This can only be sorted out on the Jeremy Kyle Show!!!
ITT: lots of immature wankers
Sit down and chat about it- why he & she did it, what did she feel etc.
But your clearly pissed off to care for this girl a lot, so give her a chance. Don't write your relationship off over this.
Sit down and chat about it- why he & she did it, what did she feel etc.
But your clearly pissed off to care for this girl a lot, so give her a chance. Don't write your relationship off over this.
Small hourglass island
Always raining and foggy
Use an umbrella
Always raining and foggy
Use an umbrella
Do you have kids?
Attraction is not a choice. They did it because they were attracted to each other, logic flies out the window and emotions take over, shit happens.
At least she told you about it, forgive her for it, she obviously loves you a lot if she calls while shes crying and feeling sad.
At least she told you about it, forgive her for it, she obviously loves you a lot if she calls while shes crying and feeling sad.
Keep the relationship, but at least now you know the rules are relaxed and/or you have one "free pass" should you ever choose to folly with another female or ......why do I always use such stupid gay words like that.
Basically you know how it is now, so keep it in mind.
I personally, am a person that really can't trust most people in this world, including myself, so I'd probably call it off. Depends on how much I like her, I wouldn't want to seem desperate though, keeping someone that you know cheated on you can look either desperate or it can look like you're a good person. Fuck if I know. We don't know enough about your relationship to tell you what to fucking do man. Don't come here for advice. How the fuck are we supposed to know how it's been between you two since you've been together.
Basically you know how it is now, so keep it in mind.
I personally, am a person that really can't trust most people in this world, including myself, so I'd probably call it off. Depends on how much I like her, I wouldn't want to seem desperate though, keeping someone that you know cheated on you can look either desperate or it can look like you're a good person. Fuck if I know. We don't know enough about your relationship to tell you what to fucking do man. Don't come here for advice. How the fuck are we supposed to know how it's been between you two since you've been together.
Last edited by Mek-Stizzle (2008-11-04 04:27:07)
If you take this ^ advice you will somehow fuck everything up, don't listen to Skittles, ever, or me.Mek-Stizzle wrote:
Keep the relationship, but at least now you know the rules are relaxed and/or you have one "free pass" should you ever choose to folly with another female or ......why do I always use such stupid gay words like that.
Read my edit, I put it some better information there. Also fu Mr Ollie "Remind you of someone" Bond
I <3 u bothMek-Stizzle wrote:
Read my edit, I put it some better information there. Also fu Mr Ollie "Remind you of someone" Bond
but we digress
chin up mate, chat it through
Small hourglass island
Always raining and foggy
Use an umbrella
Always raining and foggy
Use an umbrella
DonFck wrote:
It's just a kiss. Ok, you'd feel better if she hadn't told you - but she apparently needed to get it off her chest because of all the guilt she was feeling. Guilt = she obviously values your relationship and doesn't want anything to ruin it. So while ignorance is bliss, getting to know about it means that she cares.
She made a mistake - we all do. At some point you might find your self in the same situation, then you'll be the one with the guilt gnawing you.
Had I done that to you (baby, snookums), I'd also have told, knowing that receiving the news sucks bollocks, and being selfish enough to hurt you with that information, but hopeful that my truthfulness would enable us to build on our relationship even further. I did that once to a girl, back in the day, 1999. But because I felt like shit, I ended the relationship and spent the next 2 years or so single. I ended up regretting that decision for a long time.
Meet up with her as soon as you possibly can. Preferrably.. ..now.
1) Express your dislike/anger/frustration for what has happened, but immediately after that, go to step 2
2) Forgive
2) It was probably her "old friend" that made all the advances - you should tell your girlfriend that if she doesn't set him straight, you will.
3) Do your best to not let this come between you. I know it hurts, but it's just a kiss. Probably just one kiss and that's all. If she still wants to be with you, stay by her side and let time heal all wounds. If this was the first time, then it probably will be the only time.
Go see her.
domestic abuse, gogogo
#rekt
and they can't pee standing up.Beduin wrote:
Women... Cant live with them,cant live without them..
She told you. That counts for something. Give her a pass on it. And beat the shit out of the "friend"
I stood in line for four hours. They better give me a Wal-Mart gift card, or something. - Rodney Booker, Job Fair attendee.
that is if the friend knew about you, if he was clueless then don'tDBBrinson1 wrote:
and they can't pee standing up.Beduin wrote:
Women... Cant live with them,cant live without them..
She told you. That counts for something. Give her a pass on it. And beat the shit out of the "friend"
what kind of kiss was it? like a 3 minute makeout or a simple kiss on the lips?
There is no such thing as a "simple" kiss on the lips....Kimmmmmmmmmmmm wrote:
what kind of kiss was it? like a 3 minute makeout or a simple kiss on the lips?
However passionate kisses do mean a lot...
Anyway good luck with you choice and hope you get things sorted out .
