme of the spectrum, with sitting inside on your computer being the other polar opposite.
Sort of ^^ I've only posted in here once, but I've been with my girlfriend 4 months on the 17thuevjHEYFFQ wrote:
Unrelated question has this thread ever given any advice that has led to success?mcminty wrote:
My initial one was. Cause if you "made a move" on her, then this was a kinda sugar-coated "no, not interested".uevjHEYFFQ wrote:
I hope you're right. Still would love to hear a "you're screwed" opinion though.
Regardless of how people around you put you in a bad spot, the important thing at the end of the day is to take care of your boy the best way possible.JahManRed wrote:
Ok, heres mine.
Was with a girl for 5 years. Had a kid together. I left her, we got back together, I slept with an old flame, I left her again, for good. Then for the next 18 months she makes me feel like shit about being unfaithful to her. When you have a kid with a woman, you are in each others life for good, even after you split up. Then it came out at Christmas that my ex has been having an affair with my sisters husband. My ex was a brides made at my sisters wedding and is then having an affair with the groom, less than a year after they got married. So it turns out my sisters husband has been promising my EX and my sister the world and has fucked up the both of them. Now my ex is so fucked up and disgraced that she is taking my son and moving away. So basically he has fucked up my sisters life, my Ex's life and my sons life.
I have made sure the word has got to him that I am happy to do time in jail if I ever see him again and he would be best to get as far away as possible. (He has now left the country.) Since then my Ex has tried to kill herself. Her sister found her just in time and got her to hospital. So I have my ex going to counseling with my support. This pisses off my sister because I am helping her. But it is for the good of my kid that his mother is stable. I got my family pressuring me to take my kid from her. I probably could, but a boy needs his mum and she is a good mother, she just has issues from her own childhood. And now in the middle of all this the woman who I was unfaithful with has confessed her love to me and wants to quit her well paid job in Scotland and take a step down the ladder and move back and work here to be closer to me. Selling her apartment at the worst time and leaving all her friends. I don't know what to do. After such a head frying few years with my ex, I have this other girl wanting to leave her entire life behind to come and be with me. Shes super smart, fit(runs marathons) hot and is a consulting physiotherapist. Only thing is, its serious pressure to start any relationship off with. If we don't get on or it doesn't work out, she has nothing. I really don't know what to do and this girl needs to know what I want her to do asap. eek.