You suck that's what.Mek-Stizzle wrote:
Read my edit, I put it some better information there. Also fu Mr Ollie "Remind you of someone" Bond
Beat the shit out of her with an aluminum bat...
So seriously, just forget about it.
So seriously, just forget about it.
fuck that. drop her and move on.
Personally I wouldn't ask for advice from 16 year olds on an internet forum.
Something really similar happened between me and my (current) girlfriend. When she told me i just thought well it was a mistake, no big deal. Well, she didn't have sex with the guy but something more than just kissing did happen between them; at this point i damn near broke up with her. After this point she ended up feeling so bad about what happened that by her own will she will not go out with another guy unless i am there to.ELITE-UK wrote:
She and I dont drink, the relationship has been rock solid, apparently it was just a old friend or something. I told her that i wasnt mad at her, but in reality i am mad, but im not at the same time...its killing me[TUF]Catbox wrote:
was she drinking? Has your relationship been okay lately... ?
any red flags recently... her dressing nicer or losing any weight?
Her kissing someone else can be a blip on the radar or a deal breaker... I would try and be cool and let her explain... people make mistakes...
If you wen't out and had a few beers and some girl was being flirty and you ended up kissing her..and you felt bad
you would hope your girlfriend would understand... she sounds like she knows she screwed up...
If your relationship is strong... try and work it out... if not... ?
Basically what I'm trying to say is, she was honest with you, and by the way it seems, she will continue to be so. Hope that nothing more happens but brace yourself for the worse and if she honestly feels that bad about it, she will do things to make sure something like that doesn't happen again (hopefully)
And i personally am 19 so i say i'm a little more qualified to make a statementHakei wrote:
Personally I wouldn't ask for advice from 16 year olds on an internet forum.
At the age of 19 you know nothing about women. I am 30, married, kids, house, blazey blah and I know jack shit about women. They are a mystical evil being sent from the firey depths of Hell with only one weapon. Pussy. Pussy causes wars, fights, death, breakups, hookups, STD's, debt, divorce, weddings, Maury Povich episodes, and much much more. If you think you got it figured out at 19 you are nuts. You will never figure out women, none of us will. Just hold on for the ride and help each other out along the way , it's all we can do.sad fish wrote:
And i personally am 19 so i say i'm a little more qualified to make a statement
Malloy must go
*bitch slaps*deeznutz1245 wrote:
At the age of 19 you know nothing about women. I am 30, married, kids, house, blazey blah and I know jack shit about women. They are a mystical evil being sent from the firey depths of Hell with only one weapon. Pussy. Pussy causes wars, fights, death, breakups, hookups, STD's, debt, divorce, weddings, Maury Povich episodes, and much much more. If you think you got it figured out at 19 you are nuts. You will never figure out women, none of us will. Just hold on for the ride and help each other out along the way , it's all we can do.sad fish wrote:
And i personally am 19 so i say i'm a little more qualified to make a statement
I feel we need more information.. Are you married? Do you have Kids? Living together?
These are all things to actually consider.. The bigger picture is can you forgive her..
These are all things to actually consider.. The bigger picture is can you forgive her..
Good God....deeznutz1245 wrote:
At the age of 19 you know nothing about women. I am 30, married, kids, house, blazey blah and I know jack shit about women. They are a mystical evil being sent from the firey depths of Hell with only one weapon. Pussy. Pussy causes wars, fights, death, breakups, hookups, STD's, debt, divorce, weddings, Maury Povich episodes, and much much more. If you think you got it figured out at 19 you are nuts. You will never figure out women, none of us will. Just hold on for the ride and help each other out along the way , it's all we can do.sad fish wrote:
And i personally am 19 so i say i'm a little more qualified to make a statement
I stood in line for four hours. They better give me a Wal-Mart gift card, or something. - Rodney Booker, Job Fair attendee.
+1deeznutz1245 wrote:
At the age of 19 you know nothing about women. I am 30, married, kids, house, blazey blah and I know jack shit about women. They are a mystical evil being sent from the firey depths of Hell with only one weapon. Pussy. Pussy causes wars, fights, death, breakups, hookups, STD's, debt, divorce, weddings, Maury Povich episodes, and much much more. If you think you got it figured out at 19 you are nuts. You will never figure out women, none of us will. Just hold on for the ride and help each other out along the way , it's all we can do.sad fish wrote:
And i personally am 19 so i say i'm a little more qualified to make a statement
He's not wrongdeeznutz1245 wrote:
At the age of 19 you know nothing about women. I am 30, married, kids, house, blazey blah and I know jack shit about women. They are a mystical evil being sent from the firey depths of Hell with only one weapon. Pussy. Pussy causes wars, fights, death, breakups, hookups, STD's, debt, divorce, weddings, Maury Povich episodes, and much much more. If you think you got it figured out at 19 you are nuts. You will never figure out women, none of us will. Just hold on for the ride and help each other out along the way , it's all we can do.sad fish wrote:
And i personally am 19 so i say i'm a little more qualified to make a statement